I was recently unfairly attacked by a reviewer and TER is siding with him. I've sent plain verification selfies and urged admins to compare with the abundance of photos I have posted on my website.

Here is my verification selfie sent to TER.
TER sides with the reviewer.

First off, no you don't look like a 50 year old, but what has age have to do with compassion or intimacy? Not much.

have a "no review" policy per your FAQ, how did a new review even get posted? Why are your reviews still currently accessible? Sounds like you delisted to me.

If I were the TER admins I would not consider this sufficient proof or anything. You've got on bad review so just let it go. Making a big deal here -- even if the person was rude/spiteful -- doesn't really help your case.

Pics look representative.  Profile looks accurate.  You don't seem like some of the ladies that are using 10+ year old pics and/or creating a new TER profile (presumably to look younger) vs. adhering to TER rules (it is my understanding that these are rules) and reactivating/combining profiles.

... the last thing you need to do is bring the drama to the boards. And I say this for your own good. Most of the seasoned mongers know how to discount one off reviews, and attribute something as someone's opinion. If you know for sure your age is accurate, don't worry about anything..  

You certainly do not look fifty -just hot. See profile claims 20’s and know of a number who trim their age by a few years. That being said twenty plus years is a lot to trim and think would have most guy turning around at the door if true.  
Read a number of reviews and do not get any sense of age deception from others.
Wish you luck with TER but not real hopeful- have seen providers not able to get rid of fakes here even when complimentary and scores above average.

an evaluation from the customer's perspective, not the provider's.  Like others here, my own opinion of your appearance is antithetical to the review in question.  With that said, I see a lot of providers with your slender body type, and yes, many are older than how they appear in their photos, but they ALL take good care of themselves and appear 10-15 younger than they really are.  For me, it's the best of both worlds.  I get a provider with the experience to rock my world in the bedroom but who looks a lot younger than she really is.  One man's hot babe can be another man's OTHFB, but there is no way you could be mistaken for an OTHFB, so shrug it off in the knowledge you still have it when it comes to looks and move on.  Factored into 27 reviews, his will not damage your average, and most reasonable customers will see it as an outlier, and not the norm.  Take solace in the knowledge that you are the kind of woman most of us would be happy to be seen in public with.  I can't say that for many in this biz.  

Someone who has never met you cannot speak about you personally.

it's that the review is not a fake. The meeting actually happened.

And you get the sense that this guy had a hard on, in a bad way about the way the date was scheduled.But I doubt TER will do anything about it so you're going that have to let it slide.Most guys would probably discard that one review anyways, it's what we do. Just hope it isn't a pattern.
Now, being a frequent visitor to Vegas and although we have never met, I know of you and I haven't heard anything of this nature about you from my "homies"...lol

Pictures can be deceiving. Some people look great for their age, others,  not so much. The age of the viewer also has a lot to do with the impression of your age.  

You have to read reviews knowing that some people are always going to complain.  Ever try reading product reviews on Amazon?  There is always someone complaining among other stellar reviews.
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As a shopper i take such into account and discount very high and very low reviews-- the outliers.

Why in the world would you care what one, mindless idiot posted?   The ratings on every single one of your other reviews are stellar.  Who would you believe if a 5-star hotel received as many 5 star reviews and one "unfair" review on Yelp; the one "unfair" review or the countless stellar reviews?

... just because he has an opinion that this provider looks 50, is rather baffling.

Let it go!!

the village idiot looks totally sane--to other village idiots.  Think about it.

So I'm not very fluent in English, but if I read this post correctly you just identified our beloved Little Felcher Boy as the village idiot. Well done.

Are you saying you are the village idiot?

First of all, to anyone who took the time to comment or respond, thank you for your contribution, it is so precious and has definitely helped my case. I’m overwhelmed by the kindness that has been sent my way.  This was simply me bringing light to an accusation I felt was inappropriately directed and misleading. It helps when moderators can see what others have to say. It may also serve as a useful post for new members to remember when reading and writing reviews. You can say a lot about me and my appearance. But, placing me in the 50s and ranting about it in such a degrading language in an attempt to smear, is something we should not welcome.  
I think a little bit of respect goes a long way and if we can just be a bit more mindful of how we treat each other…and just try to be kind…it can help us reach new highs and connect properly and passionately, reducing anxiety when anxiety for most is understandably higher than normal. Orgasms are one of the few lovely things we’re allowed to have right now..

Christie Brinkley is 67, looks much younger and I'd definitely have sex with her!

Someone thinking you look 50 isn't enough grounds for removing or not publishing a review. Please, stop it.  

I don't remember many, if any, such instances.

So far, it has happened 100 percent of the time.  
That said, no guy has ever reported a provider being younger than advertised.

Huh?

We have an Asian Japanese Escort who is 69 and looks pretty amazing her name is Koko

Omg

Thank you for proving my point!  You agree with the "village idiot" and everyone reading your post realizes as much--EXCEPT YOU!

Anyone who "criticises" YOU, is either blind, mentally incompetent, or has an axe to grind.  After looking at your profile and photos, you are clearly one of the absolute most delicious ladies anywhere!

I did not agree with anyone.

On the one hand, it seems to be about the opinion of a particular reviewer and its correctness. That's a question that cannot be answered because there is no one correct opinion--which is why we call them opinion and not fact. We can settle whether someone is 5' 2" tall or whether my car is goung 100 mph, but but there is no way to settle whether I am "right" or "wrong" that peach cobbler tastes like shit to me. De gustibus non est disputandum.

I also read several of this person's other reviews. I will have to take back what I said about not calling names--This guy sounds like a deeply embittered jerk; he seemed to go out of his way to insult and berate and harangue. I hope he can fix his anger and resentment problems before he sees any other women.

This thread is about a person who got mad at an opinion that was not beneficial to her, tried to get this opinion removed, and claimed this opinion as well as ter stance was an attack on her. All while she has a no reviews policy?  

also play in a pearly band on the side?  Lol

Is "pearly band" the term for a Pearl Jam cover band?

Great response ++1

Very true and he definitely needs to get his eyes checked,  The woman he removed before the OP - Model Eve - is a wannable porn star under the name, Eve Marlowe.  She has a recent segment on Tonites Girlfriend.  I saw her about the same time as the reviewer.  He claims she was voluptuous.  She has absolutely zero body fat.  If anything, incredibly slim.

Agree she had a banging body. Maybe his version of beer goggles ADDS 10 pounds.

Not younger than advertised but I've been told quite a few times that I look younger in person than I look in my photos. My body is athletic but with thick thighs, a round ass and 34 DD breasts so it makes me look a bit older in photos I guess compared to very petite women. Sometimes gentleman are completely surprised at how young I look when they meet me 😁 I have a few reviews about it.  

As a hobbyist, the issue for me is analyzing reviews to determine who I may be seeing  (Appearance) and what activities (Performance) we have in common.

...hell-im in my 60's and i still get carded to by a six pack of beer!!!(last week)....for me...being older and wiser but looking younger....makes sharing my past experiences with a new friend MUCH more exciting!......

I thought he articulated his justification quite clearly. That's what the OP appears to have an issue with.

One review out of 31 says she's a "5" in appearance. The other 30 have consistent "10's" and "9s"

There’s not much we can do about a persons opinion unless we can prove that we never saw the person and honestly TER doesn’t even care about that anymore. They used to, but they don’t anymore, or at least that has been my personal experience.  
Try not to let one person bother you

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Not speaking for john but yes. Unless this was an obvious case of trying to extort some special services or I'll give a bad review -- clearly that was not the complaint -- then he certainly has the right to his opinion. As does everyone reading his review.

How do you explain 30, I repeat 30, reviews that are all 10's and 9's for appearance??

I’ve been watching this thread for a while. I just went back and re-read the review in question. While the reviewer might have been harsh in describing OP’s age, he offered many positive thoughts about her performance, giving her 8 out of 10 which is in the ballpark of her prior reviews for performance. If the reviewer was writing out of spite would he have offered so many positive thoughts? I don’t think so. While that doesn’t mean that his assessment of her age is correct, it also doesn’t justify removing the review in my opinion. Especially when one looks at the reviewer’s other reviews which appear to show that he is a tough grader/rater.
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I also looked carefully at the OP’s photos that she posted in the thread. While they don’t look like a 50 year old to me, I can’t say that they look like a 29 year old either. My guess would be late 30s based on the photos.  
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I also agree with Jensen and many others that the OP should let this go. Her thread really draws attention to the one outlier review in her history. Most of us look for trends in reviews. OP’s are overwhelmingly positive. This thread only serves to highlight her one below average review. In my opinion the review in question won’t harm the OP’s business, but this thread might. If I were her I’d ask Admin to delete the thread and move on.
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Lastly, I have a question for the OP. Do you remember the reviewer? Did you actually see him? If the answer is “no” then I think Admin should verify from the reviewer that he had proof of the texts he references in the review. If her answer is “yes” then I stand by what I said above.

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He didn't find her attractive.  He thought she was much older than advertised.  End of story.

I have no need to explain any of that. You have an outlier in the opinion on age and unless you've actually see the woman you cannot say anything about that question. The other reviews don't provide any definitive answer to any one persons opinion on the looks or perceived age.

No one has to justify anything. Lol. What is this madness? What is this appeal to masses garbage? Again, an outlier review does not have to be justified if a non-outlier review doesnr have to be justified. Just because the majority believes something, doesn't make it true.

For this very reason, the thread must stay! As it actually tells fellow mongers that if you wanted to offer a dissenting opinion of this provider, you would be singled out and your opinion will be asked to be removed.  

I could care less whether the thread is removed because I wouldn't see this provider for free based on her pictures. She looks emaciated, almost anorexic, to me. Not my type. My point was that she is the one that started the discussion, and it wound up highlighting the only poor review that she has. Not a very smart move in my opinion.

say things in the heat of the moment that they regret the next day.  I generally have a problem with post-pullers, but in the case of a provider that over-reacted in an emotional moment, I think it's a good option.  The review will still be there, so I think Rocket's comment about removing useful information if you delete the post would be made moot by the review.  

The review does not convey ANY information on how the provider responded/reacted to that review. This thread does, however.  

just ignore what they've agreed to if they don't like.

Calm down, I'm not telling anyone to fuck themselves.

Ethics and Felcher Boy are mutually exclusive.

retains the right to decide who can post at all.  Posting privileges can be revoked at will.  Something to think about before you decide to repost something that TER has decided to delete, IF they decide to delete it at the request of the OP.  It would probably just be a 30-day suspension the first time, but that's going to seem like an eternity to someone like you.  

I find it funny that you're fixating on what I said about reposting, yet did not even attempt to address my main point about how her reaction to the review is nowhere to be found in actual reviews - which is what you claimed initially. That removing this thread does not lose any information.  

Emaciated, almost anorexic, funny I didn't think she looked that heavy, LOL!

Seriously Badger, look at her upper arms in the photo where she’s holding the sign, and her legs in the photo where she’s sitting. They look like toothpicks. Not very healthy IMO. But given her reviews it looks like many gents like that look. Not me.

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"So I'm going to save this thread and make sure if it does get delted, to maybe repost it. "

When I was younger I didn't want to be the mature & older provider, but now that I am in my 40's I am proud to be considered a MILF. Life is our greatest teacher. TER=YMMV
Not everyone is going to be kind, respectful & caring that's why I screen for chemistry. I don't see everyone who inquires. When I was young I was greedy & wanted money. Now, it's about quality connections. Choose wisely.  
Let it go. You know your not 50, but what's wrong with being a beautiful older woman?

I see you now have a rash of new reviews, all very favorably...kudos. Hey but don't hate the player...hate the game.

As you can see there is a "maybe" there and again, I've yet to do this. You're fixating in what I'd say I might do rather than on what some actually advised to do.  

out of why March 2020 was the last time you saw a provider that was worth reviewing.  

Lol at you taking review count as any conclusion. Using your logic can I say the same about Jensen because he also doesn't have recent reviews? Hysterical.

he couldn't receive PM's because he couldn't afford to pay for VIP, so your lack of reviews, which would get you some VIP, militates in the direction that you have not been paying for pussy either.  Just connecting the dots.  

Lol... 4 of the 5 "new" reviews were wrote specifically to rebuff the December 2021 review she's complaining about. 1 reviewer hadn't posted a review in 10 yrs. While for another one, she was his first review ever. Sounds like she ran a "review" special.

I never said I couldn't afford to pay for VIP either. You are wrong, making all kinds of weird assumptions. I may have said my vip lapsed, and that I wasn't in a hurry to renew it. You made up the can't afford part yourself.  

Ah, sounds like the classic "rebuttal reviews" .

Seriously, you didn't pick up on the humor in the reply?

Which in the past was automatic grounds for delisting.  🤦🏻‍♂️

I'm with you PS. Why is that no longer the policy. It worked well.

My bad. I guess I got caught up in reading Felcher Boy's bullshit and missed your humor. Apologies.

they waive that policy if the provider is over 50.

Right.  

No sweat, as long as you got a laugh out of it!  

LOL  

What difference does her age matter  
She’s clearly suffering from extreme anorexia. Which makes one suffering with this disease older than they are.  
But I understand some of you whacked mongers love being jabbed with pelvic bones

Preach! -eom-

Yeah your right The other day I saw a woman on fire and when I call 911 they said I was a bigot for disparaging the woman's lifestyle.  

With all due respect, the topic has nothing to do with her being a skinny twig. I also have my preferences aligned with yours, but I find it weird you keep on hampering on her appearance lol

Yeah your right how dare I just a woman on her looks...on a site that does nothing but judge women.  
Hypocrisy anyone.

I didn't say you can't judge her. I just thought it was offtopic, and you keep bringing it up. That's all. You're certainly more than entitled to your opinion.

married are petrified at the thought of leaving any kind of digital or paper trial that proves they are seeing providers, and that includes writing reviews, so you only need to wonder about the single guys who see you.  Lol

I've found over the years, that only about 10% of clients actually write reviews.

I stopped writing reviews unless requested.