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Seeking advice from Massage Proponents
frankd 10 Reviews 4769 reads
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Proponents of BTB and FBSM service,

I've chatted with several members who prefer BTB to full service.  Please share the advantages - I'm open minded and intend to give this route a try.  Just need to get mentally calibrated.

Is it better mostly because of less risk?  I concede that even with full service, the physical experience is only half the battle.  For a really top notch, "desperately need to see her a again" session," the mental chemistry is at least 50% of the experience.  Is it easier to "fill the mental tank" during BTB sessions?


Bottom line is try it and see.  I am just the opposite.  I have always sought out sensual massage in the past, but am only now beginning to try more full service experiences (many thanks to TER).  Once I've had a few under my belt I will have more info to make my own decision. But I can speak for sensual massage lovers when I say it is a very enjoyable, innocent, erotic experience that is most fulfilling. Good luck in your discoveries!

straightman4671 reads

While I prefer the full experience; sometimes a good massage is just what the doctor orders. Throw in a beautiful woman, some lubricant and the feeling is like, very very nice.

I know of two ladies that do not provide full service but rock my world anyway. would I like to fo F/S with either of them? HELL YES! But they draw the line... And they are better than many f/s provides I've been with. Perhaps it's because there is a connection or a lack of connection with the latter experiences. Maybe it's because the FBSM ladies know how to touch a man so it almost hurts and they like it... They like to see the pain/pleasure look. (Eh Kaitlin???)

It's not so much that FBSM is better that F/S; it's that some FBSM providers just absolutely rock and some F/S providers are not very good at what they are trying to do.

Sometimes a great massage can be just what the doctor ordered.  This can be especially true with the ladies that gifted in the art of hand release.  They can hold you on the edge for virtually an hour or so-and back off at just the correct time.  The ending eruption can be very, very powerful.

I can honestly say that I prefer a well executed B2B over any FS I have ever had for various reasons.
Reason #1:  I have this strange reluctance to be with a lady who has had intercourse with 2 or more men before me, perhaps just a few hours before me. Frankly put, it turns me off.
Reason#2: The health risk is a biggie to me, No matter how much protection is used, protection CAN and WILL fail and I have simply too much to lose to risk possible infection with a social disease.
Reason#3: The top notch B2B ladies like Ria, Ginger, Taylor in Kennesaw (retired?) are so extremely good at sensuality that they far surpass most FS ladies. In a B2B session, the lady has to compensate for the lack of FS, so most become very creative and playful.
Reason#4: From a financial standpoint, the B2B is a better bargain, where most FS in town is between $250 and $350, the average B2B is only between $165 and $180.

Now, it is a good idea to do your research beforehand, because not all B2B ladies are equally good at what they do. Treating the lady of your choice with respect goes  a long way towards a mutually satisfying experience. Submitting to their screening process without whining and complaining is a must and showing up with a flower or a box of candy helps too.
The absolute best B2B I ever had was Belinda who is now retired and sorely missed by many. The next best has got to be the lovely european Ria (Eros, in the top five listings), who is still around (thank god), closely followed by Taylor in Kennesaw, who has disappeared off Eros, so I am not sure if she is still seeing clients.
Another good choice is Ginger(Eros), who is not just sweet but also sexy as hell.

Good luck

Wesley

Wesley,

  Great information.  However, does anyone know of someone that offers these types of services-I mean continued teasing-B2B rubs, and delay or release in the NY/NJ/Philly Area?

seventhson3613 reads

In the right hands massage returns the most bang for the buck. Here in major metro area you could select between sorta grungy chinese places where you have to know which girls to ask for, but get a an excellent massage that can include a wonderous, velvety, extented HJ, oily slow stroke for half an hour leading to an explosive orgasm, then back to another hour or so of regular massage. No oral, maybe some nice tit sucking, its all in the hands, but you get what you get for around 40. per hour. You read that right, forty. Nice tip for regular, very nice for extras. The Chinese reset the price points for the industy, bless their industrious culture.
 Or, you could move into the upper zone where they run about 180 hr. or two girls for about 280. All around a much better deal than f/s... Once you compare, you begin to see the light. A great physical experience is about skin sensations. Massage gives you all these beautiful skin sensation, often significantly more than the average f/s. Do the math. A top of the deck f/s girl will run you ten dollars a minute, a good massage is 3 dollars a minute.

Sevenson,

  Any suggestions-of the best babes at this?

seventhson3746 reads

tragedy struck. walked by the ever reliable chinese place and it was shut. Don't know if it was busted, boosted, or if they had a leak in the basement. Nobody home. Walked over to the local korean place. Facilities one hundred times as nice. They wanted 75 up front for the hour plus all the steam time I felt like. Excellent steamroom filled with herbal vapors. Pores cleaned, took a cold shower, korean lady comes and gets me. Decent uninspired massage by walking all over my back. Turns me over and does a little dick tease. Then says "mmmmmassssage" in a conspiratorial voice. 60 dollah ! Holds up six fingers to insure I get the point. Fugetabowdit. My boner instantly deflates and her maaaasaaage is declined. She looks crestfallen and soldiers on. The dude in the cubicle next to mine goes for it and the oily squisha squisha squisha is clearly audible as is his release sigh-groan. This is a bummer. Turned on I am not. Kenny G's commodified honkified lite jazz isn't doing it like the weird tibetan stuff they played incessantly at the other place. Bwaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 Upon the morrow we shall see how the sexababes uptown fare.

Seventhson,

I read through the provider database and couldn't find any organization requesting just $40 per session.  You comfortable naming any agencies here?

-Hoot.

hate to go against the grain here but full service is the only way to spend your hard earned money.

wesley has good comments but if you are going to spend $200 (with tip) then go with full service. or just get a professional massage for $75, don't mix and match, go with one or the other.

wesley, use a condom and you will have very safe sex. medically, a woman's vagina is cleaner than her mouth or nails. so don't worry.

maybe this is just my frustration with strip clubs. beautiful scenary but if you don't close then major frustration.

hey, if you want a HJ you will probably do better servicing yourself than paying for it.  :)

value best at $200-$300 for great providers in LA. get the real thing.

have fun!


seventhson3796 reads

the research department went out and tried one of the Big City's better regarded white girl gets nekkid, rubs her tits all over you, then HJ place. They want 170 plus tip for the hour. It was okay, but she didn't understand massage nearly as well as she should have, so what you get is a moderately interesting bod experience folowed by a quite passable HJ. If I didn't know better on several fronts, I might have been impressed.... but... these chinese, lucky for me still open for business, they are friends, we have a longstanding connection, when all factors click can deliver a smokin' HJ (yup, there's 8s, 9, and 10s in this category too, all you olympic hopefuls)
that come with an excellent massage, real serious bodywork, not lame oil slathering. In my better moments, I have come at least 18 inches vertical, and this from a creaky middle aged bod. The only negative is the girls like to keep their clothes on, although some do like to have their tits sucked, and one insists that I play with her pussy until she comes too. But, this is in the middle of Big City and at 40 per hour, I can get four hours of complete service for one hour that the wall street suckers are paying for. If my only available HJ was at these top prices, no way, I'd go f/s in a blink

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