Curiosity is human nature. It is no big deal.

The truth is, us guys (or at least I have) get asked these same sort of questions by providers all the time. Some questions I have fielded:

How did you get into this?
What did you tell your coworkers you are doing?
What are other girls like?
Do other girls do xyz?

and so on.

I think some providers go overboard with their "no questions" privacy policy. If he doesn't care how many guys you've seen, why do YOU care so much?

If you don't want to answer, politely say so, but why this "OMG!!! Can you believe someone asked me this???" It's not some inquisition, just human curiosity.

Honestly, I think the girls who hate these questions hate them because they hate the answers they would give. They prefer to be in self-denial, so it irks them when it gets brought up.

-tessen

I wonder what they think of themselves, associating with a woman using herself in an assembly line process, down-trodden, afraid, dealing with the dregs of society.  who ELSE would use this service? right? deviants, degenerates.

Here is the one I hate:

"Do the hotels give you 'problems' when you visit?"
or something to that affect.
!!
The answer is 'no'.  I look like a normal person. I accentuate the decor of nifty hotels as I pass thru the lobby.
Valets love me becuz I tip generously.
Hotels cater to people visiting.  That is why it exists as a business.  

Now why do these men think any hotel would not want me to be there? Becuz in their mind I'm some scourge of society.  Trolling around hotel lobbies propositioning men, wearing my thong and 6" plastic stripper heels?

It makes me feel so disappointed and insulted and am turned off completely when I hear Q's like these.

I've been asked by a few providers during our conversations: "How did you get into this?"....I don't really mind if a lady asks me that question..

However, I do agree with you, that asking a lady questions like: "How many men do you see?" or "Aren't you scared doing what you do?" are questions only a "dipshit" would ask...Good way to ruin the mood of any session with a lady..

Just my 0.02

(Blaze81)

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-- Modified on 7/30/2010 7:25:32 AM

Personal questions best left unasked. As far as asking if you’re scared doing what you do: anyone even remotely attached to reality understands there are risks to your line of work.

Given one theme of men who abuse women is they get off on knowing they’re inflicting fear, I can see how this question could feel creepy; especially when alone, behind closed doors.

But when a man asks you this, in a paradoxical way, perhaps, it could be interpreted as evidence of his ability to empathize with some of the personal risk you take……

combined with not censoring what’s in his head before it comes out of his mouth---which we’re all guilty of now and again…lol…

Never asked that question, but this can be a dangerous business. Those guys are probably just showing concern for your safety (from other guys) in a bumbling way.

When I meet a sweet young provider I like I always want to tell her "be careful out there. There's a bunch of weirdos out there who like to prey on providers."

The only reason to ask her that is to ascertain if she makes more $ than you do, LOL

If you figure 600/year average on your own, you don't have to ask her

Do the math...

I mean, you cringed when you saw me for the first time.

Best not to ask questions but that's just me.

I think most questions are innocent. That said, I don't like to pry so even though providers ask me questions such as, "How often do you see providers?", "Are you going to get married again," I never ask them back.

I don't even know if my ex was a virgin when we met 30 years ago.

I don't ask.  But the lady I saw yesterdays volunteered to say "I've had no client and have been thinking and waiting for you all day babe". Nice to hear.