I was wondering if anyone ever has a "problem" similar to this one.  You set up an hour session with a provider.  Then instead of getting down to business right away as happens often, the first 20-25 minutes are a massage session.  You are able to get into it after this and get off after the real fun begins.  However, due to the amount of time consumed during the first part of the session you do not have sufficient time to "recover" for a satisfying second round.  This is somewhat disappointing, especially when you are looking forward to a 2 pop session.

For the providers out there who do include a somewhat lengthy massage to start the session.  Would it be considered unacceptable to say "can we limit the massage to no more than 10 minutes"?  I have not done this since I don't know how this would be taken.  Alternatively what if I were to say at the beginning of the session that I do not want a massage?

Just want to see what other peoples perspective is on this "problem".

If the massage is running a bit long I just turn over and initiate the "coupling process" I've not had any complaints. I do think it's important the provider be comfortable and if a little massage helps that I'm all for it, but I'm there for something else.

Is this not your dime?  Is she paying you for the hour?

Sheesh...just tell her what you want...It's not all that tough.

And the only "problem" is that you are way overthinking this.

I don't know what providers you're seeing, but I never get offered a massage first and would tell her "no thanks" if she did.  I don't go to providers to get a massage unless you consider it a massage when your cock gets massaged by the inside of her mouth and pussy.

"Then instead of getting down to business right away as happens often, the first 20-25 minutes are a massage session." "Alternatively what if I were to say at the beginning of the session that I do not want a massage?"

If you allow a woman to control you, she won't let you down.
 You don't have to ask or say  anything, if you read her reviews. Just  do it !!  


       Massages are for half time

That's the type of massage I'm talking about liking!!

.........you should be asking if two cups of coffee are included in a one hour date.  
Hugs and Kisses

.........it may be your dime, but every lady has their way of conducting a visit. You must remember, YOU are the one contacting the lady, and if you do not want to play by the lady's rules; see someone who is more accomodating.  Sheesh...........

Hugs and Kisses

Don't think you offended her or anything. 5 minute message is all I need, I'm ready after that. I simply tell them, "I'm ready". Damn, all you gotta do is tell her what you want, its your time.

and we are not mindreaders. Read the websites, and reviews and see what is offered. Not everyone provider starts out with a 25 minute massage session. If that is not what you want, then either straighten that out or find someone else!  It is your hour

Summer

I don't offer massage (specifically says NO on my profile), but if we're doing one thing and you want to do another - just say it or move to it.  I love when a gent helps me figure out what he wants.  Helps us both out.

Thanks for all of the advice everyone, I really appreciate it!!  I guess that is what these boards is for, to help each other out.

It sounds like I just need to take charge of the session from what everyone says.  I am new at this and a bit shy on this type of thing I guess you could say.  I am respecting the women to much and not myself enough.  Next time I will break out of my comfort zone and make sure that I do not walk out of the session disappointed because of this.  

be sure to find out first if a second pop is even allowed by the provider. Some only allow one, some allow MSOG. (If you don't know what MSOG means, go to the dictionary provided in the self-help manual.)

Have fun!

if the gal is only doing a massage (as the OP suggests), and I am paying for a FS appointment, then I would want to know BEFORE I get there if that is her "typical session" (that's what the reviews are for).  If the OP didn't read a review, and her "rules" are to spend 1/2 the session on a massage (to kill time) then shame on him (and he sugggests he is new to this, hence my suggestion to post on the "newbie" board).

But since the OP asked two very basic type questions here (back to back), he should really spend some serious time on the newbie board reading and learning how to play the game.

Or we will just see more posts from him asking about B&S, C&D and other fun topics since he has no clue at the moment how the ladies are playing him.  As many others have already commented, he needs to "take charge" within the ladies rules (hence he needs to read her reviews to know the rules and decide if her rules work for him).