How long to wait before trying to book another escort? If you email on p411 or directly, and receive no response for two days, is that long enough?

I wait 24 hrs.  In this day and age when everyone is connected 100% of the times not getting a response in 24 hrs only means that they don't want to communicate  - maybe taking a break, unorganized (get too many emails), your email didn't meet their requirements..  what have you !!!  Doesn't matter.

but I think that is being fairly generous.

For me, it’s two days. After that, I move on. On a few occasions, I had providers contact me later. Every time, I learned it was a sign of what was to come.

A 24-hour response time is reasonable during the traditional workweek, sure. But weekends are different. These tragically wonderful and wonderfully tragic devices have conditioned us to expect instant communication, but not everyone is glued to their phone 24/7. And many escorts, who feel like they are chronically online to prove they're real, really value taking time offline. Some of us are juggling other careers, businesses, school, family. Some only check their inboxes during set hours. Some prioritize answering inquiries for longer dates or from existing clients first. There’s no universal formula.

If you hate providers constantly checking their phone while they are in session with you, then you may consider being more patient.

Context matters too...
I can see your suggestion to prescreen as a generally good thing, but I know at least one provider who responds curtly, or sometimes rudely, to any contact that does not request a meeting that same day or the next day.  That is her policy, as stated in her ads.  
So part of the context is the personality and policies of the provider in question.  
Or, in brief, YMMV.

At the end of the day, there isn’t one formula for all providers. Some are literally glued to their devices and tend to respond in under 24 hours. I would say even for those who aren’t glued, usually it’s no longer than 48 hours. Anything longer, there’s usually a reason. It can be a good one or bad one.

IOW, if the date you want is less than 7 days away, give her at least 24 hours. 1-2 weeks...48 hours. 2+ weeks...72 hours. Contacting on the weekend, or around a holiday, and I would add a day to the above.

I've had some women tell me that my email ended up in their spam folder.  

and 2 hours with an agency.   I consider them both a "reasonable" waiting period.   A provider or agency that takes longer than this will probably have additional problems running their business that contribute to NOT being able to give a timely response.

Your last sentence really nailed it. I'll give a provider 3 or 4  days to reply to my request, since my situation is a bit different than most. Sometimes a complete lack of a reply says just as much about a provider as a reply would have.

I agree wholeheartedly.    

Oh, my goodness!  I can't imagine more than a few hours to start a conversation.  

Thanks for stating on your site that you don't see women or couples. It helps eliminate the need for a follow-up email that would have otherwise been needed to be sent. I wish all providers included this info on their personal page. It would save me time👍

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I received a response several days later.  The provider said she was Ukrainian and couldn’t come to the country because of new immigration rules.  Which opens up a whole new subject.

Reply time depends on the booker / provider.  I have a few bookers, mostly for kgirls, who respond within 5 minutes! Some may take an hour or two. I allow a half a day to a day for someone I’m not familiar with. I usually book for next day or two days out for more popular providers, so I can’t wait long before moving down my to do list. If a provider responds late, after I’m set for a requested session, I just say sorry I already made plans, but I’ll get back to her about next week! That usually keeps everyone happy.

...then I'll follow up. Unless, of course, her site has given me some indication of expectations. Then I just double that and follow up.

It's a number game!

...and you are dealing with a real person who is probably crazy busy.