I have been with providers who have No Gag and can deliver a great throat fuck because of it but in general I have found it really turns me on when they do go down and make that Gagging sound. Its really hot to me to hear it and I also find that it helps the girl to get her spit really flowing. and I was just with a girl who was truly awesome at this.

Also, check out my advise a thread or two down about getting your provider a topical to spray her uluva with before the BJ. It's as easy to use as a breath freshener. So the gagging thing can be turned off and on if you plan ten minutes ahead. Some, it seems, are unaware that such a product is out there, and they seem to love it. They can easily slip it into their purse and use it on all their outcalls as well. They'll treasure it and you for your thoughtfulness!

Different strokes I guess but gagging to me is a preliminary to vomiting and I am not into Roman showers.

As long as the girl is ok with the particular positions that put her into that gagging/nogagging situation, I'm indifferent whether she gags or not.

In a review I read, the guy talked about the provider dt'ing the guy, and him jamming it down her throat until tears came from her eyes. I think he was trying to sound cool. To me he sounded like an asshole.  

a guy who wants to be dominated, just want's to be dominated?

Last thing that I want to do is hurt a girl I'm with (except a playful nip or spank) and gagging is a little to SM for me.

I do not consider it a power thing at all and in no way have I ever try to force a girl to do it as they were the ones to instigate it. Actually I just think the sound of it is hot and again I like how they get the spit really going from it. In truth i have never really been into a girl leaning her head back off the bed so as to stuff a cock down her throat kind of thing as I much prefer a girl to do it how she likes it, always works out much better for me