And something that involves intimacy, often with a hot woman much younger than yourself? Thats easier said than done right? I will grant you that is much more easily achieved with experienced, and the more the better, but I doubt many have ever possessed that skill set very early on in their p4p dating history. That just goes against human nature.
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To answer your question from my perspective, I wish someone told me not to base my attraction on presented online photos or stated age as they are many times greatly altered/exaggerated. I was awful at the start of researching the women I was about to bed, so my beginning foray into this lifestyle was very frustrating indeed.
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But again, those skills were not innate as they were learned through trial and error. As time went by, I honed my spidey sense and used a website I am posting on now to greatly help. I was also fortunate enough to find a few mentors who guided me through the shark infested waters of p4p in those early days.