the warm towel is a nice touch. Don't need her to wipe me down.
I usually bring a beverage or two for us both, but a snack.. fruit, cheese & crackers, chocolates to pair with it; that's appreciated. I always book 2+, and there is always some warmup and some downtime. Sharing food and drink is the oldest method in the "welcome" and relaxation handbook IMO
I always have my red light bulbs (no candles because I'm a klutz and would rather not burn down a Hilton), champagne and boner jams, but I'm curious what other little things are nice to see?
and then you start in with the weird BDSM shit. She's a hot babe, can't we just fuck her normally instead of tying her up and gagging her? What's wrong with you man? LOL.
Sometimes you just freak me out CPA. Why the hell does LR like you again? Remind me, lol.
But out of all the trolls, RT is my favorite. Some of his stuff actually make me laugh (I mean at the post, vs. just at him )Plus, seems like all the others are gone. (udolt, fidiot, assclad, dungy...)
Mouthwash, cups for mouthwash, enough hand towels, regular towels, a non girly smelling shower gel, sparkling and still bottles of water, varied wine bottles in my wine refrigerator, Soothing music (Sade, chill music from Pandora), massage oil, if you prefer no candles I burn a nice smelling oil, and I also have gum for the road just in case...
There is something about showing up, going into a shower, and finding BAR SOAP that smacks of something unsanitary. Shower gel or at least soft soap, liquid soap is my preference.
soft lighting... not sure about red bulbs though... I do fine with jar candles & often take them. ALWAYS put them on a fireproof surface like a saucer or metal coaster of appropriate size. (When the candle burns down, the glass can get hot!) Or flameless imitation candles are now available.
Music... several tracks (Ladies lime them to know when intervals are approaching) choice of music type. Music helps to mask sex sounds... aim the speaks toward the door better to mask the sound but soft enough to be only background music in the bed area. I want US to be the focus, it is not a concert... at least not that kind.
TV is low class unless it's porn & not all like porn. I prefer my action to be the only action going on. Porn might be inspiration between rounds. I have caught girls (because no lady would do so) watching soaps during the action, of course service was second rate.
A soft drink or water or a hot beverage might be an ice breaker but not really much time in an hour session unless you have relaxed time limits. One Fav Gal clearly only tracks the action time... Unless the gent will take the remaining beverage with him as he leaves... done that too.
A lady provided a chair for me to undress & leave my clothes... actually she undressed me (thanks Joy! XO). I morphed that into a corner of the dresser for certain things plus the chair.
With a certain Fav Gal... I know I'll be the only one that day... I stop & get fixings for us to prepare a lunch... usually some sort of meat/salad. Of course package sizes are way more than we use & she keeps all excess for her own use. It's a lot of fun & it solves the problem of long drive with no food.
Another set up includes a joint shower... her laundry bill must be huge... but it's a lot of fun. She had substantial handrails added to the shower.
moved away, kept a small crock pot type device on the bed table to keep wash clothes warm and moist. A very nice touch for cleaning Mr. Happy after each round.
I agree that bottled water is a nice inexpensive touch. I have had ladies offer snacks consisting of crackers, cheese, fruit, chocolates, etc. for the "get to know you time" or between rounds time, especially if it is a multi-hour date.
the warm towel is a nice touch. Don't need her to wipe me down.
I usually bring a beverage or two for us both, but a snack.. fruit, cheese & crackers, chocolates to pair with it; that's appreciated.
I always book 2+, and there is always some warmup and some downtime. Sharing food and drink is the oldest method in the "welcome" and relaxation handbook IMO
.a bottle of water for the road. I thought that was a nice touch. I also had one ask me to spend the night with her after we went drinkin/dancin. Too much? Lol
But it seems that every provider I have seen has the temperature kind of cool.. and the pillows and comforters on the bed very sparse.. so I end up fighting for pillow space when chilling while snuggling a bit during recovery.. and the room temp is a little unpleasant..
In order to be a great host. You must be able to think quick... Shoot from the hip. It's over my head.. You amazing women.. I can say I know how to please a customer though.
It's all about seeing a situation, then reacting to it... Seems stupid.. I know... But I could tell how the lady I was serving liked her steak just by talking to her about anything. I knew how her husband would react to her oredering just by looking at him. It's a sorta psychic thing I know most escorts have.
But yes, for a quality provider that should go without saying. My point was I don't need or desire anything beyond the basics. Everything else is frills and I don't need frills.
Provider-induced fires in hotel rooms make for great stories. I agree about keeping the candles out of the picture after a rather "hair-owwing" experience I once had. Don't ask...
Candles or the battery fake kind are good. I like them but don't have to have them. You're red light bulbs sound interesting.
A place to put my clothes. It's nice for her to hang them and some do but I'd like to have a Valet chair or similar to place them on as I undress. While this is not essential it is more important than the candles or music.
Music - I like cool jazz, classic rock, or blues. It's nice to have it playing while I'm there. Not the radio with commercials or talk.
I like soft drinks before/after sessions. Being in Atlanta of course Coca-Cola is my drink of choice.
Soap or shower gel without fragrance.
I agree with perfectstorm on all he listed. Fortunately in my experience those have been a given.
How about some air fresheners and nice music? That always seems to enhance the romantic setting for gfe. Also how about some nice conversational pieces, as well as some fine art. That is a good place to start.
As much as I wanna make you guys happy, I am not lugging a fucking sculpture into a hotel.
Besides, I have plenty of fine art permanently etched into my skin. I'm a walking conversation piece.
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How about some air fresheners and nice music? That always seems to enhance the romantic setting for gfe. Also how about some nice conversational pieces, as well as some fine art. That is a good place to start.
offer 'incall' the way 'I' want and envision (not in a hotel), it would be insanely awesome..(cough...I**n lol). But I can't. So I'll leave it with this...I am a 'detail' kinda gal (in case it isn't obvious). And who knows what the 'future' holds. For you gals who are able to offer 'true' incall, kudos to you.
A clean room, clean bed, clean shower -soap, and clean towels. Clean glasses for water/wine or drinks Chair/clothes rack or hanger for clothes. Appropriate room temperature Music yes but NO TV on when I arrive
The small crockpot next to the bed with warm towels is the best thing. Gatorade or cold bottled water. Depending on the time of day and duration, I'll bring a bottle of Champagne or two. Relaxing music. Don't get me wrong, I love Motorhead, Foo Fighters, Metallica, etc., but there's a time and place for everything. I mix serious boner jams. Multiple towels, just in case things get a bit out of control. Dixie cups with travel bottle sized mouthwash available. Sealed new inexpensive toothbrush and travel tooth paste
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BTW...she's not on TER but nevertheless...it would work for me!
