Most men wouldn't even care driving 45 miles to see a provider, some may even drive more. I usually average about 30 miles. If convenience, safety, and a piece of mind is important to you, then 10-20 miles should be irrelevant. Ask yourself, would the client care about this? Would the staff be suspicious about your activities? Will this affect your business? If yes, then move on and book another place. A couple of dollars here, and a couple of miles there is nothing towards your safety and reputation.
Also, don't ever think that you r stuck. There r usually more than one option, and you don't have to settle for anything you don't want. Good luck.
I am touring in a new city and I made the stupid mistake of not asking before hand whether there was a keyed elevator. NOW I am stuck because there are no other rooms available on such short notice unless I want to slum it or go 10-20 miles away from where I was supposed to be. Men, how do you feel about this stuff and women WTF do I do?
Please let me know what to (whatI should) do ![]()
signed,
One Pissed Off Ho-Bo
and even that isn't considered prohibitively too far in my book as long as I got a few hours advance notice.
( some guys here fly hundreds of miles just for an hr or 2 session. )
As long as I really wanted to see the girl and was interested enough to book her to begin with,
a 10 ~ 20 mile additional drive isn't going to faze me..... but maybe that's me. lol
A keycard hotel will be a turn off but I've seen cases where a lady arranged to meet me downstairs.
I've seen her photos I recognized her. We didn't say anything, other than really acting as if we're strangers.
Pretending we don't know each other and got on the elevator with others. Constantly texting back and forth in the mean time. lol
That can actually add to the fun, now that I think about it.
In the wrong city at the wrong time that can be 2 hrs.
My suggestions would have been that you can either leave your room and go downstairs (preferably outside) to meet your client, or you can call the front desk, tell them you are expecting a visitor, and have them give your visitor a guest key. Another way to do this is to coordinate with your client, so that he steps into the elevator with you. I've faced this predicament as a hobbyist several times, and these were the solutions the ladies' used. Note that in all cases where this occurred, though, I had previously met with the lady, so we were both comfortable with taking these steps. In your case, if you are meeting new clients only, these suggestions probably won't work.
Good luck...I suggest instead that outcall should be your mode of operation on this trip. Wish I could be more helpful.
Most men wouldn't even care driving 45 miles to see a provider, some may even drive more. I usually average about 30 miles. If convenience, safety, and a piece of mind is important to you, then 10-20 miles should be irrelevant. Ask yourself, would the client care about this? Would the staff be suspicious about your activities? Will this affect your business? If yes, then move on and book another place. A couple of dollars here, and a couple of miles there is nothing towards your safety and reputation.
Also, don't ever think that you r stuck. There r usually more than one option, and you don't have to settle for anything you don't want. Good luck.
Calling ahead to ask a hotel if their elevators are key only might arouse suspicion.
You are obviously staying at a nicer hotel. Most nice hotels have a general access floor open to the public which houses a restaurant, bar, meeting rooms, business center etc. Instruct your clients to take the elevator and access the GA floor and you meet him there.
The lobby is probably large enough where he can kill time on a couch or something away from drawing interest from the front desk. Once he has arrived you can come down and meet him.
If the place has a bar, meet at the bar for a quick drink.
Having you coordinate with him to meet at the elevator as you come down is tricky but not impossible.
Hotels that key your card to specific floors is getting more popular and create additional issues but not impossible to deal with.
There are no high volume prostitutes. Everyone here says they are 'low volume' and 'exclusive'.
Now you wouldn't call and say "do you need a key to get on the elevator? Oh you don't... Great, I'll book the room. I just hate security.
The best practice would be to call and when you find out they don't require a key to tell the clerk that you won't be booking. Then the prostitute can go online and book the room.
This has happened to me many times and you have given the same info I would have.
Lucky for me I am/was a low volume provider.
The one thing that was an issue was not being able to be dressed seductively. There is no way I would call attention to myself, so I let my friends know that I would be dressed down when I met them on the public floor.
Just relax and do your best.
You are only obligated for one-day of stay. Workaround for day, find another hotel and check out.
Please let me know what to (whatI should) do
signed,
One Pissed Off Ho-Bo
But maybe you are OK where you are. A lot depends on how busy you are. Honestly, if you are seeing guys all day and night you are in the wrong place. Hotel staff will get suspicious fast if they see you constantly meeting guys in the lobby or walking out of the hotel bar with different men all day. On the other hand, if you see only a few clients a day you can meet them on one of the public access floors or maybe in the bar. I don't recommend meeting anyone in the lobby in plain view of the front desk.
I had a provider meet me at the elevator once. It seemed like a good idea until I noticed, as I was waiting, that there was a security camera pointing directly at the bank of elevators...
This gives you the opportunity to meet in public and if you wear no panties under your dress, it gives opportunity for a nice feel-up in the elevator, or you could flash him if he's the shy type. I have been on the hobbyist side of this kind of greeting many times. Though I have to admit, I prefer a naked girl in high heels peeking from behind the door as my first meeting.
Most hotels will have a snack shop or some other kind of area that you can "bump" into your date and discreetly hand him off a key (or slip it into his pocket) to your room. Have him wait a few minutes before he comes up to your room so that you won't be seen leaving the area together. It works here in Vegas and I have done it many times when the gentleman is in town with many colleagues and he doesn't want to be seen with the provider.
Love being sneaky!
Walk into the elevator as adults? Whywjt all the sneaking around to rise suspicion? Have you ever seen a man and good looking woman meet in the hotel lobby and walk into the elevator or restaurant?
Hotel staff has other duties instead of watching your single move. Next time you are Ina city you have visited before, say month or so ago, walk into the hotel you stayed before and ask them; "don't you remember me"?
And see what answer you get .
Here is different experience. I was with provider last week in an upscale hotel about 10:30 am and as were laying in bed, the provider tells me I called the front desk asking them to delay the house keeper and asks me what you want to bet, they are going to knock on the door?
Sure enough, 12: 30, knock, knock! She gets up completely naked, didn't even wrap her body, calmly opens the door an tells the house keeper to back in an hour. That my friends is confidence and handling it as any normal (except the naked part) would handle it.
That instance, she became my ATF. It was first encounter. Remember, there is no law against two adults having sex in a hotel room. It is all in the way you handle it, even when someone busts in.
A friend was over to see me in my room this morning. I told the front desk I would be checking out late and do not have housekeeping come by before checkout. My friend was soaking the the jacuzzi while I was down getting a couple cups of coffee for us. When I came back housekeeping was at the room door and my friend was in the open doorway, dripping wet with a robe on but completely open from head to toe.
Sounds like you are staying in a nice place. Meet the client in the hotel bar..dress casually...Hell..give him an extra 20 minutes for you to order a drink at the bar. You can always carry it back to the room. Whenever I travel and schedule an outcall with a lady i always give them an option of coming straight to the room or meeting in the lounge. Quite a few are more than willing to meet for a drink before the clock starts ticking. OK..i know...you don't want the barkeep or desk personell to see you slipping to the elevator with a different dude every night. Just gotta be cool about it.
if you're low volume (or if you were high volume & just up your rate on this city to make up for lost volume) -- walk downstairs to meet your guest (have him tell you what he's wearing, tell him the same about yourself; and what to address him as when you meet him so as to avoid an awkward moment) and walk graciously with him arm in arm back to the elevator.
if you're high vol -- 2 options
1. (no or unwatched cameras in elevator) ask him to wait in the lobby where he can see the elevator, tell him youll be down in a bit & to wait for an elevator to open w no one walking out, ride the elevator down and let him enter the elevator with you (explain there's a keycard situation and hell, it might even make him feel like the session's a bit more naughty & get him in the mood sooner)
2. (cameras in elevator AND nosy hotel staff downstairs who might notice youre walking in with many different guys in one night) you have no choice but to meet them outside the hotel, wait in an empty elevator, and enter after them to buzz them up (of course telling them your floor in advance so in case some other guest buzzes them they know which button to push : P ). this also gives you the chance to scope them out before they even enter your hotel
In any case, its your privacy and if you happen to be a girl who has a lot of amorous men who happen to want to see you in a given night, its none of the hotel's business. You shouldnt feel theres anything wrong with walking back in, with different guys; you may be prepping them all up for a big event/conference or something.