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CuriousSort 1705 reads
posted
1 / 32
Question on Etiquette

I'm going to schedule time with a provider who happens to have a tongue piercing.  I don't like those and I do like to DFK.  Would it be improper to ask when scheduling the meeting that she not wear it?  I don't want to offend her at all.  Just not sure its acceptable for me to ask and if its not then I won't ask her to remove it.  It will bother me some but I'd prefer that over offending her.

MasterZen 34 Reviews 495 reads
posted
2 / 32
Just ask her to remove it...

and politely explain why. I doubt it will be a huge problem for her

ripmany 9 Reviews 511 reads
posted
3 / 32
why bother enen seeing her if she gross to start wirh walk.e

Posted By: CuriousSort
I'm going to schedule time with a provider who happens to have a tongue piercing.  I don't like those and I do like to DFK.  Would it be improper to ask when scheduling the meeting that she not wear it?  I don't want to offend her at all.  Just not sure its acceptable for me to ask and if its not then I won't ask her to remove it.  It will bother me some but I'd prefer that over offending her.

ToniLove See my TER Reviews 620 reads
posted
4 / 32
Please for fucksake...

Stop typing!  Get some glasses too....The op never said she was gross.  
To the OP,  I don't think asking her to remove it would be something I would consider offensive :

FatVern 637 reads
posted
5 / 32
Well, he's right...

If there is something the OP doesn't like about her, don't see her.

Posted By: terrilynn
Stop typing!  Get some glasses too....The op never said she was gross.    
 To the OP,  I don't think asking her to remove it would be something I would consider offensive :)  
 

russbbj 89 Reviews 491 reads
posted
6 / 32
LMAO, I adore you more and more each post I read

I really do wish he'd stop typing. I can't make head nor tails of nearly anything he says.

Wanna fuck?

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 515 reads
posted
7 / 32
Client has the right to ask escort remove tongue piercing during paid session

Etiquette fancy word for paid hooker.

Posted By: CuriousSort
I'm going to schedule time with a provider who happens to have a tongue piercing.  I don't like those and I do like to DFK.  Would it be improper to ask when scheduling the meeting that she not wear it?  I don't want to offend her at all.  Just not sure its acceptable for me to ask and if its not then I won't ask her to remove it.  It will bother me some but I'd prefer that over offending her.

lopaw 29 Reviews 535 reads
posted
8 / 32
I think of a person's piercings like I do of their tattoos....

...it is a part of their identity and I would never ask them to remove a piercing any more than I would ask them to cover a tattoo.  
I would say either accept the tongue piercing as is, or move on to someone else.

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 405 reads
posted
9 / 32
+1 eom

Posted By: terrilynn
Stop typing!  Get some glasses too....The op never said she was gross.    
 To the OP,  I don't think asking her to remove it would be something I would consider offensive :)  
 

ripmany 9 Reviews 470 reads
posted
10 / 32
If had glass on I would be to gross out by the provider I see and

Ter has a who database of review provides pick one with out toung piercing one of the options also kising with toung is too. If she has toung ring that clean my teath I can pass on the dentist money well spent on a provider.

souls_harbor 379 reads
posted
11 / 32
ha

I'd actually like to ask them all to remove their tattoos. Too bad it is not possible.  

Yeah yeah it's art.  Got it

Sugar-julia See my TER Reviews 459 reads
posted
12 / 32
Agreed

Asking her to remove it politely would not be offensive to most of us.  In my eyes, the session is first and foremost for my client to relax and be comfortable. It isn't about my preferences, it is about yours.:-)

FatVern 413 reads
posted
13 / 32
What's next?

Asking a lady to remove her tattoos, or altering her cosmetic surgery to appease a potential client.

Of course it's no big deal to ask a woman to remove a tongue piercing, the point is you don't need to ask, if there's something you don't like move on.  

In the OP's case, he wants to control what the provider does and doesn't do. Based upon this one post I have read.

Fridays117 27 Reviews 423 reads
posted
14 / 32
Personally I think its rude to ask someone to remove body jewelry unless

Unless it is painful to you.  For aesthetics?  Rude.  I mean, they put that piercing there to make themselves into whom they want to be.  If you don't like who they are, book with someone else.  Personally I am not turned on by tongue piercings, but have never turned down sex because of it ao I guess it doesnt turn me off either.

Same as tattoos on women.  They don't particularly turn me on, in fact I don't care for them in general.  That being said, I have not only had sex with tattooed women, but my current ATF is tatted.  It isn't for me to tell a woman what to do with her body and its decor or lack therof, its hers.

Now if it turns you off that much, there are tons of gals sans implanted jewlery, go for them instead.. Just don't be a dick about it.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 328 reads
posted
15 / 32
Just say please.

I knew one provider who actually mentioned on her website that she would "remove" her tongue piercing if requested to do so.  Just keep in mind that some piercings, like nipples, close up quickly and are more difficult than a tongue piercing to take out and put back in - so you may get a "No" if you ask for those to be removed.  

Posted By: CuriousSort
I'm going to schedule time with a provider who happens to have a tongue piercing.  I don't like those and I do like to DFK.  Would it be improper to ask when scheduling the meeting that she not wear it?  I don't want to offend her at all.  Just not sure its acceptable for me to ask and if its not then I won't ask her to remove it.  It will bother me some but I'd prefer that over offending her.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 349 reads
posted
16 / 32
Re: If had glass on I would be to gross out by the provider I see and

Maybe you should put that "glass" on so you could see those toung and teath misspellings

Posted By: ripmany
Ter has a who database of review provides  pick one with out toung piercing one of the options also kising with toung is too. If she has toung ring that clean my teath I can pass on the dentist money well spent on a provider.[/quote

CuriousSort 351 reads
posted
17 / 32
Attractive

Wow...surprised to hear so many people wouldn't see someone over 1 thing you might not find attractive.  I'm not like that.   I don't expect perfection in a woman.    

I guess I only "inferred" that I would still see her if she was wearing the tongue ring.   I probably should have stated that more clearly in my original message.  Sorry about that.  :)



-- Modified on 8/1/2016 10:58:16 AM

FatVern 383 reads
posted
18 / 32
I'd think so...

and you have the possibility of breaking the skin the process.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 450 reads
posted
19 / 32
I don't think it is good etiquette to ask...

But here's an idea:

Go see her, tongue piercing and all, and see if maybe you end up liking it.

I've pushed myself regarding piercings, tats, and other exotic features that you may find.  Most times I ended up enjoying it and therefore became a happier hobbyist with more catholic (and one time Catholic) tastes

CuriousSort 473 reads
posted
20 / 32
Re: I don't think it is good etiquette to ask...

I think I will err on the side of caution and just not ask.  There are enough comments either way that I don't want to take the chance of upsetting her.  
 

Posted By: mrfisher
But here's an idea:  
   
 Go see her, tongue piercing and all, and see if maybe you end up liking it.  
   
 I've pushed myself regarding piercings, tats, and other exotic features that you may find.  Most times I ended up enjoying it and therefore became a happier hobbyist with more catholic (and one time Catholic) tastes.  
   
 

ArielAmazing See my TER Reviews 417 reads
posted
21 / 32
Re: Client has the right to ask escort remove tongue piercing during paid session

+1 lol

Posted By: Fancy8888
Etiquette fancy word for paid hooker.

EmmaGray See my TER Reviews 380 reads
posted
22 / 32
Piercings like that close very quickly

I suppose you could ask her but more than likely she will say no. Tongue piercings and intimate piercings can start to close within an hour of the jewelry being out. More than likely she will not want to risk this. She may not be offended but may feel that you are wanting special treatment, as it sounds like she had made it very clear that she has this type of piercing.

FreedaNipple 13 Reviews 357 reads
posted
23 / 32
Re: Personally I think its rude to ask someone to remove body jewelry unless

I love a women with a few tastefully placed tattoo's, I have some myself that's why it doesn't bother me.But I agree,if it really turns someone off then it's time to move on

NoYellowEnvelope 402 reads
posted
24 / 32
Exactly. One of the great things about this "hobby" is...

... being able to have a wide variety of experiences with a variety of women.  I wouldn't specifically seek out a provider because she has a tongue piercing, but I've never DFKed a woman who has one, so if a provider happened to have one that would be an interesting experience.

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 460 reads
posted
25 / 32
Tattooed people are sexy eom


END OF MESSAGE

ToniLove See my TER Reviews 385 reads
posted
26 / 32
At this point, I truly believe. ....

You, fatvern and ripmany have got to be brothers from another mother. The OP isn't trying to control anyone but his own preference.  Geez, maybe he is into this chick but doesn't feel like the tongue piercing gnashing against his teeth.  
Yep, you both should be honored with SPOTY for 2016

ToniLove See my TER Reviews 433 reads
posted
27 / 32
Re: LMAO, I adore you more and more each post I read

Am I awake?  Yep, then yes.... Let's fuck :D
You on your way to Atlanta?  ;)
XOXO,  
TL

russbbj 89 Reviews 523 reads
posted
28 / 32
I have been traveling like a maniac lately

So much so that last week I kept trying use my key card at the room number of the hotel which I stayed the week prior, completely different hotel in a different city. That was until the person in that room opened the door and asked "can I help you"?, imagine my horror.

All this travel and still not to Atlanta.

mrhuck 15 Reviews 355 reads
posted
29 / 32
Re: Exactly. One of the great things about this "hobby" is...

Tongue piercing really can enhance a bbj so I think it is a good thing, as far as tats go I have none myself but I really enjoy the beauty of great body art on a woman.

SolaLove See my TER Reviews 348 reads
posted
30 / 32
Mine was.

I haven't had my piercings in years, but... not all piercings are simple to remove.  Mine required pliers.  I'm pretty sure most ladies don't take such tools to sessions with them, but hey, maybe?
;

alexissweet69 See my TER Reviews 369 reads
posted
31 / 32
Nicely Ask her to remove it

If you Nicely ask her to remove her piercing, she probably won't have any problem doing so. ;)

Posted By: CuriousSort
I'm going to schedule time with a provider who happens to have a tongue piercing.  I don't like those and I do like to DFK.  Would it be improper to ask when scheduling the meeting that she not wear it?  I don't want to offend her at all.  Just not sure its acceptable for me to ask and if its not then I won't ask her to remove it.  It will bother me some but I'd prefer that over offending her.

hueyfan 40 Reviews 487 reads
posted
32 / 32
Is it a deal breaker for you? Or you can always ask.

There are certain things that I look for in a woman when scheduling a date.  They are all personal preference and hopefully won't offend anyone.  

I am not a fan of tattoos.  I usually spend time with ladies that have none or one.  I have seen some women with several and the dates were amazing!!!!!!!  I do think it would be OK to nicely ask her to remove the piercing.  Decide if it is a deal breaker.

BTW, a civie I dated had a pierced tongue and gave the most amazing BJs!!!

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