Every once in a while you make perfect sense, but it still worries me whenever I agree with you. My default setting is to disagree with anything and everything you say. lol

A hypothetical based upon a true story (and no, I did not make this offer, and I won't say - yet - if I accepted it or not) lol

Last appointment down time was not that long. After we cleaned up I had the provider put her chest on my chest and I got an instant hard on. She called me a horny dog lol.

You're wining an dining her and you only get a BBBJ for it? That's one expensive BBBJ!

Dancing is gay

a is too much pay for not enough play.

Because I know that I'll probably see her again, then we can BANG it out.

Forget the dollar amount, the OP won't have any dignity left by the end of the evening.

LMFAO

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wXw6znXPfy4

Posted By: Skinny_Minnie

Dancing is gay

If we do A: I ate too much, drank too much, I was out too late. I am exhausted. I will worry that i was not fun or chirpy enough and that the client will not book me again. Next day...I need to take a run and catch up on work, but I am SO hungover and tired! And I woke up much later than usual.  

But to only end up with a quickie for that much money sticks in my craw, so reluctantly, given only the two choices, I'd go with B.

But if I could start A with a decent one hour GFE and end up with the quickie before we depart, I'd come around to A.

In fact, that describes a great number of session that I have, except that more often than not I'm invited to stay for breakfast as well, and if I'm up for it, a wake up call too.

She's not in the mood, on the rag, or too bored with sex to have fun or she wouldn't have suggested it, so especially if I know here reasonably well, I'd go with what she wants to do and see if I can figure out what's up with her. 2 hours of wall to wall uninspired sex sounds...like working out at the sex gym.

I d rather do 3 gfe appts and then spend the day doin my own thing. go the gym, Go get mani and pedi,.M aybe work on painting that accent wal in my bedroom.  

I feel the same. I REALLY like some my clients. But my life is MINE and my time belongs to ME. The clients I like are very supportive of my goals and WANT to make me happy, $$$ wise. Or at least they pretend to, lol.

That's the problem with women today, personally I think going out on the town is overrated. Usually it's yuppies, baby boomers, and teenagers trying to impress each other.

... and I only play the dating game for free. However I can understand your desire to keep your time, for yourself. One day you might that your perspective, may leave you lonely and jaded.  

I hate manicures. I get them because clients like them. Hence, referring to them as a menial (tedious) errand.

That you only had time to invest back into your business/profession. That's what having a job is all about. Just because you find errands to be menial that doesn't mean you can't appreciate what you receive from your efforts in pursuing those menial errands.

if I am putting THAT much time and energy into something, I should be getting paid commensurately (or at least, I should have a vague promise of an eventual promotion...for escorts, that is not applicable). So, I expect to be paid my (discounted) rate for 6-8 hours for an entire evening, not something that's the average going rate for 2-3 hours.  

I understand that, and agree with you based on my observation of looking at things from your perspective. You may have taken my comment out of context, when I said only having time for remedial errands are part of earning a living. Especially when you run your own business, most successful businesses do not run themselves.

I am paying to do nasty things to a sweetie with a hot body. While I may like her and enjoy talking to her, there are much more enjoyable ways to spend my evening in conversation with others, and I know there are much more enjoyable ways she can spend her evening. I have friends and family who enjoy my company. Most of them may not be as cute as my favorite provider, but spending an evening visiting is not about how cute my companion is for me.

I have paid for all of my time and NO provider has ever given it back or offered to see me for free.  When I first started I wanted to be friends, but have gotten over that.  That's not to say there are not "friends" out there....just none for me.