"I don't know where that thing's been.  Shove it up your ass!"  (Ironically, that's what you wanted her to do to you anyway)

for providers new to anal play! LOL

ass play (either end of it) is something she is in to.

If you have your own anal toy, bring it...however it will only be used on you where I am concerned, so being opened is not an issue.

Some ladies have an extra donation for Greek and also like to limit how many clients they see for Greek. I know that I also bring special lube when I'm going to do Greek. Additionally, go to a store and actually look at the toy. So many toys look small but then when they arrive in the mail you're thinking "oh wow, yeah okay, this is not happening". lol

As you can see there are a lot of factors involved. So talking with her beforehand is probably a better idea than just showing up with a surprise.

Bringing your own toys to be used on you is always welcome, as far as I'm concerned. In fact, I love when clients bring what they know gets them off.

As for me, I do love getting toys as gifts; if you want to purchase a toy for a lady and have her use it with you, see if she has a wish list somewhere and purchase one off of her list. I can't tell you how many toys I've had purchased for me that I'll never use because someone took a guess and bought something that wasn't on a wish list somewhere or didn't ask me what I liked. Luckily, a few great clients know how to ask, or check out wish lists.

I would not recommend bringing a toy that you personally own and use with other women. Personally, I would want to be guaranteed that the toy has been sanitized properly before coming near me, and when it's not my toy, I can't guarantee that. Don't bring an opened toy. New, in the box. Most boxes will be opened though, since most (if not all) sex toy stores check to make sure the toy is working properly before letting you walk out the door with it.  Toys ordered online will be in a sealed box, however.