I have done appointments at many clients and regulars residences. I also have been given my donation in many a client's work envelopes. When at the client personal home for an overnight or appointment. I do not take note of any of their personal medicine bottles mail or their first and last name weather it may be on their doorbell or not. I do not give it a second thought because they think I am discreet and trust that I will not give it a second thought that I will keep it business while I am there. I will focus on the reason why I am there.  
  being discreet to me means on both parties end, there is an understanding that you are coming together to meet for a certain purpose. which means whatever the person's first and last name is whatever their prescriptions are whatever their name on their doorbell is. whatever the man's businesses which is on his envelope. or perhaps some buddies photos can be traced and have their real name on them. to meet one being discreet means that they are mature enough to focus on what the main purpose of meeting together two consenting adults is.
   I do not give it a second thought when I go to my clients residence with their personal mail their wallet out on the table.  
likewise I just wanted to say I appreciate all of my clients that have also respected my privacy and not weld-on things such as cyber stalking and researching names on photos and other things that overall should not be a component when you are booking in appointment with me for a service between two consenting adults. just today I received a personal envelope as I almost always do from the man's work. I even saw that one person make fun of a woman because her photos were traced to her real name he said she was dumb.
I took offense to this because I have enough sense to be discreet enough to not post about my clients and their personal envelopes and their wallets out on the table and inviting me to their houses with their family photos on the wall.this does not make my clients dumb anymore than it would make me dumb.or anyone else for that matter.to me being discreet means respecting each other space and privacy. as well as being discreet about people's personal lives which may or may not become visible to the person involved in the transaction for your service.  
      I have been in this business for quite some time as you all know. I just am shocked to see people repeatedly making topics or even insulting people for things like having a photo with their real name attached to it.  
or for example having some photos blurred and some photos not.  
being discreet is a two way street just as I am discreet about my clients showing up in their personal cars with their personal license plates personal envelopes from work personal wallets and belongings strewn about my room. I would say about 89 percent call me from a personal phone number which I am NOT to call back.and then about 50 percent have me come to their personal residence and or give me a business card before they leave from their personal work with the real name and/or give me an envelope from their work with their real name and real address of employment.and 100 percent of them throw their clothes on my floor or my furniture in my bedroom as well as these are jacket in my closet with again they're real name and their ID's in it.
likewise I am guilty of posting photos that could be traced to my real name on it likewise I am guilty of sometimes having both blurred photos and regular photos.
and likewise I may or may not have something with my real name on it laying around from time to time just as my clients do from time to time.
what being discreet to me means that where I respect the clients and they trust me enough to leave all the belongings alone with me in the room I likewise trust that they won't go snooping in reading labels on things in my house or even care enough to because they just had such a rockin time with me in the bedroom that they wouldn't even be concerned with snooping around or even giving anything personal of mine as well as my real first and last name a second thoughts because it has nothing to do with the fun we just had.
today I met a new amazing clients and as always they take a shower and they leave their things with me.
it is funny how a man will call a woman dumb like is being done on the new be bored right now.
for something like having your real name attached to a photo and again that is only if the person is being a cyber stalker and researching it and clicking into this or that as opposed to just viewing their ad which is up for what it should be up for to advertise a service not to be probed into to find out real names which is pointless and a waste of your time.
being discreet is a two way street both parties should respect each other's personal belongings during an appointment and after.
weather this means the provider is mature enough to leave the man's possessions alone and go about her business and busy herself with something concerning her and her personal life.
all the time you spend busying yourself nosing into other peoples business or even caring about other peoples business is time you could have spent bettering yourself or taking a look at your own self in your own life and paying attention to what you are doing and what your actions are
being discreet is a two way street
the client should be mature enough to not be a cyber stalker and clicking into a woman's pictures to see whether or not her real name is on it this should not concern them
likewise I'm going to an outcall at a client's home tomorrow whether or not his name is on the mailbox will not concern me whether or not he has medication out with his name on it again will not be a concern of mine and I will not be giving it a second thought nor will I be paying attention to what any other provider does as far is blurred photos are not blurred photos.
being discreet is not taking other people's inventory doing what you are here to do which is to provide a service or to pay for a service and maybe make a few good friends along the way.
thanks to all of my clients who have been discreet.and thanks to all my clients for laid blak back enough to not sweat the small stuff and not read into what people's names are or take the time to snoop when they are in my domain.
I will continue to give back to respect that I am given in this hobby and I appreciate all of my clients who have been discreet and I will continue to be discreet towards them as always in as I always have been.
cyber stalking is really really psychotic.
anyone even taking note of what another person is or isn't doing for the origin of their photos I am sorry but I don't think I am the one who is crazy here like you all think.
if I am the one who is crazy and that is the opposite of these people searching the origin of woman's photos reading people's information at their houses then I would much rather be the opposite of these people doing this and be the crazy one.
so what does discreet mean to you???
do you do well on any tidbits of personal information laying around during an appointment with someone whether it be they leave their wallet around you or it be that their name is on their doorbell what do you take note of and what do you use this board for and what you start discussions on??????
to me the number one rule of being discreet would be to not probe into people's photos trace their origins or any other form of cyber stalking I would not play sat in the category of being discreet and that is not someone I would want to be an associate of----muah!

to warn you that some of your photos, posted publicly online and linked to your persona had your personal real life information on them... You should thank them. There's more to fear here than some bored dude with the power of google.  

not being nosey. If I run across a problem like that stated, I usually let the lady know and more often than not I get a negative response, usually some sort of attitude like;  "don't try tell me how to run my business". But, some have been very appreciative for the info making it worthwhile.

I am sure there is one somewhere in the essay!

Angel had too much bad Chinese food last night and decided to come and dump it on us by a unique bodily function that I call "Diarrhea of the Mouth"

1. You don't see clients in their personal homes, and 2. You don't bring them to yours. Wow... I am a fkin genius.

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There are going to be guys out there that WILL try and find out who you are. If your incall has personal stuff lying around they WILL look at it. They WILL do a search when the see your pictures out there. Best to play it safe and NOT leave stuff lying around and NOT post pictures that can tie back to you.

There's a hilarious scene where Terry Thomas takes Jayne Mansfield (who is not his wife) into his personal home for a little afternoon delight. When she is getting ready to leave she tells him she can't find her bra. They rip up the entire house and can't find it. He then lives in constant fear that his wife will find it and figure out his philandering ways. If you know who Jayne Mansfield was you can see why this was a great scene, especially when she tells him that in the event the wife finds the bra, she'll simply think it's hers.

I wonder if anyone had thought about that? Lo

Seems as though it's beyond essay and into diatribe territory.   Lots of references to prescription medication.... hmm.

and the winner of the Longest OP award is, by a landslide....& it's only February....

I have had gals reveal personal info to me.  I did it on purpose & her secret is safe with me & I will never reveal it.  If I found information on her while researching, I'd probably let her know if I felt it was compromising her security.  
I have found info in ads which could quickly led LE to her incall, I warned her & the ad was changed within an hour.  I still see her, hopefully Monday!    
I have been spammed from her home computer which revealed her real name & email (hackers!)  I let her know to get her computer cleaned before I deleted the messages.  Her secrete is safe with me also.  
I'm sure gals know various bits of my information & I trust them to do like-wise.  

Um, what guy leaves his wallet out in the open at a damn hotel? None that I know of... it's in their jacket or pants pocket, or in the car... even if not, it's certainly not wide open where I can see his credit cards. What else would he possibly bring that would reveal personal info. and WHY would he do that, unless I wanted to see his ID?  

I was just helping.. I swear I wasn't looking for it...
But I picked up a peice of paper....
And BAM! There it was...
No doubt it was her real name.
I'll never tell who it was or when...
That's discretion.  
I'm sure this happens all of the time.
Only assholes, and dickheads make it a problem.

I've posted before that one told me her real name out of the blue.  I can't think of any reason I'd ever tell anyone.  I can't say I wish I didn't know but that's not true because that would imply that I'm just busting to tell someone and that's not the case at all...what's true is that I don't care that I know.  So it's discretion by virtue of the fact that I have no agenda other than spending time with beautiful women.