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JohnyComeAlready 1668 reads
posted
1 / 19
Do you think this assesment is fair?

Many hobbyists and providers have control issues, as in they want to control the lives of the people around them.  

 
I think this is an issue that society as a whole deals with, it's just more transparent in this world.

HidingBehindMyAlias 360 reads
posted
2 / 19
No.

Can't speak for other hobbyists, but this one just wants to get his brains fucked out by some bodacious hottie with skills.

JohnyComeAlready 344 reads
posted
3 / 19
Seeing how you used an alias to answer the question.

I can not compare this statement to your other board posts.  

 
You sound like a person with control issues.  
Posted By: HidingBehindMyAlias
Can't speak for other hobbyists, but this one just wants to get his brains fucked out by some bodacious hottie with skills.

HidingBehindMyAlias 254 reads
posted
4 / 19
And that coming from an alias. You are always good for a laugh. Thanks. EOM


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russbbj 89 Reviews 271 reads
posted
5 / 19
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I have no desire to control anyone's life but my own. I just want to get my world rocked.

quadseasonal 27 Reviews 292 reads
posted
6 / 19
Those with least control of themself attempt to control others the most.

90% of guys and gals in a sudden rage of jealousy, aggression or out of control of their mind, are on hard drugs or alcohol.

  Now ask yourself, if you were a Hooker would you be able to lay down and smile with most guys they see, without dulling your senses ?  
   
I can only answer for myself, I have no need to be inebriated when  visiting a Hooker.
 
    Not only do I view  her  photos, I read her reviews and profile, plus I've never felt the need for  liquid courage,  to meet a woman.  

 

     
   
 
Posted By: JohnyComeAlready
Many hobbyists and providers have control issues, as in they want to control the lives of the people around them.  
   
   
 I think this is an issue that society as a whole deals with, it's just more transparent in this world.

GaGambler 384 reads
posted
7 / 19
Does anyone think this assessment of mine is fair?

"FatVern is getting dumber by the day"

I think this is an issue society as a whole deals with, but it is just more transparent in this world as fortunately, this is the only place we are subjected to this moron.

rainy_days 356 reads
posted
8 / 19
People with control issues will not get good reviews/references

"Control issues" could mean so many things, but if you mean invading someone's life where you are unwanted, then I think that would quickly get you outed in a community like this which is dedicated to sharing information.  

I get the feeling, from your post in the NPR interview thread, that by control you mean to take an interest in politics and regulation. I think it's foolish not to do so, when to be or to visit a provider means breaking the law. You gave the example of a dentist... if my dentist had to evade law enforcement for cleaning my teeth, then yes I would take an interest in legal trends and the manipulation of public opinion.

TheGeneralLee 390 reads
posted
9 / 19
You cant even control yourself

You run from board to board hoping that anyone will pay any attention to you.

I've seen your posts..your imitation of a 12 year old is great.

Now go back to your P&R board and try and argue your way out of a paper bag.

Dr Who revived 337 reads
posted
10 / 19
Yep...fair as fair can be

However are you sure this is the only place that "we" are subjected to morons like this?

Honestly, any one that is being controlled by someone else allows that control.  Some even pay extra for it here  ;)
Posted By: GaGambler
"FatVern is getting dumber by the day"

I think this is an issue society as a whole deals with, but it is just more transparent in this world as fortunately, this is the only place we are subjected to this moron.

nom_de_plume 309 reads
posted
11 / 19
It happens, of course, just as it does it the Real World.

In both worlds I try to avoid these kinds of people. It's easier to avoid in this world because of resources like TER.

GaGambler 303 reads
posted
12 / 19
No, I meant subject to this moron in particular

I have no idea what he does when not on TER, I can only imagine how he acts IRL. I am sure it's not a pretty sight.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 272 reads
posted
13 / 19
I don't have a NEED to control others lives but ... more often than not I like being in control.-e-


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London Rayne See my TER Reviews 329 reads
posted
14 / 19
I wouldn't say it's necessarily an 'issue' but damn right I like to be in control...

Oddly enough though, some of my absolute best sexual experiences have been with me as a submissive. It's like because I am always trying to control so many other things around me, that I need to give that up for the bedroom so I can actually get off. No different than men who are in power positions at work always seeking out doms. You tend to manifest the opposite traits of your daily routine in the bedroom in many cases.

I have spoken to and heard many stories about providers who need this business because it gives them a sense of power that was taken from them through some type of trauma, but not sure how high those numbers are overall as I can't speak for the majority... just those who have told me in confidence.  

I used to be very controlling in relationships, and now I don't really care lol. I have found that when you try to control or change someone under the delusion you'll be happier if they change, it's just the opposite. We were initially attracted to the very things we try to change in people and when we do that, we don't want them anymore lol. Don't ya hate that? Some chick spends 3 years telling you all the things wrong with you and when you change, she leaves for a dude that is like you were in the beginning... the cycle continues ha ha.

Blowing Chunks 223 reads
posted
15 / 19
Would that be fair? Did morons exist before morons existed in real life?

What if fried potaters didn't sell?  Should we file a restraining order against fried potaters?   :D

CorbinCandor 211 reads
posted
16 / 19
Really, if control issues are your concern to what others think…

…do you understand where it is coming from and why? (Or are you going to be hopelessly transparent, or shallow, with little effort? And, I say this because your question is vague and weak.)

Perhaps for some insight, Plato said:

The first and greatest victory is to conquer yourself; to be conquered by yourself is of all things most shameful and vile.

So in all fairness, it’s not necessarily society’s issue, now

inicky46 61 Reviews 361 reads
posted
17 / 19
Is making assessments fair?

Did making assessments happen before fairness existed?  Can you assess biscuits?  What about French Fried Potaters?

Blowing Chunks 231 reads
posted
18 / 19
Why should his control issues be your issue?

Issues cause bias. Bias cause religious one sided beliefs.
Therefore, control issues = religion.  :s

And I got real fresh biscuits to prove it. Mmmmmm Hmmmmmm

Blowing Chunks 225 reads
posted
19 / 19
What if potaters didn't sell? Do we blame the previous crop of potaters for their upbringing?

fried potaters = capitalism  
therefore fried potaters won't sell in a country that isn't a democracy

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