So heres the thing I'm really new to this hobby.  I kinda have this thing with condoms where I quickly lose interest when its on and what not.  My ex was cool with it she was on the pill and on occasion even let me go inside her and it was the greatest feeling ever.  Anyways we broke up a while back and I haven't had much luck with the ladies and have been kinda depressed lately so I have been looking into hobbying.  99.9 percent of the escorts I've asked have said they don't offer it but I found one.  She's young and pretty, should I go for it. Cops or disease I'm highly considering it.  I've done a lot of research on the subject and most say the same stuff that I'll catch AIDS and die or that she's banging 20 dudes a night and all of them are doing BB any way I'm looking for advice is there any one that's done BBFS and what was the experience and did you catch anything or just general advice on hobbying thx

I'll try to explain this without jumping all over you but just check out the thread below this one.

Why would you want to risk your health??? Why would you want to risk "her" health!!! If you want to FUCK w/o a condom then go find yourself a GF....  

... and want to expose yourself, and others to unsafe behavior.

I also have difficulty coming with a condom on so I often finish between her breasts, or in her mouth, or on her face, or between the butt cheeks, etc.

Just a little imagination and bottle of massage oil and you can really have a ball.

HIV isn't the only thing you can catch. Herpes is making a big comeback and it only takes one BB session to catch it. Contrary to popular belief, you CAN catch it even is she is not having a visible outbreak.

read reviews and find providers that use the female condom (FC).  Much different feeling and very enjoyable.

FC feels pretty good when it has some extra lube inside. You can also try putting some lube inside male condom. It might feel better.

Go for it!...since I couldn't care less what happens...

... I think he means cover-less throughout..

Think of it this way,

I'll save you from the Yelling and Screaming that everyone else is doing on this subject.

I've never BBFS'ed with a client, even if I've know them for a while. You don't know who that person sleeps around with and what if she offers BBFS to her other clients and not tell you about it?  

If you don't want to go BBFS that's fine. There are Risks if you go for this. It's a choice. Everyone Yelling and Screaming won't stop this Behavior. I chose to go BBFS with my Girl. I asked her first. I would Never Ever Force her to do this if she said No. I asked her and she said it was OK. If she wanted me to use a Cover, then I would. I've been seeing her for more than a year. Even if she wanted me to use a Cover all that time I would still see her. She's Super Sweet and so Adorable.  

if you will be (are) the only one she does bbfs with. Be sure to ask her to be honest (that's important). If she says "Yes", then I would consider you one very lucky man and go for it! It is rare to find a provider as you describe. Be sure to give us an update in a few years. If we don't hear from you, we'll assume the worst.

with a female condom.   For clients who don't want to wear a condom, I offer this as an option.  Female Condoms are as safe as any male condom on the market and and feels like BBFS.

I don't get guys that want BBFS. A couple of years ago, there was a guy on Long Island that would call providers and ask for BBFS. Word got around that he possibly had several STD's (ick!).  

ever tried a female condom?

has a looser area around the head. This can also help.
http://www.safesense.com/CW_IEINSPIRALLL_P010info.shtml

But if he does, it sullies the pool for all of us.

ba-doom

But seriously folks:

I did try it a couple of times with one gal.

it was generally OK, but two things stand out as not that great:

First, the time it takes her to install it as things heat up breaks up the rhythm a bit and secondly it felt a wee bit chilly in there.  Maybe warming it up in a cup of warm water first would solve that problem.

Lastly, the visual effect is nothing to write home about.

It did feel nice, however.

Even worse!

But that's just the thing- how would you know? Unless you've both been tested every month consistently for the past 6 months and live together in a hermetically sealed capsule, you have no idea what she's (or any of your other partners are) doing beyond your time together. And maybe she's the only person you ever have sex with, but unless the conditions above are met, you have no idea who she's doing!! Don't you get that?? "Nice" and "adorable" do not mean "chaste" and "completely honest". You're dangerous and you're endangering all of us. And so is she. And when she retires, Good Luck finding Another "Girl".

I've had no issues after more than a year. I know and accept the Risks involved with this. I would think after being in this Hobby for a while, I know what I'm doing.

A handful of sauna clubs offer BBFS.  BBFS gangbang parties also regularly available.  Parties require a recent STD test, clubs do not.  No denying risk of STD exist but no one can really quantify what that risk actually is.

try a FC.  Regular condoms really dull the sensitivity.

There's a Thrift Store near me that's giving them out for Free. Not sure if my Girl would use one. I know she won't like putting all that Latex inside of her.

but you would be wrong. Only we don't have to be as nice about it here as we do when you give lousy and downright dangerous advice on the Newbie board.

Are you saying you don't even get tested? You do realize that not all cases of STIs present symptoms, right?  

I think he is just stupid. lol