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Not only should he have consulted the reviews I think it only fair that a lady's prerogative is to change her menu at any time and/or to withhold a particular specialty in a session as long as she's up front about it.

Jacque_Jenesais1010 reads

So I don't have rimming on my menu. I was asked, 'Can you go any lower?' While licking the nut sack. I plainly said, 'You didn't look at TER? That's not on the menu.' 'Whats that?'

Apparently this guy hadn't done his research beyond P411, where I don't provide a 'menu'.  

He was nice about it, but I could tell he was annoyed.  

I don't really need an answer, but ladies who've come across this, how do you deal with it?

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SinCitySinner784 reads

We don't take the TER profile literally.  Having spent so much time in the hobby, its not uncommon to experience things that were NOT on the TER profile. At the same time, its also not uncommon to wonder what happened to such and such thing, which was supposed to be on the menu.  

The first guy creates your profile, and unless you go and change it yourself (which only a minority of gals have the smarts to do), its pretty much set in stone..

So regardless of TER or non-TER guy, if there's something you don't want to do, because the guy just had "Curry", you can always politely decline.  

* Edited for grammar and spelling.

-- Modified on 1/22/2014 8:51:57 AM

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random133598 reads

Not only should he have consulted the reviews I think it only fair that a lady's prerogative is to change her menu at any time and/or to withhold a particular specialty in a session as long as she's up front about it.

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AnotherDonJohn597 reads

You didn't say Curly?;)lol.

Otherwise, well said.

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FatElvis526 reads

He may not be VIP, in which case he won't see the menu.  So probably safe to assume that either guys haven't read the menu or are going to push even though they have.  I think your response of "sorry, that's not on the menu" is perfectly acceptable.  I think most guys understand that not everything is on the menu. I might be disappointed but I'll respect it.

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citizen59621 reads

TER is a guide not the bible.
I have experiences where activities on the menu weren't - she just said I don't do that which was disappointing but part of the game.
I have had experiences where activities  on the men were No and Don't Know and surprisingly were; some for an up charge sometimes not.  
If you do not ask you do not know.  Respect the provider and YMMV.

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perfectstorm570 reads

Why even bring up "TER" or "menu"?

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Sooo...YouWanna623 reads

Most guys aren't stupid, if they ask and we flat out don't do it, he'll probably get the hint. Just make whatever else you have decided to do just as fun. In fact, words very rarely have to come out of your mouth, honestly. Get good at the fake chow, and you'll never have to worry about it again ;-)

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clarence37550 reads

I haven't beenin the mood to post much lately but I'm glad to see you are still slinging "logic" and "common sense" whenever possible :-)

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tg_baby521 reads

I know very few ladies who have a set "menu". I'm comfortable/uncomfortable with certain things as a rule...certain other things (submission, role-play) are grey areas and depend upon client/context/amt of vodka, lol.

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missariarocchi682 reads

I'm not going to hand him a laminated card with what's allowed and what's not.  
Besides P411 has/used to have a check box of things you do or don't

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harborview481 reads

I expect the basics but extras, sorry...  he has no right to expect rimming.  Lucky to get what he did.  I would not ask or offer unless we'd spent serious time in a bubble bath together immediately prior...  and maybe not then!

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MasterZen523 reads

and "Just Say No". TER or otherwise.

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SinCitySinner538 reads

But now I have wised up, that was DRUGS...Not ass eating... :D

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MasterZen557 reads

Yeah... but clearly for some, ass-eating is an addiction!

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