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89Springer 2213 reads
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I haven''t been doing this for very long, but I'm guessing that any guy who's seen a provider more than twice has heard the expression, "I'll make it up to you". I heard it three times from the same provider. I don't think she ever did anything, though, at least not that I could see.

I'm curious if any guys who've heard that have actually had the provider do something to make it up to them. If so, what was the action that required atonement, and what did she do to make it up to you?

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 505 reads
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hammerhead896 56 Reviews 746 reads
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3 / 40

and really have learned the hard way not to go down that path again. I would consider it with someone who I have already seen and enjoyed my time with though.

The times I was offered quote make up sessions were after a girl had stood me up at the last minute and then mailed me with apology and saying If I came back she would make it up to me though I do not know what that really meant and to be truthful all I was expecting was a session like other reviewers had mentioned nothing more. What I got for that was stood up again and even let her run me around for a few hours like the idiot I am.

Another girl had me come back under the same circumstances and though we did get together I really could not understand why she had me come up as she proceeded to treat me like crap after I did and was really just one of the weirdest experiences with a girl I ever had without going into a long story.

I hope you others have had better luck with this

captain7 597 reads
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4 / 40

For not providing the services promised even if it is just lack of enthusiasm & they know you know, but they actually never make it up to you, they just want you to come back & spend your money.

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anonymousfun 6 Reviews 716 reads
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5 / 40

I am not sure what kind of provider company you keep but I have been in this hobby for little over 10 years. I have heard this from a provider only a couple of days and both of them did what they said.

So, based on my experience, it looks more like the provider company you keep and not the norm for everyone.

Let us not create another negativity.

anonymousfun 6 Reviews 567 reads
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6 / 40

Once cancelled at the last minute would take a lot for me to reconsider and I will not let someone run me around for two hours.

In the second instance, if someone treated me like crap, I would leave and I have don it.

You have to let your big head think and exercise a level of control. If not, all you end up doing is whining.

89Springer 524 reads
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7 / 40

I saw this particular provider five times, and she was great. If I ever had something made up to me, though, I didn't recognize it. ;)

The "somethings" were rescheduling, and one cancellation at the last minute.  

BTW, how many "negativaties" are we allowed?

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Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 582 reads
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8 / 40

unless he doesn't mean what he actually wrote. What he wrote is saying he actually saw her twice, i.e. full appointments. Correct me if I'm wrong Jerry

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 479 reads
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scoed 8 Reviews 699 reads
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10 / 40

She had an emergency call mid session and had to jet out but after I had my nut. It was about 45 minutes into an two hour prepaid season. She offered most of my money back but I told her to keep it as I am a one and done guy and I got mine. She told me she "would make it up to me." As she left the room I rented for the meeting. The next time I  seen her when I took a shower she slipped her envelope with her whole donation in my coat pocket. She was a class act. She is retired now.

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 522 reads
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11 / 40

Escorts should make it right with hobbyists.

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89Springer 509 reads
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13 / 40

Am I supposed to correct you, or someone else? And am I the OP? I thought I was. ;)

I went to see her five times. On two of those, I was rescheduled for one hour later, and on another for two hours later. One time I saw her there was a family emergency and we couldn't have a session at all.  

I've asked about "I'll make it up to you" before, but never asked if anyone had anything made up to him and, if so, how.  

From reading reviews and posts, it seems like "I'll make it up to you" means something along the lines of "I hope to see you again".

Dave76015 38 Reviews 565 reads
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14 / 40

3x you get "I'll make it up for you" and you've seen here five times?  
I get something like a shortened session due to illness or emergency.   Had it happen once and that was after a NCNS on her part, and second time was that we got nekkid, had mutually happy times, and life went on.    
If every time you saw her and got your nut off, what's the issue?
Unless she was talking about a PB&J sammie', what would she make for you

Dave76015 38 Reviews 628 reads
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15 / 40

I would agree with you that it is not a normal experience.

If I go and see someone that is gorgeous, gets me off, I get her off, and we have mutual interests and tastes about stuff, and is a beautiful thing.  I dig a mature woman that can string together sentences, can use words greater than two syllables, articulate intelligent opinions while maintaining a coherent train of thought without getting derailed is rather sexy.  And that is worth a second, third, or more visits in my book.
 
Just a personal preference, but I like to have something more than "Hi, here's your envelope, let's ball, and never see you again".
We all have our things.  I'd be willing to bet a cold beer that more than a couple of ladies out here would prefer that as well, getting a stable, long term client that they find entertaining or at least mildly amusing.    

Shoot.  Hot babe with a brain that curls my toes, and I'd be down with being "mildly amusing" because I'll find special treats at the end of that rainbow!  

I too, agree with no negativity.  Life is too short to deal with aggression.  We should all strive to find our inner Dude.  Mind if I spark a J

sympathyforthedevil 57 Reviews 586 reads
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16 / 40

The great was I showed up and i sounded like she a really bad nite so she cancelled. Showed up for the "make Up" and she was at the wrong location.  Time was tight. WE decided on a quickie at a reduced donation. Ended up for the full hour and pretty much everything on the menu. Picked up the envelope and 2/3rds was there.

Different lady cancels after I'm already there. We reschedule after she says she will make it up to me. I'm thinking extra time? No she's going to give 100%. WTF does that mean. Isn't that the norm at $500?

Always interesting!

cspatz 68 Reviews 560 reads
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17 / 40

t was an 11am appt. Her method was to send us guys to the corner and then she would call with the room number. I didn't have her phone number so when I was stuck on the corner without receiving a call all I could do was email. That went nowhere fast so I left. We eventually made contact via email. She apologized profusely and promised to make it up to me the next time she was in town. And so she did .... she fucking saw me for free!!! That's right. Free. I gave her a big tip. Righteous gal. Great fuck too. One of a kind.

1820590 37 Reviews 599 reads
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18 / 40

It was a little over a year ago.  I had a last minute date with a woman touring NYC.  I booked an hour in the early afternoon.  Not too long after round one was over and about half way through our session, housekeeping knocked on the door and said they really needed to clean the room.  I didn't realize she was checking out that day, and she was really pushing the late check out.  So we both got dressed, she quickly packed up her things, and as we walked out, she said "I promise to make it up to you."  In this case, I actually believed her.

Afterwards, I wrote a fair and respectful review sharing that we did get rushed, but she did say she would make it up next time.  Sure enough, the woman texted me next time she was in town and offered to get together.  I can't remember if she gave me a discount on next session or just an extra half hour.  I guess it's the same thing either way.  I was a satisfied customer.  

Sparta

MasterZen 34 Reviews 577 reads
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19 / 40

and was fortunate. The provider had hotel issues on our scheduled date and had to cancel last minute. We rescheduled for the next day and she added an hour to our 2 hour session. I was inconvenienced, but so what? Shit happens, and she did what she could to "make it up to me"

89Springer 601 reads
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20 / 40

Posted By: Dave76015
3x you get "I'll make it up for you" and you've seen here five times?    
 I get something like a shortened session due to illness or emergency.   Had it happen once and that was after a NCNS on her part, and second time was that we got nekkid, had mutually happy times, and life went on.    
 If every time you saw her and got your nut off, what's the issue?  
 Unless she was talking about a PB&J sammie', what would she make for you?  
   
 
First "date", she's running late. I'm new to this, and figure it's the way things sometimes go. The session is great. She's great.

Times #2 & #3. On time, things are better each time.

#4. Family emergency, and she has to cancel.

#5 She reschedules me for two hours later. That ticked me off, and I don't think I'll see her again.

I hear a couple of stories here about a free hour or getting time made up for. That sounds fair. If she'd done that, I'd be satisfied.  

I really just want to read the experiences of others so I have a handle on what to do in the future.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 534 reads
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21 / 40

Sorry, Jerry - Springer?… Whatever, lol.

I get it, I didn't pick that up in the OP, but then again I'm not scheduling with women lol.

inicky46 61 Reviews 616 reads
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22 / 40

Kayla Daze, one of my favorite gals.  She realized when we were about to get suited up she'd forgotten to bring condoms.  She suggested we stick to oral and my next session would be 90 minutes for the price of 60.  She was true to her word.  She's a total sweetheart and I'll see her as long as she's putting that hot tongue stud of hers to professional use.  I even took her out to dinner recently after a session.  What a doll.

inicky46 61 Reviews 502 reads
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24 / 40

Never had to do it with me, but on several occasions if she's screwed up the timing she'd give them a free session.  They reported back that it was great and became one of her many fans.

89Springer 611 reads
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25 / 40

That's the sort of thing that I'm surprised doesn't appear to happen more in a customer service oriented business like this.

In my business, if I screw up a customer's order (rare), I give him/her money off, a free gift, or something else to make up for the mistake. I never just let them walk away disappointed.  

It's probably the case that I'm not a high priority customer for her, so if I don't come back, she doesn't care, even though I was good for three hours every month. Compared to other customers  of hers, that $1200 a month may be nothing. It's not nothing for me, though, so I'll find someone else who sees value in having a regular at that dollar amount.

AnotherDonJohn 470 reads
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26 / 40

Turned out well in the end...

Story was:
A polish chick was visiting nyc and I had booked her for 90 minutes.  

After 30 min and the first cup, she gets up takes a shower, changes her clothes and puts on her makeup.  

I tried to get things started again but she was more interested in gathering my things for me.  
I finally said f it, dressed, and stormed out with 45 min left.

In the lobby of the nice hotel, you can imagine that I started giving the booker an earful. She was apologetic and said she'd talk to the girl. This worked as 10 min later,while I'm picking up my consolation Starbucks coffee and sausage biscuit, I get a call from the sexy Polish accent.  

She tells me that if I have time now I can come back and she'll, you guessed it, "make it up to me."

Well, she sure did.  

The next hour was nothing like the first 45 min. One of the best hours of my life.  

She really upped her game, upgrading every part of the previous menu.  

She said she never swallowed in her life before. Well, never say never, lol.

Anyway, the punch line is: when I mentioned I had a meeting later (in answer to what are you doing today?),
She thought because of the language barrier that I meant right that second. And it's her custom to shower and redress between sessions so It turns out that I misinterpreted that.

 


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cspatz 68 Reviews 373 reads
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27 / 40
inicky46 61 Reviews 559 reads
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28 / 40
ROGM 449 reads
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29 / 40

The Provider I'm seeing does. When Business is Slow for her she asks me for Money to pay her Bills and Essentials. When I Book the next Session with her she Deducts what I Lent her and I just pay the Difference. She's pretty Awesome.

inicky46 61 Reviews 510 reads
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lasttime 608 reads
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31 / 40

There's one woman I've been seeing 4-5 times a year for probably 9 years. During that time there've been  , I believe 3 times when she's 'made it up to me' for various SNAFUs. Twice were two for one deals on doubles with her and one of her girlfriends. The third was a simple discount. I would suspect this situation is probably atypical, given the long running nature of our association. She is pretty special, however.

ROGM 559 reads
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32 / 40

Posted By: lasttime
There's one woman I've been seeing 4-5 times a year for probably 9 years. During that time there've been  , I believe 3 times when she's 'made it up to me' for various SNAFUs. Twice were two for one deals on doubles with her and one of her girlfriends. The third was a simple discount. I would suspect this situation is probably atypical, given the long running nature of our association. She is pretty special, however.
 
If you see a Provider enough times are you're Nice to her, she'll tend to give you a Preferred Discount. That's the Case with the Provider I'm seeing. I can pay half of her Regular Rate and she still gives me a Great Session for her Full Price.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 356 reads
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ROGM 415 reads
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34 / 40

aying back Money she borrowed from you and paying her the Difference on the next Session Sex is even better.

AnotherDonJohn 346 reads
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35 / 40


END OF MESSAGE

t2star 547 reads
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36 / 40

I have with someone I have seen for several years now. She has a few times had to make it up but I know a bit about her personal life and she mine. I have had to make up several missed sessions on my side of things to. Once was when I had first started seeing her and I overslept I work 3rds. She was really pissed cause I did not call. I promised her I would make it right and paid double the next time. Now she knows I will always make it right and when she screws up I know I will get half off plus an additional 30-60 minutes time so basically 1/4 price. I think most ladies that are worth seeing will do this especially a regular client who she likes will actually make it up. But if it starts out that way from first or second time I would think twice depending on the reason she had to rebook. If it became a regular pattern then time to move on. Just my 2 cents.

RokkKrinn 553 reads
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37 / 40

This sort of thing has happened to me a couple of times.  In those cases, the providers in question realized that the appointment had been "low energy", "not up to her own standards", etc, and suggested that the envelope should be a little light.

That's the truly professional way to handle things like this, and is the only way to assure that I will give a provider a real shot on the "make it up" game

Jazz Jewel See my TER Reviews 445 reads
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38 / 40

I learned long ago not to make promises I can not keep..    

The only time I will make that statement is to offer additional time with our next appointment..  

and then do it....

xo
J

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 447 reads
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