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Ladies: Do You Like to Break Dishes?
WymenLover 36 Reviews 1777 reads
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The scene appears to have been a staple of old Hollywood black and white movies:

A female gets mad at a guy and starts throwing dishes at him.

Recalling from my childhood, the scene happened in a wide range of movies: from Mrs. Hardy heaving them at Ollie .... to the big budget productions.

My question is prompted by an article in today's San Diego paper (written by a female) that a female has opened up a business where people can pay to break glass and china.

I searched on You Tube and what did I find?  Females breaking glass.

So ladies:  Have you ever broken china or glassware in anger?  Is there something deep in the female psyche that prompts that conduct?  Does it have anything to do with women's traditional role of being a "slave in the kitchen"?

My Motto:  If your female is pissed, stay away from her kitchen.
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Females breaking dishes:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cpRM3yv01o0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=78IC4r1bpw0

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"Store breaking new ground"

Business gives patrons a place to take out their frustrations

By Sharon A. Heilbrunn
STAFF WRITER

September 3, 2008

DOWNTOWN SAN DIEGO – Mortgage payments.

Smash!

Gas prices.

Ten-hour workdays.

Crash!

At Sarah's Smash Shack, a new business in downtown San Diego, everyday frustrations often join the plates, glasses and photo frames patrons pay to hurl against a wall.

Owner Sarah Lavely, a former veterinarian, has drawn a strange satisfaction from breaking things ever since she was a little girl. She said she opened the bright, compact storefront on Sixth Avenue to give people a chance to try it in a “supportive, appropriate environment.”

In the lobby there is a white cabinet filled with delicate pieces – vases, ceramic plates, dainty glass flowers.

“People say they don't like to break things that are so nice,” Lavely, 38, said. “But I like to.”

Customers can choose from a menu of destruction. There's the Smash Shack House Special (15 plates, 15 minutes, $45) or Lover's Lane (three glass flowers for $10).

Bad breakup? Bring in a photo. They frame it; you chuck it.
Feeling a little dark? Hurl two gothic glass candlesticks.

Or, bring in your own stuff to smash, such as an old cell phone or a vase filled with dead flowers from the paramour you thought was the one.

Customers are wrapped in coveralls, gloves and a helmet, then led into one of two “Break Rooms,” where they stand behind a 3-foot-high barrier and throw the items against a large sheet of stainless steel. Black and white checkered foam covers the walls. Lavely provides a Sharpie if smashers want to pen a message on a plate before they chuck it.

The experience is a rush, albeit a quick one. When it's over, Lavely donates the shards to schools, artists and nonprofits to use in mosaic pieces.

Emily Whelan, 19, recently took her frustrations out on two plates, six small glasses and two gothic candlesticks.

“I'm stressed right now,” she said, declining to elaborate, as she signed her release form.

With Linkin Park playing in the background, she hurled the objects without hesitation, green glass splintering off the silver wall.

“I feel incredible,” she said afterward. “I'm shaking. My heart is pounding.”

Smashing is not about anger, Lavely says, but about celebration. “Celebrate that breakup . . . . Good riddance!” reads her Web site. “Celebrate dumping that job you hated anyway!” “Celebrate Friday night!”

“It's more about doing something naughty,” Lavely said. “We want everyone to know there's some quirky thing you can go do to forget about life for a few minutes.”

Lavely's advice for novice smashers?

“Don't hold back,” she said. “Don't be afraid or shy.”

Lavely doesn't know of any similar businesses in the country. When she came up with the idea, she shared it with her colleague, veterinary technician Ed King. He jumped on board as co-owner. They did some research on how certain types of glass break and outfitted the rooms with MP3 hookups so customers could smash to their favorite song.

For now, customers need to be at least 15, and if they're under 18, they need a parent's signature. Couples, friends, bachelorette and birthday parties are welcome. Even support groups have been encouraged to try the experience.

But not everyone thinks it's such a smashing idea to break for stress relief or therapy. Christina Zampitella, a clinical psychologist in Kearny Mesa, said the outcome depends on the person.

“If you've got someone that doesn't have an issue with expressing their feelings in a constructive or assertive way, this might be fun and different,” she said. “But for others, smashing things is emphasizing that you don't need to use words to express your feelings. You can be violent.”

To Joe Barros, a passer-by on vacation from Illinois, the experience seems like an impulse buy.

“I personally wouldn't spend $45,” he said. “But I'd drop $10 on it easily.”

Glass no...
Perhaps a cellphone or two but who is counting lol

cell phones...lol, been there~~
All depends I guess, I never thought about it really.
Just a few quick questions.
Are they my dishes?
and...whos going to clean up the mess afterwards?

If they are not mine, I like mine, and I don't have to clean it up...maybe.

would say about an old tradition of toasting where upon after the toast and drink, the guests smash their goblets (or glasses) in the fireplace???  This I remember from the old movies as well.... and interesting custom which I have observed only a couple of times in real life.  

Certainly in those instances there was no "hostility"  Rather an assurance that the event being commemerated could never be downgraded by using the same drinkware to celebrate anything else....

whos glasses and who is cleaning it up?

and are we wearing shoes or clothes for that matter? broken glass is very risky.

are we going to have mad passionate sex by the fireplace before or after?
My vote is before, and someone else will just have to clean it up.

Be good...
Nicole

What a great idea!   But I'm a purist & would rather be wearing full makeup & a slinky black dress & heels.
That mask looks suffocating :)

I had an alarm clock that you threw at a wall to make it stop & it made a glass shattering noise when it made contact, lol!
Best gift ever!!

BB

If you do, you're needs are satisfied in Athens, Greece at the Plaka.  Rather than wash them, the patrons just throw them on the floor, and dance through the shards.

In my grief training I came across the story of a man who bought a new set of china & went to the dump & broke every piece to show his sadness over the death of his wife. Did him more good than a therapy session.

..always discouraged me from breaking dishes.

Now a store that encourages that would be different story.

-- Modified on 9/3/2008 12:56:26 PM

However, I'd like to break someone's neck every once in a while. Just kidding!

Hugs,
Ciara

and not some other, perhaps more sensitive part, I think that would be OK. :o)

LOL

C_K

as TS Hannah (the tropical storm and not the OTHER TS) passes. Me and da boys will get packed and start west. I should be there in 2 or 3 weeks TOP. My feets don't move as fast as they usta when I was younger.....

Westward HO!

And no not that HO but the OTHER kind - like when getting something to move.....
LOL

C_K

-- Modified on 9/6/2008 3:51:40 PM

Why break something that is nice or personal? I've never understood when young guys break their hands on telephone poles when they get angry. Why not just set up a dart board with your beau's or girl's face on it?  Oh, no! Bad Ciara, bad! :)


Hugs,,
Ciara

a whole church dedicated to the joys of breaking dishes while reciting silly nonsense sounds.

I tried to find it on You Tube to no avail, but it's sooooo good.

what you were thinking about but it is Python and involves of a member of the clergy AND the breaking of many dishes. With appropriate silly noises.... and a church at the very end.

-- Modified on 9/3/2008 6:18:18 PM

My mother never understood why I watched that show, nor could she relate to The Three Stooges. Of course, I made up for it when I started watching "Masterpiece Theatre"; however, she became disturbed again when she observed that I was watching "I Claudius" and some of its disturbing scenes.

Hugs,
Ciara

-- Modified on 9/6/2008 12:41:41 PM

Was always a big Python fan, and "the boys" although when I was a young'n my mother did not allow us to watch them - she said they were too violent.

Now before I get out there and sweep you off your feet, to carry you off into the sunset, I have one more question to ask. Ever heard of the Firesign Theater? If yes then you must be the PERFECT woman for me ..... and I must have you.

C_K

-- Modified on 9/6/2008 3:51:59 PM

What a great idea.  There have been times when I really wanted to throw something and break it, but common sense took over and I saw the whole scenerio thru and realized I didn't want to clean up the mess.  At that point I usually just slam cabinet doors.  lol  

It's amazing what people will pay to do....

Kari

every once in awhile the local church bazzars or some other group would haul a junk car to the fair.

Charge a dollar or two to let you take a whack at it. Cheap therapy for charity I guess.

MyMelina313 reads

I'm greek, it's part of my culture..I love to break dishes...OOOPA!
Melina

I'd blind the guy or smash it into his temple and kill him.  Plus its a pretty powerless gesture--don't people have more constructive ways of showing anger?  I hope so!!

Now mace thats another story!!!

...I am more likely to take a very, very long walk.

-- Modified on 9/4/2008 8:35:23 AM

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