I left the hobby for over two years when I fell in love.
So as a hobbyist, I could and was monogamous. I suppose others could be as well.  

...they are emotionally involved with or connected to only one person.  What they do with tricks is something entirely different.

I think it's impossible to have a boyfriend while working as a provider unless he's ok with her sleeping with other men.I don't agree with cheating so I just stay single.When Mr Right finds me I will quit the adult work

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I have heard from successful providers varying opinions: all of them are women o/a 25-45 years old.  All of them want to have lots of income, giving enough money to pay off debts, enable them to live independently and securely for a long time, if not forever.  The younger ones seem to think they can get a compatible and supportive man whenever they want, but want to achieve certain financial goals first.  Older ones want independence, to start a new business on their own, to see kids though school, to start delayed careers, etc.  Still others want to go on for as long as they can earn big money, as long as they can.  So what's the bottom line?  Each case is different, and while realizing that everyone has his/her own motivations, let's admit that fucking brings us together, so let's fuck as much as we can for transcendental enjoyment and not seek convoluted explanations.

I really don't know any but there are several here who say they are ok with it.

Is your boyfriend going to have sex with other women too?

I don't have a boyfriend lol do you?

due to money. I know a couple of hookers that have SO and ironically they don't have jobs. Some poor fools will tolerate their woman fucking other men so that they can live large and not have to work.

i always thought there was no single man who could complete me...
when i fell in love end of last year i realized when you truly love a person, that person is all you need to make you happy...i felt wholesome...i could have quit the industry and still be happy....but right before i was gonna apply for a job at KPMG and clean up my act...., i got jilted and was left heart broken...my emotional walls are back up for a good while now...

I've met guys who love nothing more than knowing they're playing with a woman who has had multiple partners that day. They wanna hear all about it, in detail. These guys desperately want to date a provider.  
Problem is, most ladies find them kinda creepy lol.

...then no, a provider cannot be monogamous while working...

and trust her to have sex for money, and have her tell you or find out she is doing it behind your back? I would be ok with her doing it as long as she tells me. I would be more concerned if she meets a creep in a hotel room and he hurts her some way. That would keep me up at night.

I've dated several "active providers" and I just put it out of my mind as "it's only sex" and every hooker I've ever had an LTR with I met as a customer, so I knew what I was getting into from the start.  

might as well charge for it now.  

Anyone who jilted you needs to have their head examined. Not by just one doctor - an entire university team would be required.  

Posted By: octavia.lexa

i always thought there was no single man who could complete me...  
 when i fell in love end of last year i realized when you truly love a person, that person is all you need to make you happy...i felt wholesome...i could have quit the industry and still be happy....but right before i was gonna apply for a job at KPMG and clean up my act...., i got jilted and was left heart broken...my emotional walls are back up for a good while now...  
   
  i have all the stereotypical traits of a Cancer female...what can i say, i am passionate and emotional person  
   
   
   

Posted By: escalade1964

I left the hobby for over two years when I fell in love.  
  So as a hobbyist, I could and was monogamous. I suppose others could be as well.    
     
  Yeah, Yeah, Variety is the spice of life.....  
  Blah, Blah, If I were to meet "Mr. Right".....  
     
  With all of the daily attention providers receive could you quit  
  forever and only have one sex partner?  
     
  Your thoughts if any?  
     
 

...it would seem to me, not having directly experienced it, that the primary stumbling block in this type of relationship would be both parties' ability to separate sex and love...

If you start in the correct place, the question becomes:

and if we throw away creationism, we are apes and apes never were monogamous. Especially bonobo. Why this is so is a business of scientists, especially those who research DNA. There are monogamous species: wolves, swans for instance. Nature wants humans/apes being non-monogamous, while for some reason other species should remain monogamous. This is something to do with leadership and order, also with limited population in wolves and swans. And monkey is abundant and not very well organized. Xo

But that shit ain't for me.  If I ever do the "soulmate" thing with a provider, she gets to continue working, and I get to continue hobbying.  Then, just for shits and giggles, maybe we'll join a swinger's club.  The SO piece just means that at the end of the day we come home to each other.

that goes for hookers and non hookers alike.

He clearly ask if a provider could quit providing to become monogamous with one man, which would then make her an "ex provider" not an "active provider"

If you are willing to spend enough money you could probably make any whore "monogamous." Once a girl puts an actual price tag on her pussy and gives up her most intimate favors to be part of this lifestyle and sucks the cocks of strangers for the fast money it's unlikely she will ever stop.  

and didn't really pay attention to Escalade's initial post well enough. Oh well...

In some cases, people just don't click. And in some cases, all that glitters is, in fact, not gold.

.. and creep closer and closer to the 50 mark ... I have been finding that I keep resembling that elusive "not particularly giving a shit" category.