go see what is out there .
alley
xo
just curious. do you play the field, always looking for new provider or do you find one and repeat ? I started in this hobby about 2 years ago with the idea of trying out as much different pussy as I could find. (color, size, body type, etc... ). seems lately, though, that I have settled on 3 or 4 ladies and repeated quite often.
But I repeat with several.
I sometimes take a break from my regulars to make them more of a variety.
I feel Variety is the best part of the hobby.
I love variety, but I also have a handful of girls (perhaps ten) that I'll return to as long as they're available.
Variety was Great when I was in my 20's to mid 30's. But now I just like seeing one Girl for my Playtime Needs. This way we get to know each other and know our Expectations.
And I'd like at least 10 , no 7 good reasons . Cause I sure as hell haven't found her yet and I've had many women !
Gday There
good to see what is out there
alley
xo
go see what is out there .
alley
xo
You don't have to screw 10 people a week to get the same effect. My dates are with very little frequency, so when I say I see regulars, that's still not even once a month usually. I would go nuts seeing the same guy every week, which is why I can't keep a Sugar Daddy or a boyfriend for too long. I simply can't stand being around another person (same one) day in and day out, for extended periods of time. It's not that I crave other d*ck, because I don't. I simply like being alone!
that none of the mighty cocksmen whose reviews I've read on this site have been able to tame you. Are you immune to orgasms woman?
That only lasts for about an hour, then I go back to being a bitch lol. Not a man alive who can "tame" me, because I don't want to be tame.
I started in the hobby after my divorce, and initially my thought was to see a lot of different ladies, which I have. But my third provider was by far the best, I traveled to 5 different cities numerous times to see her (I had to travel to see her since she didn't tour to the city I used to live in). Unfortunately she worked through an agency that had to shut down earlier this year, I'm very sad about that. I have looked tirelessly in her home city boards and listings but I haven't seen an ad for her anywhere. She was not only the hottest, sexiest woman I've EVER been with but also one of the best persons I've ever met. Even if I knew I could never see her again (evidently the case) I wish I could talk to her to sincerely wish her a wonderful future, but I'm confident her future is bright because not only is she a very sweet person, but she also has a very strong will and strong character.
I will say I am a very lucky man, I've had the opportunity to see some really beautiful, sexy women who rocked my world. It is said that we make our own luck and I feel that's true. I've had mostly great experiences because of TER and being able to research the ladies I see before seeing them.
I still see a few ladies fairly regularly because I know exactly what I'm going to get with them, and that's important now because I have to travel each and every time I see a lady now as I've moved to a city in the deep south that doesn't have providers. There are still some providers that are on my bucket list but I must say there are always new ladies to see in here.
So, I guess all that makes me a hobbyist that is looking for new providers. I do certainly repeat with the best.
Sorry to hear that about your ATF. I totally know what you mean about not just the sexiest, but one of the best female persons to meet, & strong will and character, i.e. wife material.
No offense, but couldn't you get her private number or some other contact info outside the agency? after seeing her that many times?
About 5 years ago, an ATF of mine had suddenly retired. ( I found out much later because she was only a visiting provider and I saw her once or twice a year) I still had her phone # and her real name. I saw on facebook that she had already moved on with her mr. right. And I cautiously texted her hi. I don't know if she knew it was me but she texted hi back, how was I doing. I waited a few days then tried to call but she wouldn't answer. I decided to wait some months. Then a half year later, the line was gone so not able to text anymore. then I realized she wanted to move on and it was time for me to stop it. I'd mostly forgotten and moved on, but your post brought it back for me
This is totally off the subject, but I noticed you had 26 reviews with only one, Sicilia Capri showing. Were the other 25 banned/delisted?
None were banned or anything like that. I recently changed my username to this one which was my alias AMD the username that I wrote all my reviews with and this is how it displays
previously shared time with while the other 1/3 are new ladies who I am interested in meeting. Variety is good but sometimes I need a repeat visit to satisfy my memory of just how good a lady's skill set is.
They even go after the other girls. Not all but just take the f'kin money and get over the fact that you're not the only one for the million guys you f'k. Just say in
When I first saw my ATF, a few weeks later she referred me to another fine lady, maybe half a foot shorter.
I mean my atf was relatively low volume at the time but she could use the repeat business.
Then a few years later, I got an email from a then newcomer who said she had heard about me from my atf and
said she was starting her website soon etc. Now she's been one of the top in LA and seemingly has had to slow down now.
I knew my atf was friendly with other providers. But it looked like she and her other provider friends could always use more business. Is it because she was wise enough to consider mutual referring as better business for themselves overall?
Well, of course those were considered better economic times, i.e. Bush's "jobless recovery" and "deficits", rather than "debt" and "debt ceilings/fiscal cliffs" today.
Or overall, she knew I liked her too much/fell for her from the first meet, and was looking out for my feelings in a "stealthy" way
When I started out I saw a couple providers regularly. They played themself out and I took a break for a while. Now I see a variety of ladies and one a few times so far. We'll see how it goes in the future but there are a lot of beautiful ladies that I haven't seen yet.
I think variety is one if the main attractions of the hobby. Regulars are great of course because you become comfortable with eachother and develop a friendship. I never really understand girls that get upset if their reg sees someone else. If they wanted to see the same person all the time they would stay home with the wife or gf.
Who they are trying out next because I'm curious, knowing full well they probably will not cum back around for me because we both know that I'm just a stepping stone...
Alas, after a couple of months they always cum back
XXX-Giselle Parker
I more prefer finding a similarly minded lady who I initially connect with to repeat with. A Lady who wants to learn more about her own arousal and what her body is uniquely capable of. Unfortunately there are not many woman like that in this realm. I find many give lip service to the concept. But when I find one who does want to grow and explore, the shared journey becomes quite memorable.
One lady, now UTR, as pretty as she is, has an even more attractive mind because of the questions she asks, and the interaction when we are together. Finding someone truly like-minded means 'boredom' doesn't set in, so that reason (boredom) is not one that comes to mind when I consider a potential new Lady to reach out to. I love an inquisitively sexy mind, and by that I mean a woman who wants to know what variations in sensation she'll feel during arousal/orgasm if we alter a touch, include stimulating a different body part as she reaches orgasm, or we adjust one of the externals (music used, scent of candle, natural/artificial lighting, furniture/location used) to see what happens. And the 'aftertalk', when we share what was going on in our minds/bodies, can be just as erotic as the anticipation/participation.
So, I used to be a 'bucketlist' guy, but found that I was just inserting woman after woman into the LFK, DFK, focus on breasts, then focus on pussy, then try a couple positions, cum, clean-up and go, routine.
Now, when I find the right Lady, boredom is never an end-result.
As I've said many times before, I've just come off a divorce after being together for decades. I wanted to find a lady who's hot, whose companionship I enjoy, and who I'm compatible with sexually. I decided that when that happens, I'd spend enough time with her to be comfortable having a sexual relationship with someone other than my ex.
I do want variety, though. I've found someone who meets the qualifications above, and I'm having a great time. I'm also looking at other providers and thinking about when I might start seeing them.
My ex was hot in her day, but there's some providers in my area who are hotter than my wildest dreams.