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sdottaylor 19 Reviews 1027 reads
posted
1 / 16
When setting a doubles appointment...

Do you

A. Pick 2 providers that you've seen previously  

B. Pick 2 providers that you haven't seen previously

C. Pick 1 provider that you've seen previously and 1 that you haven't seen previously

Just wanted to get the board's perspective on doubles appointments. I want to have one this year. Last year, I was supposed to have one (C) but plans fell through.

BigPeterJohnson 38 Reviews 308 reads
posted
2 / 16
my own approach

i only see ladies that i have seen before individually, and that i know i have chemistry with.

then the second step is i pick 2 ladies that have told me that they have worked together before, so i know that they have chemistry between the two of them.

of course, the idea is that any provider can work with anybody they meet, that's the lie, sorry, i mean the premise that this hobby is built on.  but we all know that chemistry is an important part of a session's success or not.

i'm not rich enough to be able to afford a double envelope on the risk it might be less than stellar.  so i like to know in advance that all 3 parties enjoy each other's company.

just my 2 cents.  and that's no lie.

AllyVixen See my TER Reviews 339 reads
posted
3 / 16
My input on this

People will have their own approach with this but you definitely want to make sure you have a stellar experience. The more research you do the better off you will be. Plenty of people find 2 new women who advertise for duos often that are well reviewed while others prefer to go into it with 2 women they've met already. Really it is something you have to choose but when doing so don't rush. When you make the final decision ask yourself do you feel comfortable with your choice, go with your gut.  

 



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Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 248 reads
posted
4 / 16
Double appointments mean double envelopes.

Posted By: sdottaylor
Do you  
   
 A. Pick 2 providers that you've seen previously  
   
 B. Pick 2 providers that you haven't seen previously  
   
 C. Pick 1 provider that you've seen previously and 1 that you haven't seen previously  
   
 Just wanted to get the board's perspective on doubles appointments. I want to have one this year. Last year, I was supposed to have one (C) but plans fell through.

lopaw 29 Reviews 260 reads
posted
5 / 16
Although I haven't done one yet...

...I would be inclined to set it up with a provider that I have already seen and liked alot, and have her pick the other gal.

Dang...that would be alot of kitty in the room. I wonder if all of our cycles would sync? :D

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 231 reads
posted
6 / 16
Usually I know one very well

And then I let her select the other who's she done doubles with before. My last doubles was with a regular and she had a GF who was thinking of getting in the biz.  

Posted By: sdottaylor
Do you  
   
 A. Pick 2 providers that you've seen previously  
   
 B. Pick 2 providers that you haven't seen previously  
   
 C. Pick 1 provider that you've seen previously and 1 that you haven't seen previously  
   
 Just wanted to get the board's perspective on doubles appointments. I want to have one this year. Last year, I was supposed to have one (C) but plans fell through.

some-guy 6 Reviews 215 reads
posted
7 / 16
I prefer C

Ask your favorite provider who she recommends.

Hopefully she has a few friends. Ask for a few suggestions and pick the one you most like.

And if none of her friends are cute enough, then it's time to get a new ATF. Ha ha! Good luck.

el.dude 194 reads
posted
8 / 16
A, although...

my personal preference is to set up doubles with providers (i) that I've seen several times and have clicked with individually, (ii) that are actually friends with each other IRL, and (iii) that are actually into playing with each other as well as with me.

The sex is fantastic and the natural, playful, easy-going atmosphere is amazing. It's effortless and it's wonderful.

Before 2015, I had only done one double. During 2015, I did 7 under the above formula, with a fantastic, extended circle of provider friends. They are all beautiful women, beautiful people and great friends to each other (and me)!

To the extent the above formula is difficult to attain, my priorities are as follows:

(i) MUST HAVE

(ii) GREAT to have

(iii) NICE to have

In that order.  

I suspect some would reverse prioritize (ii) and (iii).

Find a favorite provider that you truly enjoy spending time with.  When you are sufficiently comfortable with each other and can be open, ask if she has any friends that she enjoys doubling with.  See that friend, and off ya go.

Good luck!

el dud

toozman 182 reads
posted
9 / 16
A and/or C

I would be cautious of B. Meeting two providers you have never seen previously puts you in a "your word against theirs" position. Heard more than few bad stories about this situation. A can be tricky. Unless you know both fairly well it's difficult to predict how they will get along. C is my preference. Allow the provider you know to chose the third.

TheKarateKid 7 Reviews 201 reads
posted
10 / 16
Whenever I've done doubles...

Whenever I've done doubles, it was always with an ATF.  I would always let her suggest a 2nd provider, so I was confident that both ladies had good chemistry and played together well.  Usually, the 2nd provider was someone that I've never had a session with before.  Although, I've known most of her friends by their reputations and TER reviews.

Another thing to consider when doing doubles is whether the ladies are truly bi-sexual or just gay for play, especially if you like ladies who are really into each other. If the ladies aren't into each other, it may turn into a session where you are just switching between the 2 ladies with very little 3-way interaction.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 157 reads
posted
11 / 16
When I did them, I chose C usually...

It's good to let the lead gal pick the other gal to ensure chemistry between them.

A few times I saw two gals for the first time who worked as a pair already.

Those days are more or less behind me now.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 156 reads
posted
12 / 16
C. And I ask the provider I've seen previously (with chemistry) to give me a . . .

few suggestions for the 2nd girl. Then I give provider #1 my choice and let her set it up. This worked out fabulously last December. The best birthday present ever!

sdottaylor 19 Reviews 139 reads
posted
13 / 16
Re: Pick me! Pick me! (E)

I don't have any plans to go to Phoenix but if you ever came to DC, then I might think about it

sdottaylor 19 Reviews 177 reads
posted
14 / 16
Re: I prefer C

Sounds like a good plan, but my ATF isn't local and I haven't seen any local providers (I see touring providers or when I'm on vacation). There are some locals I want to check out, I've just been saving for trips so I haven't.  

My ATF and I talked doubles last time I saw her. She seemed up for it, now I just need to either find a local to join us, hope my ATF brings a partner next time she tours or hope my ATF and another touring provider I see are in town at the same time.

impposter 49 Reviews 203 reads
posted
15 / 16
Option D

Posted By: sdottaylor
Do you  
   
 A. Pick 2 providers that you've seen previously  
   
 B. Pick 2 providers that you haven't seen previously  
   
 C. Pick 1 provider that you've seen previously and 1 that you haven't seen previously  
D. Pick 4 providers and wear them out until there are only 2 left.

some-guy 6 Reviews 168 reads
posted
16 / 16
Ah, I see ...

In that event, I would go with option D:

Get in touch with your ATF and pick a local girl together. Put together a list of maybe 3 potential locals, and email their links over to your ATF and ask her which one she likes the best.  

That way, you're at least involving her in the process and increasing the odds of finding a girl she has as much of a crush on as you do. Or at least someone she can tolerate. :-) ha ha.  

Plus it's just really really fun to shop for chicks with your ATF. Way better than shopping for shoes or some crap like that.

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