One regular give out my reference info, but my sessions with her were never the same, and so I moved on. Another regular got very upset and then proceeded to screw my brains out quite literally, it was the best sex I've ever had. A third regular immediately offered me a big discount on any of my subsequent visits.
Women!!! I will never understand em.

Deep down inside some providers hope they will hit the gold mine for a sugardaddy. Some hope that a rich guy will marry them. Some women can get attached to you after you have seen them 3 times. I am not surprised to see the behavior.

All things considered.....I am not at all comfortable with provider reference. Either it's a girl that I don't know so I don't feel comfortable with or it's a reference that is one of my dearest friends and I don't feel comfortable because I don't want her to be threatened.

I honestly have a hard time sometimes even telling my girlfriends about this fabulous date that I may have just had.......because if they haven't made great money that week and had a similar experience recently then they can't help but to feel a bit envious.

People just really need to realize that providers are as professional as we can be just as you are.......but, there is a side to both parties that takes things personal. And, if we didn't take things personal you wouldn't want to be with us......because we would be TOO professional. It takes a balance and you just can not have it both ways. We all need to try to be courteous to the feelings of others or we will get mixed emotions.

Just my Opinion.

X's Summer

That equal opportunity, temporarily debilitating, ultra hypnotic, fleeting, lucky when you find it, drug. When all else fails you can pay for it.

Makeup sex.

...you have not had "grudge" pussy... will put your mind in a whole different perspective.

Having been married to and divorced from  a rich guy, I'm working and saving hard to make sure I'm never in the dreadful situation again .... controlling, 'he who has the gold... and screw you' attitude, brings home the stress from what he has to do to make all that money, and on and on!!

Nothing like that deep down anywhere in me!!

Suzanne in San Diego

I'm in exactly the same boat. The statement that I made was to mean that this attitude of being taken care of by a man isn't at all limited to providers. As a matter of fact I find that providers tend to be more independent than women outside the business.

Society in general has always promoted the idea of the man being the bread winner and the wife staying home and taking care of the children.

X's Summer

In fact, I meant my post to show up in response to AnyOneNormalAnymore's post.  

You are absolutely correct, providers in general seem to be more independent, and the best escorts who are careful and save, save, save, have no need to find a rich guy, unless of course they want to!
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Suzanne in San Diego