for a better experience! I would recommend using female condoms, that way you won't have to change condoms when you switch ladies. I would just go with the flow of things, if the women know each other and are really-bi, they will know what to do and will treat you very, very good.

In my experience with threesomes, multiple condoms were not used.  I found that one woman will be more dominant than the other.  It will generally be that one dominant woman who is driving the experience.  Don't even worry about awkward moments, if they happen, they happen.  So quit worrying, have some fun, and just act like you have a million dollars, god damn it.

It's nice if they know each other....

It makes the experience a bit more fun . Try the female condom and you can go back and forth between them without all the changing . Just let the ladies direct as you will be along for the ride !!! Lol

Sexual attraction has very little to do with chemistry, and the very same women guys have said were "squeaky clean" had a smell. Not always a bad smell, but one just the same. I am very picky about who I go down on, so I will not work with anyone I have not "tested" beforehand.  

I agree, they should know each other unless those women are willing to simply fk anything you happen to bring over. I can promise you...I am not one of those women. Just because someone is bi or even outright gay, does not mean they are attracted to every woman out there. That is an assumption most straight men usually make about gay men being attracted to them lol.  

Only so much I am going to do for money, and though I don't have to be attracted to the men I see, women are a whole different story. I MUST be attracted to them in every way possible, and certain vagina types gross me out. I won't go into detail, but if it's an "outie" I am going nowhere near it.

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When a client wants a double with me, I will suggest one of them that I think would be most suitable as a playmate for us. These are girls (and boys, and TS girls...) who I have played with privately and professionally. This way, I know that not only are they really bisexual, I actually have chemistry with them. I sometimes even rum slightly discounted doubles specials with a friend because I like threesomes so much. I think it makes a huge difference in the guy's experience to be seeing two girls who are really into playing with each other.  
 If a client wants to see myself and a provider I don't know personally together, I'll chat with her through email privately a bit to get to know her first.  

In response to OP: YES, use multiple condoms. If you're not switching condoms between ladies, you run the risk of transmitting STIs between the two of them. Be especially liberal with switching condoms and handwashing if there is Greek involved. I like a few other posters' ideas of using female condoms instead.

I've read the comments from the providers in this thread, and they make perfect sense.

Do you have similar concerns with a threesome where the hobbyist doesn't want the two girls to interact sexually, but only have sex with him?

In that situation, would you still prefer to have some input as to who the third party would be?  

I plan on asking my current provider in a couple of months if she'd be open to this. She's young, though, so I don't want to incur any of the "high school girl" issues mentioned earlier.

I can say that chemistry between the girls is SUPER important. Honestly, if you want to get your money's worth, you need two girls who work together. Even if you're not into seeing the girls enjoy each other, there WILL be some interaction between them, and a two-mouth BJ is great...or so I've heard. Now, that doesn't mean I'd have to pick the girl myself, but I'd definitely need to approve any suggestions, and either meet the girl or chat with her ahead of time to make sure we know each other's boundaries.  

I'd suggest starting with a drink or two to loosen everyone up, especially if its your first time with two girls. Plus it builds the sexual tension....

I think it's important to be relaxed about it, and not set too many expectations. Of course, if you really want to try a certain position, tell the ladies ahead of time.

I've never tried the female condoms in a threesome before, but that's probably the easiest way to handle that issue. Or just focus on one lady at a time to minimize the downtime.  

Also, don't feel a huge pressure to perform. One play partner I had tons of group sex with used to get performance anxiety and had a hard time maintaining an erection. It was really no big deal - and if you're dealing with girls who have chemistry, it won't be a downer.

If all you want is the sensation of being in a room with two hot naked women whom you will diddle serially you can probably arrange that easily and the women may well play along even if they don't know each other well or are even bi. But for ANYTHING MORE you absolutely have to find ladies who know each other well enough and are into having sex with another woman. After you cross that major hurdle the rest is even easier--just tell them what you want in the session (girl-girl DFK, DATY etc.), make sure you understand and are ok with their boundaries,  and get plenty of rest and drink lots of water beforehand.