I am new to this board, and I do not particpate in the "hobby".
I apologize for taking up space here, but I have a serious problem, and if anyone can help I figured I'd find them on this board.

I am a semi- high-profile businessman.  I was alerted to the fact that my name is on a national blacklist board that is intended to expose men who rough up or don't pay ladies.  I do not know who put my name there, and the managers of the board refuse to pay attention to my request to remove my name.  My name is posted in the part of the website that is available for anyone to view. This is causing problems, as you can imagine. I am weary of explaining myself, and I suspect many don't believe me anyway. Someone who doesn't like me is causing me plenty of grief.

What can be done about this?  Why can this information be posted as it is, and why is it that this information is available for anyone to see, and isn't at least confined to a membership-only section or something like that? Why can't these boards be prosecuted? Why can't they be regulated? Why can't they be more responsible?  Why aren't they more accountable and less willing to protect the anonymity of the person who put my name there?  Someone should destroy these people! This operation should be boycotted or shut down!  What can I do?

 

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Hello GusTrucks,

If you have done what you can do by emails or phone calling and nothing is happening, then at this point, you'll need an attorney to take care of this sticky situation.

Constant explaining yourself over and over can and will be damaging to your reputation, if that hasn't happened already.

Unfortunately, when people post some defamatory statements on the internet, people automatically believe it like the Bible. There are usually no recourse unless you file some sort of criminal charge against the person/people in charge of the potential crime.

Just my 3 cents...

Serpius

report assuming it was fake.sounds like a nightmare if you were innocent and your name is now blasted on an escort site like that.

Don’t give importance and it becomes irrelevant!

What can be done about this?  
Your career/marriage/family/reputation with anyone that looks you up on the internet gets trashed.

Why can this information be posted as it is, and why is it that this information is available for anyone to see, and isn't at least confined to a membership-only section or something like that?
This is not done because the people that run these are scum.

Why can't these boards be prosecuted?
Go ahead and try...if you can find a real person behind it.

Why can't they be regulated?
Ha Ha.  Read up on the origins of what the internet was designed to do.

Why can't they be more responsible?  
They are scum.

Why aren't they more accountable and less willing to protect the anonymity of the person who put my name there?
They are scum.

Someone should destroy these people!
Great idea.

This operation should be boycotted or shut down!
Shut down, yes.
 
What can I do?
The Hollywood answer would be: get a hit man and track down the scum.  Would make a good movie.


These operations pretend to provide protection for women.  They don't.  Never have, never will.  Can anyone give exapmple of them having done any provider any good?  All they care about is sucking in cashflow from any and all sources.  That includes you now.

Suuuure. Just apologize for your transgressions and hope that take pity on your "blameless" soul. Ha.

yet your name is on some blacklist site in association with hookers? Hmmm...call your Lawyer, but you better hope there are no emails between the two of you that trace back to your IP address, because guess what...she can prove you had that conversation thus making you "a participant in illegal activity that might garner a blacklist."

Oh, and this post will never disappear from the internet. Now, you are on a hooker board with this story so there is a record of YOU being on a hooker board. Ooops.

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I find it hard to believe he is not in the hobby, yet he is a registered member here and just somehow happened to find his name on a blacklist site? Right. The guy is ALWAYS innocent of course.

i for one dont check those sites and dont care of one girl didnt like you, as we all know people get close and have fights and women dodge certain clients or anger some one or whatev and we hear story of them gettn these mean reviews from some one angry with them or just hating, whatev, like wise we all know women will blacklist you un fairly as  well, not eveyr one s goin to care theres one small black list. I know i dont check those sites, everyhting you sY IUS HOW WE FEEL TOO WE HAVE TONS OF FAKE REVIEWS POSTED ABOUT US TOO, i D SAY IF YOU HAVE SEVERAL WELL ESTABLISHED PROVIDERS WHOM GIVEN YOU THE OK, AND CAN CLARIFY YOU ARENT A PSYCHOTIC MEAN ROUGH HOUSER. THt would email the site and speak on your behalf. I know i had a fake review up with details of thiongs i dont have in here, which was stupid on thier part top go into such great detail on the decor, when i had proof I didnt have that furnishing here from many people that seen the place, so  you have to find a way to verify you arent this person who does these things, and unless you been a hobbyist for years and have women in the industry thatl vouch for you or can prove you didnt meet her, i dont think theres anythhing you can do. i for one, if you have two references from well establioshed ladies i wouldnt bother checking ten thousand black list sites before doin an appt, and i dont see many new clients any way, inicky was last new client i had here thaT WAS ALMOST MONTH AGO I BELIEVE, .  i HAVE HEARD ALSO OTHER PROVIDERS TALK ABOUT HOW THEY TAKE THOSE SITES W A GRAIN A SALT KNOWIN THAT IF YOU MAYBE TYPED A MEAN REVIEW THGEYD GO BACK N GET REVENGE BY DOIN THIS, TO YOU, ONE GAL SAID HER FAV CLIENT IS ON A BLACK LIST SITE!                                           I WOULDNT WORRY BOUT IT UIF U ARE A GOOD EGG , PEOPLE WILL FIGURE IT OUT, ONE PERSON TRYN TO RUIN THINGS FOR YOU WONT WORK ITS LIKE REVIEWS ONE MISERABLE MEAN HATER WRITIN A MEAN REVIEW, ISNT RUININ A GIRLS BUSINESS IF SHE HAS 20 GOOD ONES,                  ALSO THERE ARE BLACK LIST SITES WHERE TIME WASTERS ARE REPORTED AS WELL , SO DONT JUMOP CONCLUSION THEY DOGGED YOU N SAID YOU WERE A SCAM ARTIST THEY HAV A FEW WHERE SIMPLKE TIME WASTERS R ALKSO REPORTED. MAYBE YOU WITH OUT KNOWIN IT WASTED ALOT ALOT SOME LASIED TIME N ENERGY THEN NEVER GOT APPTS N SHE WAS ANNPOYED? I DONT KNOW, SORRY TO HEAR THIS HAPPEND,

I will PM it or you can email me at [email protected]. I am not on it but it is a very bad site. Very untrustworthy. Will not hurt your chances with providers but can hurt you if someone Googles you. They are a US based company and can be sued. I have talked to a few who has. Do not believe the hype on that site. Wish you luck.

After all they do not even check who the info came from. I could blacklist people on that site. His only recourse is to sue. That should work.

NBL listings shows up on Google. To find his name on the NBL is to Google his name or information. I do this often to control information out there. TER shows up on Google. That is how many here find this place. Every thing he claimed is plausible if he knows about Google and most everyone does. Given the fact NBL does allow anonymous from them postings. I could blacklist anyone on that site. No you do not need to be provider, just have to claim to be. You do not even need a membership. That is why that site is useless for screening yet can ruin live of innocent people.

How can anyone given that fact trust one damn thing on that damn site. Clients fear it for good reason so they lie during screening. This weakens your safety. But it adds nothing as any idiot can blacklist anyone on that site making in untrustworthy at best ad a hindrance of real screening more often than not. It is not helping any lady out there stay safe. Other sites that are member only and screen who can add to it are useful, just not this one.

he was never with a hooker.

That is better than most of these first ever post whoppers that I see.

create an email, make up a handle, join a review site, and post about it? Nope...my guess is he is in fact a hobbyist and got a bad provider. I am not disagreeing the situation is wrong as my thread above indicates, but honesty is best. We don't know if he assaulted this woman or not and his story has more holes than swiss cheese.

If I google a name on NBL it does not come up in google by itself. You have to put say, London Rayne/National Blacklist for it to show. So, he either knew about the NBL or someone sent him a link to the info. It would not just show up in google last I checked, because I googled my ex when someone put him on there bwahahaha. It was not until I put his name AND NBL together that it showed up.

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It still showed up. I know of guys that was outed to their wives by that site. If I had a well known name, had a job requiring security clearance, or was hiding this from my wife and I was on that list I would be scared, very scared.