As a married man who is an "on again off again hobbyist" I like to have fun filled 1 hour appts that include everything except FS.  In my own hyocritical way I don't feel guilty for stepping out on my spouse and having this kind of fun within my limits.  It seems the best reviews are for escorts that do provide FS.  My question for providers is...what would you think of hobbyists who wanted to schedule appt time with you, but at the time of appt said "oh by the way....I want a really fun hour doing everything except FS"?

My question for other hobbyists is...Am I the only one out there who thinks that way and what have your experiences been if you share that same preference for everything but FS. Thx!

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I can totally relate to what you are saying. IMHO you don't need to "warn" them that you want no FS. They are usually pleasantly surprised and give 110% in the other activities if you know what I mean!

I'm not sure what you mean specifically by "everything except FS".  I assume you mean oral, but covered or not?  Kissing with tongue?  You can put all your preferences into the TER search form and come up with some good matches.  

One more comment -- You could state your preference for no FS up front, on the phone.  If you wait until you get there she might think you are disappointed.  I'm sure she'd understand and be fine with it either way.  The other option is to see providers that are FBSM with the extras you want.  Again, use the search engine.

I personally do F/S from start to end of the meeting with no exception but I do know of cyber buddies that do even less than what you are planning on doing.

1.Some ask the ladies to tie themselves while the take pictures.
2.Some ask to be dominated and spanked and are fully satisfied that way.
3.Some just ask the ladies to perform different Roles, (I.e. Nurses, Teachers, Cheerleaders, etc.).
4.Others just want a good massage followed by a hand job.
5.And others just simply date them to be at public activities or to keep them companion on their business related trip were this person dines and shows them the city.

So as you can see there are tons of men catalogged as high rollers in most cases that I know that are not interested in F/S but just having a good time with a pretty woman.

Echoing what linkmeister said, there are providers who only do FBSM and do it well.  You probably will have a better experience with those who specialize in this rather than asking FS providers to do something they don't usually do (even if it is "less" than what they normally provide).

On several occasions I told Full Service providers that I was not looking for FS, but for other kinds of fun, (BJ, massage, HJ, etc.),  I have never had any problems. When I do that, in order to make them at ease, I always tell them I wuold pay the full rate even if I am not asking for full service. I don't want to give them the impression that I am cheap and that I am looking for a discount.

to have f/s. In fact, many times I prefer NOT to have f/s even though it is offered. Many of my most enjoyable sessions and most intense orgasms have been without f/s. For me, the purpose of seeing a provider is for fun and relaxation. Of course, I want her to have a good time too and try to give her one, but until she starts paying to see me, my enjoyment comes first.

My take on this is an escort wants to be paid for her time.  Whatever type of companionship you desire is what is agreeable to both of you.