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Ok, I know "squirting" is all the rage lately, but how many of you guys REALLY like it that much?
GaGambler 2752 reads
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I've got to confess, except for confirmation of a "job well done" I am not a fan.

 
I remember once upon a time squirting was something you "warned" other guys about, but now it seems like guys are disappointed if they don't have to change mattresses after each session, not just the sheets. Don't get me wrong, i love giving the woman I am with a great finish almost as much as I want one for myself, but I don't have to have to see her gush a six packs worth of fluid onto my sheets to prove to myself what a stud I was.

 

For those of you that are fans, just what is it about having a quart of fluid soaking your bed that is such a turn on to you?

souls_harbor55 reads

It seems the providers feel the need to proclaim they squirted.  I get that a lot (not yet half the time, but often enough.)

Frankly I don't even believe they O.   It's not that they can't or that I can't make someone O, but that they do this stuff for a living and I'm just another in a long line of customers.   If they do O or squirt, good for them.  As for me, I really don't need the fake feedback.  I am paying them, after all.   I want to treat them okay so they'll appreciate the biz, but my goal is not to put their pleasure ahead of mine.  That's called marriage.

So sad you actually believe this. Is it soooo hard for guys here to actually think it's possible for a women to cum and enjoy herself of there is money involved???? Lmao.  

Who hurt you???? Haha

RalphCramdin54 reads

For me personally, One of the biggest turn offs is a fake O. One of the biggest turn-on's is a cumming and soaked puss. The taste, smell, texture, the sight of it, everything is exotic about a soaked puss wetting the bed.  There are some wannabee girls who piss and call it squirting. The two are entirely different and personally prefer not the piss. I assume the girls who are not capable of having an o will do the piss routine and pretend it's something it isn't.

For some reason, if I’m particularly aroused, I produce smoke. Maybe it’s from the curry.

Bahahaha..top reply Rasha!

I don’t squirt and I don’t piss on people either - even if they are paying! - so this is a party I’m not privy to 🤣
A client and I once had a chat with about fake O’s said something to the effect of:

‘If you want to know if a woman is having a fake O just look at her face. If she looks pretty she’s faking. A cum face is not a pretty but it’s not meant to be’ - I think he’s on to something there!

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Yup. Ive seen homemade porn and the cumface looks like a stroke or seizure. It's NOT pretty.

How would you classify this face... fake or real?

It looks more like a painting than a photo.

That reminds me of the following:

Customer: do you smoke after you have sex?

Provider: not sure,  I never checked .....

Sometimes it's a real turn-on.   Other times, not so much.

I am health professional and know anatomy and physiology but I'm not a woman. My understanding is that it is not pleasurable in itself. What I understand is that the fluid is produced by the Bartholin glands (and can sometimes comes mixed with urine but not necessarily). It makes sense that during an intense orgasm the whole pelvic area gets contracted and these glands can squirt (as the bladder may)  so that would be part of squirting during an orgasm. But to my knowledge hard direct activation of the glands (see two finger heavy petting in porn movies) and causing a woman to squirt that way does not necessarily produce an orgasm.  

I know in porn actress act as if it is and I guess you can fetishize it in both ends, but as a guy I would not take it as a sign that she is "melting away" under the power of my super dick :)  Excuse the cynicism,  Still,  it can be fun if she likes to dominate in a "watersports" -like fashion, and regardless, we (or most)  like things juicy!!

I have talked to actual physicians who all agree that squirting is just piss. If it was real where are the peer-reviewed studies backing it up?

 

At any rate, unless the guy asks for it in a PSE session I think it's disgusting.  

btw, actual physician here. There is no common understanding but for sure the Bartholin glands are involved; as for whether urine comes out too when these glands are stimulated to secrete I don't know but it's quite possible. The lack of peer reviewed papers speaks of the lack of interest in medicine as a whole in understanding female sexuality, especially when it comes to desire or pleasure. But that's for a whole conference. And we don't want to open the can of worms of female hypoactive sexual desire (Big Pharma).  

And by the way,  most of my doctor colleagues know zero about women's sexuality.  

Not trying to be controversial here, just wanted to share what I know (you learn anatomy and physiology in med school but there is nothing on women's sexuality in graduate and little in postgraduate education). So for my own knowledge and for treating my female patients I resort to other sources of information; the classic medical training is very narrow and simplistic.  Men's sexuality is also poorly understood in the medical establishment. Let's put it this way, if I had questions about sexuality (other than testing or physical sexual health) I would not go to a physician, I would go to a certified sex educator.

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not a physician, but I suggest you read up on Skene's glands.  

Questions for those who believe squirting is pee. Have you experienced a squirter?  Did it smell like pee?  Why do you think that a male can ejaculate semen , which is not the same as sperm, but women can not ejaculate? Do you (males) pee when you ejaculate? I don't.  

I have been with a real, bed soaking squirter .  It was not pee. No doubt at all. I have also been with a civvie SO that squirted once. I thought, at first, that she was pissing, but we both realized fairly quickly that it was not pee.  

I also have no doubt that some providers have seen the hoopla around squirting and are trying to fake it by pushing out some pee. If the female ejaculate smells funny, you can have some confidence it is urine or she has a serious infection.

I'm indifferent to squirting itself. But I've never fucked a squirter where it wasn't a great experience. The couple of provider squirters who I've seen in recent memory were totally outstanding in every other aspect of their performance. Many years ago I had a civvie girlfriend who squirted and was also a tremendous fuck.  
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So squirting is not something I'm going to purposely seek out, but if I see it in reviews it's not going to turn me off. Since I always do incalls, it's not my bed getting soaked.. Avoiding the wetness for resting up and the second round is a consideration.
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Sometimes I check into a hotel and think "was the previous guest in this room a squirting provider or the john fucking one"?

souls_harbor52 reads

According to Psychology Today "two personality traits namely extraversion and openness to experience were positively correlated with proclaiming that one had a G-spot."  I think squirting correlates to having a G-spot as well.

The G spot is for sure related to orgasm and that is the area you see stimulated in porn movies for squirting (anterior wall of vaginal wall). What I find amazing is that in 2017 we don't know this 100%. It shows how female pleasure has historically been disregarded even by science as unworthy of exploration. No joke.  

Also to your point of extraversion, makes sense too, it may relate to women who are more willing to explore and experience and have no problem with "letting go". However many women who have no problem letting go do not squirt. So what do I know. Never been with a squirter but would be fun to see first hand.

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I'm not a fan of washing bedding, towels, and t-shirts ( I had a provider Squirt on me before I could even get my shirt off)  

I like to relax after I get laid ...

 not do laundry..

She would shoot about 10 feet. Thankfully it was her incall. Id be a bit pissed if she di d it in my bed though.

of squirting myself. I've tried providers with this reputation. The last time we were in 69 with her atop and I could feel her starting to tense and I thought to myself "Oh shit! Here is comes." Then I was deluged. It wasn't necessarily a turnoff, but it's not something I want to repeat. Each his own!

(Refer to my party analogy post from a couple of days ago.)

I've known a few (3, to be precise) providers who really seem to enjoy squirting.  And they do it a lot.  So, squirt away if it floats your boat (sometimes literally!).  But if a provider does it only because she thinks it's a turn on for me... let's find something else to do and spare the floors and bedding.  :)

I hate when I have to get up at two in the morning to do it.  

could squirt at a drop of a hat during daty and fiv. She'd do this the entire visit. The other lady took a little coaxing with some of her toys which added to the fun of getting her to squirt.

The first time witnessing it shocked me because I wasn't expecting it, but found it to be a turn on when I could get her to do it each visit afterwards. The second lady was curiosity to see if I could get another lady who squirted excited enough to squirt with me. Both fun times but it's not something I seek out.

But yesterday,  with no warning I squirted everywhere! It was definitely a wtf moment! Lol I wasn't cumming yet but right before. I was totally turned on but it was out of the norm for me, for sure. It was hot to feel the warm juices splashing on my thighs... I was lying on my back.  I'm guessing that some guys like to SEE or FEEL the warm liquid shoot out.  I know I get turned on seeing cum shoot out from the head of a cock! Yummm!!!  
Who knows? All I know is, I had no control over it and it shocked the hell out of me lol
XOXO  
TL

LOL Terry!  I was mortified when it first happened to me.  I was so sure I had wet the bed!!  I did some reading and found it has viscosity akin to prostate fluid, which would make sense biologically.  The female body producing more motility for sperm.  The fluid is produced in the Skenes glands on the anterior wall of the vagina near the lower end of the urethra.  I have to agree with what was stated earlier about the inadequate research done on female sexuality.  It wasn't until the 70s that women were capable of orgasm!!!  Anyone who has experienced real squirting (I prefer the term gushing) will tell you it isn't urine.  The color and the odor are different.  Just my two cents!!

Abbey

Apply that every service here. You don't like it but some do. Ok. Different strokes for different folks. Why does it matter what or why someone else enjoys it, if you don't???  

Personally I just don't see why people care so much what other's like.  Feels good ...do it. Life isn't that complicated.

The first time I was with Philly Abbey she gushed while I was DATY.  It was my first time experiencing it and I loved soaking up as much of her fluid as I could.  Personally, I'm a fan.  

JakeGordon50 reads

Experienced this a few times and I now avoid anyone who advertises this "feature". To me, it seemed like the lady simply was simply urinating - between the taste and the smell - well you get the picture. No thanks.

Is this true for all "squirters"? I have no idea and am not claiming that all squirters are just urinating - but I don't need to investigate any further!

I had a man not too long ago , ask me did you  Squirt  i said yes👄

Up until about 6 months ago i had only heard of it but never experienced it with anyone. I was with a very hot little thing and was DATY and next thing i know this shit ( not feces)  comes flying at my face. First reaction was WTF did you just do piss on me? She laughed so hard by the look on my face.  I love a great wet pussy , just not one that shoots farther than i can. But to each their own.

There are some ladies that just love to piss on guys, really. I know one such lovely lady and she admitted it to me, of course after she "pissed" on two occasions with me.  When I confronted her with the "WTF". She flat out told me that she likes doing it, to piss on her clients. It serves another purpose, it like an ego booster to her clients, that they made her cum that she squirted.
After that. I saw her reviews, and yes the reviewers would glow how she squirted.  Yep, she pissed on you.
Not that all squirters piss on their clients, but my guess is that if she "squirts" like a fire hydrant..she just pissed on you.

I know a provider who has a reputation as a squirter, so a lot of her clients expect her to squirt. But it's not automatic nor unlimited.  She needs the right assist from the clent, and sometimes she's just not feeling it.  So if the guy pushes her to squirt and it's not going to happen, she pees on them to give them that ego-boo.  The funny thing is, they don't seem to notice it's pee, so they've probably never been squirted on before.  

While sometimes it may be hard to tell the difference, the fakers are definitely peeing when you get a pint or more fountain out.
That, I am not into.  Its gross and unnecessary.
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But... if a gal is obviously in the throes of passion and legitimately has the "cum face"/red flush, contractions and shaking and squirts a little during oral then its a home run for me that I have made her cum.  Its a complete mind fuck/mind orgasm for ME to make a woman cum.  Why?  I dunno.  But I like that almost (note I said ALMOST) as much as cumming myself.  Makes me smile every time.

A girl who I know wasn't faking it is what prompted me to start this thread. It was a girl I had been with many times, and who usually got very wet, but had never actually squirted before. When it did happen, it happened during intercourse and since we were in mish I couldn't actually see it happen, I could certainly feel it, and afterwards I didn't just have to change the sheets, but the mattress pad as well.  

 
I will confess I did feel kind of "studly" that I made her soak the bed like that, but would I actually "seek out" a woman who squirts? Hell fucking no. BTW, I do make sure to lay a towel down underneath us from then on. Not only did I have to wash the mattress pad last time, but I took all day for the mattress itself to dry out before I could make the bed again. That's not something I want to have to go through every time I have sex. lol

...and if its her incall or a short stay hotel/motel, IDGAF about the bed.  A quick shower cleans me up.  

If you meet someone really squirts, it is fun.

I used to see this provider from Sweden in Atlanta couple of years ago, she would squirt three or four times. Unfortunately, she finished her school and went back. Great SB, ever.

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