The ugly fat guy is shunned by almost all women in life, so he looks to the hobby to pay for action he otherwise can't get.
And then when he pays for a hot provider, if the provider doesn't say "Aw Hell Nawww" and shut the door...   the provider can't contain her disgust, or keeps her distance, trying not to kiss, or closes her eyes tightly, imagining she's fucking someone else.  (Yes, I know of a provider admitting to this).
UFG just can't catch a break.

Just look at the rich old coots you see running around on the society pages with trophy wives at their sides.

The world's perception of you. But then I wondered, why does someone who's not an ugly fat guy purport to know so much about this, and why does he want to know more?

In my civvie life, I've dated some of the world's most handsome and beautiful celebrities (men and women).  Some of these people had 'dark hearts' and were unkind human beings.  Thus...their beauty, in my eyes, disappeared VERY quickly!  

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but that is one of the reasons why ladies above 30 are my favorite age bracket.

I also know escorts that scoff at thin guys thinking they made them cum. Ya know, Harry met Sally on Kegels.

who never farts but still worries about global warming.

Fart every day and I'm really not worried about Al's dilemma.

IMHO I think as long as you're squeaky clean, flossed and brushed, and well dressed that it doesn't matter.

Yeah I know, you meant it for the OP, but your post is in the wrong place!

that "ugly fat guys"  
need to pay for their Sex.
I've seen the reverse of what you describe.

Most Experienced providers develop visual acuity beyond the normal 20/20.

Amen!

There is no explanation.

but for that the explanation is obvious. lol

Certainly there are varying degrees of physical attractiveness however once I have spent a little time with someone I find their attractiveness comes from their personality, not their physical looks.  I've seen gentlemen with obvious "flaws", some that you may say are "ugly", but I truly don't see them that way.  I have had only two "ugly" clients and both of them were physically attractive, however they were rude and mean spirited people.  

let alone a hot chick.

If any woman tells you that when we first see a UFG client that we don't get a little bit skeeved out, she is LYING!!!!.....Society is so fixated on LOOKS and APPEARANCE, it tells us everyday how pretty we need to be,how we need to dress a certain way,have our hair a certain way and when you see someone who doesnt look like you or that model than you do judge...It's a fu**ed up world that we live in but its the truth!!!  

As long as they are clean, smell good and don't try to lick my face or stick their tongue in my ears or give me slobbery kisses.  I've only been truly disgusted by a client's appearance once.  The guy was some trust fund baby with a prolonged coke habit and looked like skeletor with a bleeding nose.  I couldn't go through with it and left without the money after giving him a very long lecture.

From your gig as a mall santa?

about a guy trying to connect to something that does not connect.  He's not fat or ugly, according to him (his providers may see it differently), so why does he care?

Taking a look at this from a different angle.  

No, being fat doesn't not make a person automatically ugly.

That its not so much about weight as it is about personality, cleanliness and not being a dick.  I have never had a provider have a problem with my weight (I am not grotesquely overweight, just wide around the middle and slightly pear shaped).  As a larger person who is a couple inches under 6 foot I dont mind seeing women of different sizes from short lil spinners to a 6 foot curvaceous Amazon to slightly out of shape MILFs.  I have gone with women who were 7's for appearance but whose service was 9 and almost 10.  Its not about weight, its about chemistry.  Honestly, if I ever ran across a provider who was not into me because of my appearance I would never see that person again because I would see them as shallow.  Thank goodness most of my provider liasons have either been great actresses or simply nice people.

100% agree with you!!!! Very well said 👍🏽

I have certainly been treated differently because of my age and tend to book more mature ladies because of it.  I actually had a very young lady say to me just as I was sticking it in that she didn't like "OLD" guys.

I am fifty seven and I have NEVER had a woman say that to me, and I still see a lot of 18 year olds due to the fact I now live in a college town.

I am 63 now, but this happened when I was 54.  Keeping junior at attention wasn't easy but I muscled through it, even though it was hardly a worthwhile experience.  Of course I never used that agency again.