Older men know that women, regardless of age, appreciate good hygiene above almost all else.  That means we take an hour or two to shower, shave, clean our teeth and mouths, and make sure we are at our best before we leave home.  Also, we know that the ladies need time to screen us if we've never played together before, for their safety and ours.  This usually takes more time than just calling, and driving to see them that night.  Most of us also know from experience that calling a lady from BP or cruising for SW's is higher risk on a number of fronts, and usually not worth it.  We would prefer to see ladies that may be a bit older, but are smarter, higher class, and know their game as opposed to taking our chances on BP with inexperienced younger ladies that may not be as advertised.  Yes, we remember the dorm environment back in the day...enjoy it while you can. The game changes once you graduate, and go out into the adult world.  Being an arrogant a-hole may have carried you thus far, but one day, someone will call you on that, and slap you down hard.  There's few things better than seeing one of you dipshit's take the pipe...

As for sex being fun...you have no idea, grasshopper.