Since I can't type with ONE hand, I never got the appeal. Fuck playing make believe with words on a screen - let's play house for REAL.

My BM was once chatting up this chick in IM on a swinging site, which lead to cybersex. She found it more amusing than erotic.

We saw this chick a few weeks later at a party, and my ol' lady brought it up once or twice, and the chick looked totally confused. We'd later find out that it was actually the chicks husband, pretending to be her. That was awkward.

The idea never appealed to me much anyway, but after that it went in my not-a-fucking-chance box. Chances are you wind up talking dirty to some hairy old fat guy with skid marks in his tighty wighties, who calls himself kinkyhotslutgurl69. No thanks.

......tonight I engaged in my first attempt at Webcam sex with an old acquaintance.

It was interesting and somewhat exciting basically because it was visual and so new to me. It did feel as though we were in the same room but just didn't have that pizazz !

I think I'll stick with the ladies in real-time.

It was good for a laugh back in the day...

esp., like you said, when the internet was a new thing... Of course nothing beats the real deal..

My cyberlover and I met in a chat room on an adult website at the end of January, 2004. We spent the whole month of February chatting and going private for cybersex. Never before or since have I typed so many words so fast. That February, cold and snowy for everyone else, was bright and warm for me.

When February turned to March a sudden, disturbing change came over my cyberlover. She could not get out of the room fast enough after I had exploded with my cybercum over and over deep inside her. In the space of days, she went from "I'm really missing you tonight" to "I think we should see other people," to dead silence whenever I was around. (That, BTW, is how I know she really was female ). I left the site shortly after that.

I'll never forget you, "Songbird69-F" [not her real screen name].

I've never wanked on the phone or on my screen LOL. The best phone sex I've ever had with a lady I was dating but she lived on the left coast (SF) and I only got out there a few times a year. That was in the 90s. When I see links to webcams and other sites, I take a peek now and then, but paying .99 a minute to beat off is less than ideal.

Those were the days when halfway around the world some girl would flash her boobs and tits at me after a nice video chat.  Two years ago, some girl from Adultfriendfinder told me she wanted me but since I was 'attached', she'll just masturbated on a video for me.  It was interesting, but really haven't done it in a while. The video cam then were a bit grainy.  Nothing beats HD now.