Any rejections I've had were over over schedules or non-responders ( so don't really know why they didn't respond.) But in any case I just moved on to the next. I'll never be able to see all the providers I'm interested in so it's no big deal.

is by providers who have age limits.  I will usually tell them that I am extremely fit for my age and they should try me to see if THEY can keep up with me. Lol     Some change their mind and we have a good time, and some don't, saying they have had bad experiences with guys over their age limit.  Fair enough.  I have always accepted that when it comes to providers, it's their body, so it's their rules.  I don't take it personally.  Likewise, I don't want to find myself in a situation where someone doesn't want to see me but is desperate for rent money and so they make an exception, so their initial reaction tells me whether they are open-minded or biased.  

Although the only "rejections" I've experienced have been screening related -- not providing what someone wants. That's fine. I cannot say that there is really any provider that I have to see so if one were to approve my screening but say they don't want to see me for some other reasons I would just move one. I have no interest in seeing someone who doesn't want to see me. No way that will be a good session that represents a good way of spending my money.

I just move on.

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There have been a couple of women that I have reached out to, and never got a response. I follow up once, and if I don't hear back, I move on. For all I know, my email went to their spam folder and they're not purposely ignoring me, but how else can I contact them, smoke signal?

I have never been rejected outright or had a provider refuse services when we meet. I have had one or two not resspond to my inquiries for whatever reason.  I just forgot about it and continued to look for a willing provider.

As long as she is upfront about it and doesn’t stand me up or ghost me, I’m fine with it. I only object if someone says one thing and does another.  But, everybody has the right to reject anybody else for whatever reason. That’s life on life’s terms.

The truth sometimes hurts, not always what you want to hear. But truth is a gift and is worth knowing.
Some guys hate hearing negatives about themselves.
A provider who didn’t like the truth, called me an old man.
First time I heard that, as I don’t look or act my age. But, I figured that was the worst she could say about me. And I can accept that.
If you tell guys the truth, they would be wise to appreciate it. But, sadly, some will lash out. You have to decide for yourself if various reactions bother you. I love hearing the truth, others don’t.

As lame as it is, no response is probably the least objectionable -- because it isn't necessarily assumed to be an intentional rejection.

This reminds me of my most stinging rejection I’ve ever had. Of all places, in a GoGo Bar in Bangkok. SMH  
I saw the prettiest, perfect-looking girl and bought her a drink. Mind you, I was in my 30s, wearing a blazer, and very in shape. Nevertheless, she was repulsed me. When I asked if I could spend time with her she gave me a disgusted look and walked back on stage. Omfg. I couldn’t believe it. I was really attracted to her and was reeeeally butthurt. I really wanted her above all the other girls in the bar.  

If I don't know you and you're declining my appointment, just tell me no. You don't owe me a reason, so a "I will not be accepting appointment requests from you" will work.