I have a host of ladies on my bucket list that I'd can afford to see, but there out of  my area, so I would have to fly them to me for a fortune,, you know the drill, (2000 to 15000).  Now that figure is on top of there rate.  So for you guys that have done this, has it been worth it?  Do you expect, (and receive),  extras and get them?  Please don't insult me by asking what those extras are, you know what I'm talking about.  Or would I be better off just contacting 2 to as many 20 local ladies. Yes I'm talking about all the ladies that we all dream about.  

You experts have done this before, I'm ready to put my extremely large toe in the pond, and I really would like your advise..............................

They are just women, some hot, some incredibly hot, and some not so much. I have never even considered flying a woman out to see me based strictly on an internet ad, her reviews or any other reason than I have already met her and she knocked my socks off and if that were the case I would either go see her, or I would be flying her in for several days at a time if I really thought she was "all that"  

I really don't see how anyone who lives in any major city in this country can be in a position where the only women that really do it for him lives thousands of miles away. I just don't get the concept, but that's just me. and if by "extras" you mean BBFS, I doubt very seriously that these women, despite their willingness to hop a plane for you (at your expense of course) are going to be any more likely to raw dog you than any local girl. Actually if that's what you are looking for, use that same grand or two as a "tip" and you are MUCH more likely to get BBFS that way than blowing your money on airfare.

There are always local women who are classy and affordable.  Spending money on women who need to flown in does not make sense unless it is someone you have seen before and it is some type of special situation where beyond the bedroom you are going out with the lady to some sort of important function where you need to impress for business reasons.

nope rhymes with dope..

It appears you get around. Why don't you go to them if you really want to see them that badly? That's what I would do.  

I've only considered flying someone in once, but in the end, I decided I'd wait until I was in her city to see her.  

Solo mis dos centavos.

when he's going to meet a true atf. It just happens. It can happen at 15k, and it can happen at 200/hr. But if it were me, and I had 15k to spend, I'd stay high end local. You could get 15 to 30 stellar sessions out of that, and increase your odds of meeting that one special lady. Maybe even two. Trust me, the special atfs always take care of those extra needs. One can never count on it, but it always just happens. Especially if she gets the next 15k.

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I know a few providers who will knock your sox off at reasonable rates.  

Hey it's your money but if it were mine I'd use it on local women as has been suggested. Frankly I don't think ANY woman in this wide world is worth that.

I have came across women that intrigued me but NEVER EVER ones that I said to myself "I must have her". OK, maybe half a lifetime ago when I was a horny teenager but life has taught me that no woman is ALL THAT

Why not get a passport and fly to a country where the ladies will really knock your socks off.  How great of a time do you think you would have mongering in Brazil or Columbia with $15k for fun.  Hell, even Mexico City in the Zona Rosa would give you a once in a lifetime.  Maybe your problem is time...

One that note, no experience in the States will ever compare to the few weeks I spent in Manila & Angeles City years ago, and I didn't spent a boat load of money..

Put on your bucket list--- Monger Internationally..

You're convincing a woman to go out of her way for you.

What is this $2000-$15,000 ON TOP of their rate you speak of? I've done it a number of times and have no clue what you're speaking of. Most have a minimum travel rate (some 4-6 hours of regular rate or anovernight minimum) and I've yet to find one that has a $2-$15,000 fee on top of that. Please help me so I can maybe answer your query.

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paying ladies to  eat and sleep? Nothing wrong with that concept if that indeed is what he's talking about. As for flying gals in and getting BBFS, in all my years its never been offered to me.

are proof that a guy apparently can make a pile of money without having achieved an "A" in English.

Editorial corrections:

"there rate": should be "their"

"your advise": should be "advice"

The fact that your review history indicates you have patronized ladies in about 10 major cities leads me to guess that you have had the good fortune of receiving an NBA salary.  I wonder if you graduated from the university that has been reputed to offer athletes basketweaving classes.

Now....to respond with some thoughts to what appears to be the "bottom line" of your question, which I am surprised you had to ask here:

1)  Get yourself tested regularly and carry the printed results on your person.

2)  You are more likely to find cooperative ladies who are over age 40, when most women no longer
have the expectation of having children.

3)  Your odds would probably be best with women who are no longer fertile and who are old enough to have had sex during the 1970s, which was the Golden Age of Sex, prior to herpes and AIDS.

4)  Do not ask the first time, only after you have established a "connection" with a provider.

5)  Another option:  find a lady willing to be a swing partner and search the swing sites for older couples, some of whom have "closed groups" in which all get tested regularly.

6) If your interest is limtied to hott providers in their 20's, you are on your own.  You could try offering to pay for installation of a Mirena IUD

Signed,
Maybe if you had attended class more often.....

I have very good friends who have a "fly me to you" option and it seems to work well for them. Gives them yet another dimension of exclusivity. While I don't offer than service because for me personally, I prefer to be home, but I do make this option available for clients who I know and I'm fond of. I have done this a handful of times, and I usually ask for no more than the equivalent of what I would make on a good day + my overnight + travel expenses. I don't demand to be flown first class or a limousine to pick me up. If I fly over to meet a client is because I appreciate his company and, I appreciate that in a sea of women, he wants me to keep in company.  

Having said that I know there's so many girls who attained a level of exclusivity where they really cannot go back to a more simple life. Just give me a business class ticket, my well deserved donation, and some good Nietzsche stuff to read and I'll bring my butt you ya 😏

take a fuckation ... I'd like to take one this summer.  
But the primary purpose is to satisfy your desires.

You can add some local enjoyment with company if  
you hit is off with your bucket-lister.  

I'm not talking about a vacation where you add an escort into the mix, but rather a trip to specifically satisfy your curiousity about someone that has caught your eye.  

Common sense says you can stay home and find amazing company locally. We do that every day, excluding business travel.  

When people mention the cost, and we all understand that factor, what's wrong with adding a new wrinkle. That's why they make vanilla and chocolate.  

A carnal road trip? How many guys have done this, using boarding a plane and staying to enjoy the area as the minimum criteria.

And has anyone does this and found a NCNS ... that would suck ...lo

dude, listen to mr. fisher.

you're already taking a chance by seeing someone new here in town (wherever your town is).  what kind of idiot springs for an extra couple of grand to house and clothe a complete stranger?  what are you the salvation army?

come on dude this one answers itself.

Nah. If you don't "click" you're stuck with each other pretending you're having fun. That sucks. Maybe if you know her already.

Now if you have 2 to 20 local ladies you like, why look elsewhere?

High $$ does NOT necessarily mean "exclusive" or a "better experience" There have been many, many threads about this. It also does not mean "extras".  

Frankly, I've played with a range of ladies at a variety of donations, and my best experiences and best connections have been with gals I consider to be in the mid-range for donation. I love my Land Rover, and it does everything for me that an Aston Martin would do.  

If you must see a bucket list lady, wait till she visits your area or go see her yourself.

Hi Frontpage,

You already have a lot of responses here... and I might be blowing smoke up my own ass saying this- but I'm here to offer you the response of a woman who is often flown to. My life as Kate is PRIMARILY made up of traveling to be with my patrons, and so I feel like my response- while the same "don't do it" as many other voices here, might shed some more light for you.  

There is ALWAYS a risk meeting someone new. Doesn't matter if it's 200 or 2000. The risk is greater though the more expensive she is. So why lock yourself into that amount of responsibility and time with her? Meet her for some hours. Meet her for the evening. THEN decide if more is worth it.

Yes, that may add time to whenever it is you could fly her to you, but at least you'll be sure of the decision.  

Also, and though the op wasn't exactly about this, please understand that in many cases (or at the very least, in my case) the high prices is NOT because you're going to get anything different physically. Shocker. I/we are human. A pussy, two boobs, four limbs, and a heart, among other things. The sex is no different with me or any high priced lady than anyone else. I can't even honestly say that I'd open my life up any more or less to you than a gal who charges a fifth of my rates. Price doesn't dictate heart or intelligence. If you're just looking for sex, even fantastic sex, there are cheaper options. If you are just looking for nice company- even fantastic company, there are cheaper options. Do some women charge so high cause they give extras, yes.... and I'm sure that through backchannel you can find out about whoever they are. But there are many other reasons to charge- and get- a large amount too. You need to be in the market for that, emotionally and intellectually. Otherwise, it really isn't worth it. I turn down inquiries for the mere fact that if someone isn't open enough for me to add significant amounts of joy and happiness into their lives, I don't want to. I believe in giving ten times value to someone, and not everyone has the space in their life to receive that, so it's not always a good fit.

If you are concerned about it so much that you write this post, if you are concerned about what you'll get out of it (extras), then this is NOT FOR YOU.  

If the little voice in your head is still talking to you, then my advice, for whatever it's worth (or not worth) is that you should spend your money to go to her city and see her for a short amount of time. I spent over two years with a full evening minimum, I only did 2 hours with new patrons when out of town. However generally speaking, women have lower time minimums at home compared to a fly me to you date. It might actually be cheaper for you to fly to her, get a hotel, and see her for a couple hours or evening instead of the overnight or more that might be the "fly me to you" minimum.  

Good luck...

Kiss me,

Kate

The guys who actually fly girls here, there and everywhere don't really lurk these boards. They keep a very low profile. Also the same guys don't give a shit about the money, if it's 2 -20k, so to them it's worth it and they'll do it again and again so one bad experience isn't going to faze them. I don't play in that world so I couldn't tell you if it's "worth it". Try it once but my guess is that it won't live up to your expectations. I once flew a girl from LA to Vegas but the cost was very minimal, she gave me a great deal....and she was worth every penny but that's as far as I went.  
Good luck and maybe consider this, YOLO.....lol.

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But I'm not paying extra money to fly them to me.  There are plenty of wonderful providers right here at home, and some of my "crushes" go on tour every now and then.  So if they come here on tour, I might have a session with them...or if I happen to be vacationing near their location.

If you're smart you'll let your bucket list people know they have made the cut.  They may be more inclined to come to your hood on their own.

Then simply - instead of go to such place as NM OH or MA when some one wants fly me in there -  
I ask come to NYC - I make a program - and there is no better city for entertainment then NYC is!  
I am organizing details even meeting him in airport ( meeting in airports are sooo ROMANTIC  ... can't not gave up this my habbit to wait for HIM to arrive and look in to his eyes, gave him hug and feel his hands around me and have him all  to myself taking to . Y
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Then when we already know each other then I let him to fly me to SF or to London or to Vegas,  
Yet I never will go to certain countries no matter how good is connection - and even he travels there - and need companion - I tell him - be safe there.  
AND I m here where you be back
NYC is the best city to start relationship  
Yet - I am known to taking such first time dates to DC and Boston and AC  
Yet - I rather gave him discounts for NYC visit. My regulars do enjoy such  
 

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Thus spoke Zarathustra lol.

Actually, I have done this.  Only one bite, and she's not entirely sure when she wants to come here.

Deals, sales, and generally setting down for second or third choice.
Such arrangements are norm in hobby and you should not ask opinions of those who just do not know as they never done.

and in fewer words, a rarity for me ...

Hi Nothrofboston,

You had and it is great advice. Sometimes it hits home to get the same advice from multiple perspectives. In this world it can also make a difference to hear things from both the Lady's side and the patron's side.

Though, I should take the lesson and edit out half of everything I write. I tend to get wordy sometimes. Thanks!

Kiss me,

Kate

Mine usually make yours look like a one word answer. lol

I'm always interested in a woman's perspective. Or several.
It's what makes the board go round. Even some of the guys  
have some interesting things to add. Occasionally