promises to make it up to you (but never does). I saw a lady and had a great time, even though I rarely repeat, I scheduled her again. Long story shore, have now made 6 different appointments and all have been cancelled by the Lady. Along, the way she promised over and over to make it up to me when she saw me next and now she's not even responding to me emails.
I know the advice is move on and I am not going to stalk her. But it sucks when someone tells you the cancels are "her fault, that I'm not doing anything wrong, really enjoyed the time we did spend together" and then ..... nothing. No intention to out her here, but wonder if anyone has advice?Just move on. She's politely telling you the same thing.
I would have stopped after the second cancellation.
I think the OP is fool. After the first time he should have moved on. Talk about chasing pussy. Lol
to somehow make it up to him for cancelling. There are ladies who value their repeat clients and want to keep them so they will try and make it up in their own way. Thus the second attempt. But that should be it. If she cancelled that, all communications should have stopped.
Six fucking times? Good grief man, grow a pair and stop letting Lucy pull the ball out from you Charlie Brown.
It sounds like she did you a favor by finally stopping communications. Just how long did you plan on chasing her before calling it quits?
I think its kinda funny really. I would make some popcorn and watch him beg her to see him ,then her do no show.
there's no need to be so assaulting about it.
Just how would you have liked me to have phrased it?
He's an idiot, you know it, he knows it, everyone who posted knows it, but you want me to sugarcoat it. GFY
It's her choice who she sees, and you're not entitled to see anyone. It sounds like she is being very polite to you, but you need to realize that six cancelled appointments is a clear message that she does not want to see you again. I personally think six attempts in a short time period is approaching "stalker". As someone else said, two attempts is enough to signal time to move on.
Get over it, get over her, get over yourself... and move on.
it's obviously her choice who she sees. these kinds of responses are not helpful at all
There is no possible way to help the OP without making reference to the obvious.
you should have figured it out. Two best possibilities are 1) You're getting bumped to make room for guys that book longer sessions, or 2) There is some issue with you personally and she just doesn't want to see you.
If it were me, I could give a fuck and would have already seen three or four different girls since the second time she pulled that crap. But if you're the kind of guy who needs "closure" then email her that you want to see about booking four hours. If its not personal, she will respond, and you will know its just business that you were getting bumped and can decide to book or not. If it is something personal and she doesn't want to see you again, she won't respond. Its not complicated.
Otherwise he would be ripping you a new ahole about you being in love with your hooker. And by the way, you are already stalking this chick so the only question that remains is when are you going to stop? ha!
Maybe you should pay her a deposit for the 7th attempted visit to better your odds? I am sure it has already crossed your mind, now hasn't it Stiffy?
There was someone I really wanted to meet, let's call her MB. Technically, 2 were NCNS and 2 were only close to NCNS, but they all caused me tremendous inconvenience in altered schedules, time, and travel. A year or so later, a booker contacted me from MB's number to tell me that she has come back from Europe and asked if I would like to meet up with MB. I told her that after 4 NCNS I had zero interest in seeing MB.
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Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me thrice, I must be an idiot. Fool me 4 times, I must be a fucking, horny, infatuated, sniveling idiot. You call me about a 5th time and you're the fucking idiot.
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Since then, one strike and you're mostly out. Depending on the explanation, I might try again, but two strikes (max) and you're totally out.
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me thrice, I must be an idiot. Fool me 4 times, I must be a fucking, horny, infatuated, sniveling idiot. You call me about a 5th time and you're the fucking idiot.
I'd say if there's someone you ask for things from who has never said no, you'd be an idiot not to call them. People are going to treat you the way you teach them is okay. It's like parents that issue threats they know they'll never follow through with. They're teaching their kids that they don't have to listen to them.
Mongers are always saying you should have a plan B. Why wouldn't a touring girl want to do the same thing? A few cancellations and she's in the red. Backup plan looks good now. Most likely she just doesn't want to see him but doesn't want to say that to him, but what if he's a plan B?
Especially when you're thinking with the little head.
"I'll make it up to you" ranks right up there with "the check's in the mail" and "Don't worry, I won't cum in your mouth". Then you double down and broadcast it here where you're sure to get no sympathy. SMDH.
but yeah, he's REALLY FUCKING STUPID, isn't he?
and just where is your obligatory picture of a hottie that you normally add to your posts?
I think it would have to be a GIF though, because her head needs to move side to side.
...to feed the bears and if I stop, they'll turn on me. Okay, here you go.
there was a poster on the reviewers board who always posted the hottest pics. Can't remember his name.
Keep posting these pics so we can visualize your words.
he used to post some of the best pics.
I am pretty sure that's who you are talking about, but I no longer have access to that board, so it's not like I can do a message search. lol
Bwahahahahahaha! 😂😂
tats and tits unless she's fat.
Some people pay good money for tease and denial sessions. You are getting yours for free.
I'm kinda jealous. Please tell us her name, I might enjoy the same service from her.
However, are there any more details you want to share? You are bordering on stalker, but with each cancelation, how did she want to 'make it up' to you. I've had a few cancelations. Usually, on the reschedule the offer is for additional free time or drinks and apps on her. If there were successive one ups, then maybe I could see going along for six times as long as I was not out money. However, by the sixth time, she should be paying me!
JDU might not have any more room this semester. However, Andy's WSU is always open. This is free. Your first loss is your best loss. Move on.
she's trying to let you down easy. Women are never direct in their approach (God alone knows why that is, but it is what it is), and as men, it's our job to read between the lines and figure out what she really means. However, her hints quite often go over our heads because we make the mistake of assuming that she's wired the same way as us, and she's not. I think she's actually being rude by using indirect hints when she can just put on her big girl pants and come out with it, and own up to it. We're all adults here, we can handle the truth, and I would appreciate a more direct approach, but like I said, females are just not wired like that. We need to learn to read between the lines if it means that we save time, energy, and avoid inconveniences. It's too many thots out here for you to be wasting time crying over spilt milk like a little bitch. Look on the bright side, at least you didn't pay her in advance.
Who is we? You may be speaking for yourself, but certainly not for the whole class.
Hell, out of the people here who can handle the truth, at least a few of them would probably punch you in the head for calling them an adult.
That seems to be what most people want. Y'all want to be an adult when it's time to exercise your powers of autonomy, and use it to do whatever grown up shit you want, but not when it's time to be responsible for your actions, so you decide you're going to have someone else do that portion of the work for you while you reap the rewards. Being an adult is the whole experience, you can't just pick and choose what you like. What a set of double standards!
I would have moved on after she pushed me on the second appointment and not even contacted her again. EOM
Move on and leave her alone. There was something you did when you saw her that she didn't like. You're starting to look like you're stalking her.
And you still didn't give Up?! Ah just move on and don't see her ever again
She is keeping you as a BACK UP. She doesn't really want to see you, but in case she has a low turnout on that day (or that visit, if she's touring) or a bunch of cancellations, she's got YOU on the back-burner.
Now, the first time she cancelled may well have been a fluke and she could have sincerely intended to make it up to you..... but then she changed her mind. It's possible you said or did something to cause this, but it could also be pure whim on her part.
Either way, the result is the same: she does NOT want to have a session with you again but still schedules you as an insurance policy.
Of course, this is only my opinion, and I could be wrong. 
Similar thing happened tome, but there was no real offer for a make-up. First session was great. She even kept me OT and I tipped accordingly. I booked her again next time she was in town, then she cancelled same day. Then she alerted me she's coming to town and offers a discount for a longer session... then cancels on gameday. Then again... Then she offers to set me up with a friend just getting into the business (review special) but the friend never actually makes it to my town.
Psycho? Maybe, but probably just jerking me around for reasons I 'll never know. I got over it.
I've been NCNS'd on in the past, gave benefit of the doubt when an apology was offered with request for a second chance, and ending up making a new friend.
Didn't work out that way for me this month, and in two different states. First disappointment was with a provider that had been a long time regular but who I hadn't seen in nearly a decade. Scheduled in advance, with her seemingly anticipating a reunion as much as I was. Confirmed, arrived at the first call spot, got the request for a small delay with repeated updates, then radio silence. An apology came the following morning, but I wasn't buying it. Perhaps should have known better as a similar scenario is why I'd moved on all those years ago. Second fiasco was to be a new encounter. Again, scheduled in advance, but got no response to requests for confirmation. The apology came several hours after the now past scheduled appointment time, with a request for a second chance. Rescheduled, confirmed this time, received location to make second call from. That call is answered and now she's saying our appt was for 30 min later (not true) and can she have those 30 minutes as she's not ready yet. 31 minutes later I'm gone. The text comes 75 minutes after she asked for 30 saying I'm ready now.
Can never know for sure, but my gut feeling in both scenarios is double booked, or exhausted from previous activity. Sometimes when booked with a regular, I've been asked within 24 hrs of our appt if it's possible to move the time up or down. These requests may be presented as something different, but my assumption almost always is a scheduling conflict for her. I wish all my friends to be successful and I've been flexible when asked, but this has always been with someone who had proven to be no nonsense. Bottom line is one will eventually run into all manner of conduct in this hobby. It is just the way it is. Not recognizing when to move on will more often than not make for frustration/anger/why me kinds of wasted time and energy.