Ladies and Gents -
I've seen a few stories about providers who visit gents in different states. Ive been wanting to travel more next year, and was wondering how frequently this happens?Ladies - if you've done this before what was the experience like and what did you require?
Gents, if you've done this, our considered doing it, what would you be willing to cover and donate, (not specifics but minimum/Max), and what would you look for in a provider that would make you want to fly/drive her out?
Lots of escorts tour -- that is they announce their upcoming visit and hope for bookings. Some may require a certain number of pre-bookings before buying airplane tickets.
If you mean flying out just for one specific gent -- I have no experience with that. My guess is that it is more rare due to the expense falling on the gent.
And now for an unsolicited remark -- that nose ring detracts from your looks.
I did mean flying out for specific gents.
Touring is something i plan on doing this year as well, though!
And ive noticed that. I have some new photos I'm working on that dont involve my nose ring(: ive gotten mixed feed back on it so ill be trying something new.
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...but I have never flown in a provider to me. In my area there are plenty of local ladies and even more visiting ones so I have never had to even consider it.
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One provider. I think the key to doing so was due to the fact on our first get together, we had an instant connection. In her coming to me, it was like having a long lost lover coming for a visit. I think that we both get benefits of this arrangement, I get the benefit of spending an entire day with an incredible beautiful woman, while she gets paid for a “daycation”. I pay her travel, hotel, our daily expenses (food, drinks, entertainment) and her overnight rate, basically what I would to see her in her home city, with the varied cost of airfare to fly her to me. I know some, if not most, will say it’s a waste of money, but I have found it well worth it!
I pay upfront, and she gives me scads of extra time, and anything she makes on the rest of her tour is all frosting on the cake, so she has little risk.
I know paying upfront is looked down upon, but I've know her for about 15 years, so I'm very comfortable doing this with her. In fact, one year her circumstances forced her to cancel, and she mailed a check out to me within days to reimburse me. That's integrity.
Several thousand dollars? The most I've ever spent on a single appointment is 500 dollars, I can't even imagine what flying a hooker in would cost. Like, I could easily bang several quality girls in my area instead for the price of shipping in one hooker with dreams of seeing the world on someone else's dime.
Is it like banging an expensive pornstar that escorts on the side, where you do it just to say that you did?
That's nothing. I pay $1500 for two hours.
Frankly, I get a little turned off by ads of women who advertise they are going to be in the area for a short while, especially when the schedule says she will be there for only one day. Given that check in time at hotels is usually around 3 o'clock and check out time is 11:00 it gives you a fairly short window to fuck a few clients on your whirlwind tour - and even shorter than the hotel window depending on when your plan arrives and departs. Not sure exactly why but this just doesn't appeal to me.
I did see one touring lady who lived in Miami but routinely toured the big cities in Florida in her car. She told me the reason she did this was because she wanted to keep a low profile in her own city because she was going to school and planning on moving into a new career there. So in between semesters she hopped into her car and tried to make enough money to tide her over until the next time. That's the kind of touring that made a little more sense but even she usually only planned on staying one day.
When I do my traveling, I plan to do it for week. So a days drive time - ill be driving, starting in Louisiana, two or three days in New Orleans, and two or three days in Baton Rouge. Next would be Texas. And then eventually New England area. But I agree with disliking squeezing in as many "fucks" as possible. I'd be pre-booking before i get there with limited appointments. My goal is to travel, sight see, and meet new people, not try and squeeze out every dime possible - if break even with what i make vs. What i spend on travel expenses, then Im happy.
If you consider time spent getting in and out of airports, you can easily drive state to state in about the same time at far less cost. So touring like this, especially if you are willing to consider it a partially subsidized vacation, should work out pretty well.
For instance up here to drive from Minneapolis to Chicago is about six hours. That's about $40 gas. Getting in and out of the airports would take about three hours. Checking two bags for some airlines could run you $50. Plus ticket price, just to save 3 hours.
It was someone that I had previously seen in my town while he was traveling. We hit it off and he flew me to a few of his business meetings in Chicago and San Fran. He covered my airline plus a donation agreed on. I knew my itinerary in advance and had most days to explore the town alone while he was in meetings. While in San Francisco he had me sit at a wine bar while he was at a table with his people. We would go back to the room and have wild crazy sex and then he would need to leave again to entertain and would come in intoxicated. He saw spent a great deal of time in advance both times picking out my clothes and shoes he wanted me to wear when he picked me up at the airport. His favorite store was White House Black Market.
Touring is different. I would start with 2 other cities and build a client base to grow with; while still being available in your home base.
Meet me while I was in Vegas. Some where girls I had met before and some I just contacted out of the blue. And all it took was a commitment of a two hour date, but they usually stayed all night. I mean where were they going to go at 2am? Of course there would be late night gambling and just alot of craziness.
And yes, if you figure a two hour rate from a girl from LA or OC, it's like a one hour rate of a high-end Vegas girl. Some would drive on their own and a few I flew in.
It has worked well for me..
I am from Dallas, I have visited clients in OKC. It is about a 3hr drive. I have a requirement that the date is at least 4hrs if I am traveling over 200 miles. I require 25% deposit through Venmo/PayPal. I don't charge anything extra for transportation or hotel.
Tips:
-make sure you put it on your website. It makes it easier for clients. & it reminds you of your own policy.
-Have everything hammered out before you even go. Hotel, transportation, pickup, payment, deposit etc.
-but also be flexible on the days activities: food, events, partying, clubs.
Every time I go out of state it has been a great experience
Good luck doll!
Utter lack of choice.
There are almost NO providers in my area... and not to be crude, but I wouldn’t see the 2 or 3 that we /do/ have for free, much less pay them.
So, that leaves me driving a /minimum/ of 20-30 minutes to see anyone I may be attracted to. And that’s after getting off work; make that a minimum of 60 minutes if I start from home.
Would I be willng to pay for them to drive to me? Yep. I’m certainly willing to pay (up to a point) for convenience.
-sigh- I really do envy those Clients who live Provider-rich areas.
sheesh! Do you want them in your backyard?
LOL! Damn right... or at /least/ across the street 
But more seriously, I’ve got an hour (round-trip) drive to work everyday - so yeah, it would be nice to have one less road trip during a given week.
Hey, hey - what can I say? I’m a homebody by nature.
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A provider I know use to live in my home area. Then she moved out of state. Then I said to myself, what the hell. I'll drive over to see her. It's about a two day drive there and back. She's great. She saves me from getting a motel because I stay at her place. We play and just hang out at her place. Of course since she moved out of state I found a few local providers to play with.
...and the Big City is a 4 1/2 hour drive away. So my playtime is usually months apart, as any local "talent" that I've seen in local ads isn't attractive to me and/or are without verifiable reviews.
Fortunately, a lovely provider has been traveling through my area every 5-6 weeks and we get along quite nicely. So my play sessions have been more frequent in the last 3-4 months and I'm grateful that she visits here.
It's nice having an oasis in the desert
I used to have a client who would pay for my flight from San Diego to New York. I would take the red eye flight & get to NY at 6am. We would share the day, and a night together & I would fly back home. I prefer to cater to only 1 lucky gent. If a guy wants me to travel to him I will, but I need a deposit & travel paid in full. I have been requiring a deposit to book for the last 7 years it works for me. This is my hobby too, so I do not have time to waste hoping to get a date. I leave the house when I receive a deposit for a serious booking.
I have traveled to Cabo with my regulars. I love to travel! Desire in Cabo was fun, but Las Ventanas the service was tops.
And, I do see that you've gotten quite a few responses, so you may have gotten the information that you need. If you still feel like you could use some more tips and insight, feel free to email me. I don't like to share advice publicly, but I am happy to share what I've learned with you over email or PM. You can reach me at [email protected] .
My goal at the moment, is to do at least one tour a month, but it is a pretty ambitous goal. Honestly, if I was able to reach that goal every month, I could probably stop advertising for Chicago, and just see people who know me or have seen my TER. Generally, what I make in one tour is usually about what I would need for the month. I definitely am glad that I started touring, and personally find it enjoyable. Even when touring, I am not super high volume, so it can often be like a paid vaction. I don't know how some girls do it, take high numbers of sessions in a day. I find that if I take too many I get exhausted and then I am unable to offer the standard of session that I hold myself to. In order to make it financially successful you do have to have a plan that works for you. It is great that you are reaching out for advice, because I've seen a lot of girls who just try to do it on their own. The one thing that I will say here, is to always research the city that your are touring. Working from our home city, we know how things work, the sites that will bring business, the areas that you should and shouldn't go, the market, etc. But, your first time in a new city you won't, and each and every city is different. Personally, I try to always find a local girl that is friendly and open to helping with insight on theirr city. You just have to be careful who you choose, because some people will act like they want to help, but all the while they are just trying to sabotage you.
But, yeah definitely email me, as I am more than happy to help. I feel that us ladies should stick together and uplift each other, not try to push each other out of the way to get to the top.
Sorry for the novel, I really didn't even plan on writing so much in this post, but once I start writing it just all came out. ;0)
Assuming you are inquiring about fly me to you packages, after screening and a deposit, comes the decision to stay and explore the city or fly straight home or to tour surrounding areas of the city you just visited.
On average an overnight fly me to you will require that they cover airfare and lodging or you can roll it into the package.
It is your independent decision and you have to create an opportunity that suits both you and your client.
Average pricing 2,500 and up for a fly me to you plus air and hotel - Hope this helps answer your question.
I love to travel and I am taken on trips quite often by gentlemen. This last year I was in Vegas, South Dakota, Napa Valley, Chicago for a week, and San José. My next trip coming up is a week long trip to New Orleans with a gentleman. I have one of the lowest monetary request for vacations: I request $400 per day plus all food, drinks, lodging, and transportations costs. I have been told I am a very fun travel companion!! 
I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who commented, and is continuing to comment on this and give me some advice. It's been very helpful! I'm working on a "Fly Me To You" package, and also planning some tours that I'll be making myself in the next couple months. I am still fairly new to this (Just hit a year in December) so I am still slowly learning the ropes for a few things, haha. So thank you, everyone for the help and kind words! Xoxo
When I tour I usually stay 2-3 days most of my clients want a morning or early afternoon visits.
...I’ve flown to several US states for a bespoke get together - it might have been an overnight or it could have been up to 48 hours. Some gents I already knew, some I didn’t. I always requested a desposit. I never had any issues with either party cancelling.
It’s tougher if you don’t know them - I would have to feel a strong connection to commit to such a get together but then again, so would he....do a lot of time would be invested in a few phone calls and some email back and forth understandably.
When I used to fly back home to the U.K. from the USA for vacations I was asked to go to Paris a couple of times also - that was a bit more difficult to navigate for a variety of reasons Back then (even though it’s kess than an hours flight from my hometown) so I stopped.
The furthest I have been asked to fly is to to Australia for an Aussie I used to see in Boston. We’d known each other for a LONG time and had incredible chemistry otherwise I would never have considered it. Chemistry has a lot to do with these kinds of requests IMO....
As for how did I do it - probably the same way that most women do, I just noted on my site that ‘fly me to you’ packages were available for those with which I had a really strong connection. I think 65% of gents that I have flown to see (or have flown to see me) I have met before....the rest would be new to me...
Good times 😄
Edited to add: I think a key part of being asked to spend extended lengths of time with someone (whether in or out of state) is to just really allow yourself to enjoy your time with your clients and build a relationship of trust, fun and of course hot sex. I wouldn’t think either alone would be enough...
C xx
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