Female condoms  almost feel like BBFS. It's part of the TER profile so you can check to see if the provider you want to see uses them. A word of caution, for many escorts will say unknown. Good luck

Have her finish you with a BBBJ, finish between her titties with no cover, or dry hump her to completion without a cover !  Get creative !!!!

but once I get the engine started, it's not that hard to get to the finish line at least for the first pop.

 
The second one is a lot more problematic.  It's more like a cruise to nowhere where you end up getting off in the same place you started.   At least the trip is fun though.

Or, to use another more topical metaphor with the NFL playoffs coming up:   I may not get it over the line, but the play action was interesting.

 
No doubt about it, as I age, it's no so much the joy of sex as it is the job of sex.

.......  Hahaha, I get to fuck for hours and hours.
I have an nerve injury that makes it not possible to cum from fucking. It takes really strong and frenetic manual ministrations for me to cum.
I suffer so good.
It has made it so I appreciate all the sensations over my whole body from many different sexual and sensual explorations.

Just enjoy the ride.

Even when I lost my virginity, it took a long time. Condoms obviously add more time even if they don't preclude ejaculation entirely. I haven't tried female condoms though.  

Some women like it as long as you don't pound them continuously, and this includes some providers who like long dates. I always warn new providers about this too let them know this isn't anything about their skills or looks, it is just the way I am. If they want to talk about it, I point out that I can enjoy long periods of intercourse without necessarily coming, just as sex for them can be enjoyable without necessarily reaching orgasm.

Long stamina

I've always had very strong stamina.  In college I used to have sex for 3-5 hours...literally.  For some reason my dick gets numb pretty quick so if I get a BJ or a serious hand job before sex I can last for hours.  When I meet ladies I tell them this to a degree, I don't want them to think I can't cum because of them.  In fact It's sort of fun being able to pound away for 1.5 hours . At the end I can usually cum when I'm really horny.  Or, I just finish with a BJ hand job mix.  I love coming inside a women's mouth. Feels amazing.

I had to train myself to last longer when I was younger (ok, much younger. lol)  but now, especially when using a condom, I often find myself lasting literally for hours sometimes. This is great with civvies, but it's a rare pro who wants a dick in her, non stop for an hour or more. lol

 
This is what I have learned to do to make the most of it for all parties concerned, and to make sure I don't end up on a "DNS, this guy will fuck you literally to death" list. lol  Most decent providers offer multiple pops so what I have started doing is to have intercourse in increments of 10-20 minutes at a time, with rest periods of 5-15 minutes in between. It's the same thing for the woman as a guy who can come 2-3 times in an hour and the other great thing is that you can control your own recovery time. It's like being able to recharge at will.  I certainly don't mind only actually cumming once while the girl I am with "gets hers" multiple times and if you do it with a civvy she never even has to know that you didn't actually cum four times.  Pros of course will know almost every time, but a lot of civvies will just think you are still an Energizer Bunny at your advanced age. I had a twenty something ask me not all that long ago how I did it when her last BF who half my age could never fuck her as many times as I did that night. lmao

 
Hey you know what they say about lemons and lemonade, right?

it took me about 30 seconds to finish this post..

for hours to, I have never had a provider that could make me come doing a BBBJ, never.

....if you are seeing someone who gets frustrated with you because of delayed completion you're seeing the wrong lady(ies).   You don't have to go into detail but you could give a heads up to them about the delay before booking.....some will appreciate it and some won't.
Suzee

Cover vs. Bare.

I can't finish in a cover. With these providers they finish me with a BBBJ CIM or Facial depending on their mood for that session. Session time 1 hour.  

BBFSCIP about 20 minutes. In a recent session my BBFSCIP girl wanted me to keep going. I had to hold off from CIP with her. That was tough. She finally let me CIP after 40 minutes. Waiting the extra 20 minutes was rough. But somehow I did it for her. This girl is so Awesome!

I like a challenge. But if condoms are an issue try a provider that uses FC like me ( by request) it feels more like the real thing and doesn't restrict your cock like regular condoms. Hit me up next time you're in Vegas and let me show you lol.

The finish only lasts a few seconds.  So to me it isn't that important.  Finishing early, for a guy, can be an issue because we tend to go limp after for a while.   And that limits certain activities that require a stiffer implement.  I can almost always finish in the first few minutes of a bj.   But I always slow it down to avoid that.   After about 30 minutes the window starts to close on an easy finish, though.  But still, I try to finish at the 45 minute mark.   Can usually do it, but often has to get pretty vigorous.  At that point I am mostly trying to finish so the provider doesn't feel bad.    They tend to take their craft seriously.   I've enjoyed the session -- it all felt great.   Stressing too much about the finish can divert attention from the other enjoyable aspects.

A traditional condom (regardless of make, model, configuration or material) feels like my dick is being strangled -- and not in a good way! A Female Condom, properly placed and using a bit of lube, feels much more natural -- my bare dick sliding in and out of her, with only a small ring of synthetic material in view.

As I've gotten older, two of the meds I'm on make it a bit more challenging to climax during the usual penetrative activities. I've found a combo of 3BJ and HJ as a finishing move will get me where we both want me to be. The plus side is that it has extended my play time and I have found two providers who like the extra action.

Most of the time I finish much sooner than I want, but fortunately I can stay hard for a short period and enjoy the ride. Second round is all dependent upon who I’m with. My ATF is really easy to go three rounds, but others maybe lucky to get my hard after the first round. And with my wife, it difficult to get to the first round. Lol

I have rubbers

Without a condom, I have lasted between five seconds and two hours. I even had one lucky episode of six times in three plus hours, but I was a MUCH younger man.  

With a condom, I am lucky to maintain an erection.  I have always wondered if Greek would feel different, though. Much tighter...

I have the same problem (although it's not the result of medication -- just can't finish with a condom).  Sometimes bbbj/hj after the sex works, but p2p almost always does the trick.  Honestly, I've been with some providers who are ninjas at p2p and it's a struggle to hold out.  That could just be how I'm wired, though.  Good luck!

With a condom! Never! Doing it raw, errr like 30 min or so. I kind of get jealous of premature ejaculators sometimes...sometimes, not all the time cause that would suck.

My ATF can finish me off within 11 minutes on average with her excellent head game. Longest she edged me was about 45 minutes, the fastest she has gotten me was about 6 minutes. I’ve only ever gotten oral from her, and that’s after seeing her at least twice a month for the better part of 13 years. As far as FS, too many variables to know how long plus I barely go for FS anymore unless with a civie (only because their BJs never can compare).

Never with a condom