You're right, there are so many definitions of GFE and PSE.  Personally, even when I was shooting adult films, I only advertised PSE a few times before I realized what a pain in my ass it was.  I switched to GFE and will never advertise PSE again.

From my experience, PSE attracts people looking for BB and they will assume it's offered because their definition of PSE is BB.  Others show up with a test expecting BB because the were clean the moment they took the test. Test or not test, I don't offer BB.  A test is NOT a safety measure, it only tells you if you got sick.  It prevents nothing.  

The second assumption I got is some gentleman's definition of BB means I'll do anything and everything.  The feel there are no boundaries.  Like all humans, I have my flavor of offerings and some things I do not offer. This brings surprise to some as they feel a porn start is just a irresponsible fuck machine with no self respect and dignity.  

The third assumption is that I'm a party girl.  I don not lower myself to drugs and I do not get drunk.  I'm more into health, wellness and happiness.  Drugs and excessive drinking will never bring these things, they will erode my mind and destroy my healthy looks.  They will greatly shorten longevity in the hobby and erode quality. Those who party tend to be on the irresponsible side as well, often engaging in risky behaviors that could leave them sick or worse. I'm not a party girl and don't see those looking for one.  

What I offer is a true GFE experience with respect for the health and well being of me and the gentleman blessing me with his presence. I'm an adult, conduct myself as one and expect the same.  I find the party lifestyle to be empty and boring. If I needed to be intoxicated to do something, I shouldn't be doing it in the first place.  

This is my 2 cents and I don't need agreement.  I prefer to respect all for their choices...even if they do drugs and BB.  Other's choices are not mine to judge however, I do have my reasons why I do certain things.  My past experience advertising PSE made me choose to switch to GFE because GFE gives the impression of what I truly offer.  PSE give the impression of what I don't offer.  

XOXO
Becca Blossoms

From my humble perspective as a man, to me GFE is doing things you would do with your wife or girlfriend with the exceptions of BB and trips to the isles. Lots of kissing, snuggling, taking your time to enjoy each other. Maybe a little naughty kinky if both partners are up for it and comfortable. Things like adding toys, or maybe even some restraints.  In the past I would have said PSE was adding anal into the equation. But now I would say that PSE may include anal or may not, but will be a wild multi position fuck fest anyway with toys and whatever else comes to the mind of both partners.

 After the eighties with the onset of AIDS and HIV, my generation never expected bareback with a provider.  Now it seems like some folks have decided that there is nothing to worry about as far as diseases are concerned. I don’t understand that way of thinking.