...why not give the lady who was reviewed a complimentary lifetime membership, as well.  If it were not for her, the lucky gentleman would not have been so lucky.

There is a good chance the review will be of a non TER lady. For example a BP lady that has no previous reviews, and won't get any future ones, and either doesn't know or care about TER.

that trophy in person or just send her some hugs and kisses?