got this message back on two submittted reviews, these providers do not have any other website, how do we submit reviews for them if TER does not recognize their websites

The website that you have attempted to submit in your review is on TER's list of 'Unacceptable Websites'.
Some of the reasons for a website to be on the list include being a competing review site or being linked to fraudulent activity. If you have an alternative site for the provider, please feel free to submit your review with that link.

what I did when this happened was go looking for another ad.  in my case I found it by searching her name on cityvibe but googling her name and phone number might turn up something.

Contact the gal and ask her if she is on any acceptable website (EROS, Citivibe, etc.) and link to that.

Or encourage her to get her own website.

this makes no sense, I'm trying to warn folks to stay away from these ladies by posting an honest bad review, how do we put these ladies out of business?

If that is the case here, contact TER administration and tell them.  Perhaps they don't understand the situation.

Thank you for exposing such things.  It not only helps us clients, but also the honest gals who have to cope with such competition.

You can out them on your regional board if you have been legitimately ripped-off. Keep in mind that you can not actually write a review on an appointment that didn't happen. If it was just plain bad service that's another story.  Did they have any TER reviews before you saw them?