Suggestion and Policy

Provider Comments on Profile?
impposter 49 Reviews 90 reads
posted
1 / 17

On the surface, it seems like a useful and reasonable suggestion. However, if board discussions are any indicator, I just see a lot of he-said she-said kind of stuff continuing.
Client Review on Profile.
Provider Rebuttal on Profile.
Client board rebuttal claiming the Provider is lying.
Provider board rebuttal claiming she is not a liar but that the client is a liar.  
Ad infinitum until someone calls someone Hitler and mods remove the thread.
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And variations on that.  
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But, yes: a good idea, but difficult to implement.

NoGreenBorderedEnvelope 75 reads
posted
2 / 17

So if a profile inaccurately states that a provider offers anal services, she can send in a problem report to correct it. Likewise, if some services are "YMMV" she can have her profile changed to indicate that.  

And since most providers have their own website and/or are on a site like P411 that allows comments, these kinds of comments could be published there.  

And of course, ads on TER and elsewhere are another avenue for providers to offer the latest information about themselves, eg a recent change in hair color.

-- Modified on 9/18/2017 7:08:18 AM

impposter 49 Reviews 78 reads
posted
3 / 17

Posted By: LettuceMeat
Re: fake review
i want to know how the site was able to determine that a session took place when i never met this guy and he wrote a completely fake review,
A priori, TER has no reason to suspect a reasonable submission to be fake. So, it gets approved and posted.  
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Sometimes, the most innocent explanations are that he submitted a review on the wrong Profile (LettuceMeat instead of Let Us Meet) or he simply (and innocently until corrected) confused sessions with different Providers. Sometimes it's a blur! And if written weeks later, it's even more of a blur!
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However, now you have to take it up with TER. Do you have VIP? PM (or email) the other Providers he reviewed and ask them if his reviews are fakes.  A chorus of "FAKES!" might be more convincing to TER than a solo.
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How do you know that that "he couldn't even say what city i'm in"? Do you have emails or PMs with the reviewer? Or is it just because he doesn't give a location in the review?  
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The review is detailed but generic. I don't see other points to attack. ("She is tattooed from head to toe." Easy to refute. versus No mention of tattoos. Can't refute that by sending a pic of tattoos. He just didn't care to mention tattoos. Nothing to refute.
nothing in his review has ever happened like that with me. he couldn't even say with city i'm in. i don't offer anal, never have, and yet his review stays. i'd like to know how they decided that a session did happen, no one asked me anything, no one told me anything identifying him, i never met the guy but they determed we sessioned. they could ask me questuons that apply to all my sessions and see if they correspond but no. this is a huge problem for me as now what happens when i get a client that expects that and i don't deliver and he takes it personal and that i'm lying gets mad and anal rapes me? what then?
Make sure your Profile is accurate (it is: Anal = No). In the specific situation you mention, there are other ways to defuse it. "I don't do it with everyone." "I need 36 hours notice to prepare." "I'm sorry, you're too big." "There's an extra charge for that. ... How much? More than you've got." "That review is a fake. I DON'T DO THAT." Etc.. If it's a TER user, they will understand. If it isn't a TER user, they will not have seen the fake review nor any other review.
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It is very hard to prove that a review is fake and to get it removed. Ask on the Newbie board for more feedback on removing a fake review.

KarlyPhoenix See my TER Reviews 61 reads
posted
4 / 17

Impposter,  are you a TER moderator or admin? please advise. Because I'd love to go ahead and reply to your statements regarding the fake reviews and I'd like to know who I'm speaking with and if it's worth my time.

KarlyPhoenix See my TER Reviews 32 reads
posted
5 / 17

And, btw, the reason I say that I'd like to know who you are is because I'm going to be pointing out some very clear statements made in the TER policies regarding reviews that are also very clearly NOT factual and not followed by TER admin, which is ONLY a detriment to the ladies who PAY to use this site, unlike the men who give fake reviews to get FREE memberships.

GaGambler 57 reads
posted
6 / 17

All board moderation is now done by members of "Admin" and you can always tell who they are because their handles show up in red, just like the volunteer moderators of the past, or the handful of "hosts" that we have had since TER did away with the discussion board moderators.

 
BTW you sound like a VERY unhappy hooker. I hope you start feeling better soon

KarlyPhoenix See my TER Reviews 62 reads
posted
7 / 17

Hmm...don't think I was talking to you. So maybe if you mind your own business in the future, you won't embarrass yourself by misjudging whether someone you don't know is "happy" or not.

-- Modified on 11/11/2017 3:07:29 PM

GaGambler 57 reads
posted
8 / 17

and if you don't want answers to your questions, don't fucking ask them on a public board, that way you won't look so fucking stupid (and unhappy. lol)

 
Do you really think you have the right to dictate who can and cannot respond to a post on a public board? You are not only a very unhappy hooker, but even dumber than you look.

KarlyPhoenix See my TER Reviews 59 reads
posted
9 / 17
KarlyPhoenix See my TER Reviews 49 reads
posted
10 / 17

Here's the deal, in my opinion, ... I believe it's a rare hobbyist who wants to harm any providers reputation or business, yet it does happen.  

What I clearly recognize as the cause for so many fake reviews...(and, btw, just out of curiosity how many of yours are fake?, and I'm not talking about ONLY the ones that pissed you off)...is the free membership these guys get from doing them.

So, even though a third of my reviews are definitely fake because I'm very "anal" (haha, pardon the pun) about who I've seen or will see, I've FINALLY surrendered to the irritating FACT that TER admin doesn't give a rip if their site is accurate or has any integrity whatsoever.  

I've also finally stopped fighting the fact that for some odd reason they only want the money they make to come from the providers, even if the providers have never registered and don't advertise here and simply want to know who the guy is who gave them a fake review, they have to BUY - WITH MONEY - a VIP membership to discover that.

On the other hand, who knows the motivation behind a hobbyists fake review, except to make fools out of TER admin by faking their way into a free ride, and then to lurk around for whatever reason...to get a girl to see him who doesn't actually check references and goes by the fact he reviewed someone?...law enforcement, perhaps? ...we don't know because there's no actual perspective coming from another vantage point other than the one-sided TER admin, densely, closed-minded, male perspective of, "she doesn't want to admit she saw the dude because there's something in the review she doesn't like."

The problem with that one-sided, closed-minded perspective is that it has zero clue that the majority of the good providers are NOT competitive, and we understand that every hobbyist is looking to find their own unique connection (or not) with us providers and that an occasional "bad review" from someone we ACTUALLY saw is no big deal in the big picture of our business.

So, the reason I FINALLY stopped fighting this futile battle is because anyone I would want to see anyway, won't believe the crap that's fake (after I have to tell them upon inquiry so they have no false expectations up front), and to just let TER keep getting totally ripped off by the unknown motivations of the lurker hobbyists...

I just sincerely hope that one of those lurker hobbyists doesn't end up hurting one of us because of their open access to us based on their bullshit reviews...that's what my initial intent on calling out all these fake reviews was about in the first place...to hopefully prevent a misdeed towards the ladies who PAY to put themselves out there for the lurkers.

KarlyPhoenix See my TER Reviews 52 reads
posted
11 / 17

AND, I have a very definite and simple solution to this issue if anyone in the TER staff would hear me out on all the angles...we shall see.

GaGambler 46 reads
posted
12 / 17

I would say your reviews were "mediocre" at best.

 
Based on your reviews I seriously doubt you would be the "busiest girl in town" I never had even the slightest desire to book a session with you.

 
BTW, I am sure I am not the only one wondering about this, but why is a de-listed provider still allowed not only to post, but you still have some old ad posts that anyone can access if they have a mind to? It does seem like you are trying to take advantage of the exposure TER gives you, but not on the same terms as the rest of the ladies who both have ads and reviews here. I am sure someone else has already brought this to the attention of Admin, I am wondering what their reasoning is, and I suppose that if this thread simply disappears, I will have my answer that it was just an oversight.

KarlyPhoenix See my TER Reviews 48 reads
posted
13 / 17
KarlyPhoenix See my TER Reviews 46 reads
posted
14 / 17

I mean, first of all, your name is "lettuce meat"? is that supposed to be funny? ....???? It's a strange visual, bottom line.

And, second of all, truly, I'm sorry my friend, but you're not making sense, and it's a little cringe-worthy for the provider who wants to make a REAL statement about the "fake review"...so just stop now.  No more words... is all I'm trying to gently and lovingly say to you.  

K?

KarlyPhoenix See my TER Reviews 39 reads
posted
15 / 17

GaGrumpy, I forgot to give my appreciation for the good info you gave me regarding the moderation of the discussion boards I asked about.  

I imagine it was probably because your last aggressively "grumpy" comment aimed with overwhelming disrespect towards my lifestyle overshadowed your kind intention.  

In any case, I'm hereby thanking you for the original seeming intention of your reply to me.

Thanks.

GaGambler 47 reads
posted
16 / 17

It had everything to do with your attitude.

 
If you had been around this place longer than 15 minutes or so you would know that I have ZERO disrespect towards hookers, many of my very best friends are hookers. It's a word, get over it. Would you rather have a guy speak disrespectfully about "providers" or a guy who treats "hookers" as his equal?  

 
and you are welcome for the info. I am admittedly an asshole who doesn't sugarcoat a thing, but I am a helpful asshole who does know how things work around here, well except for some of the stuff that goes on here that NO ONE can explain, lol.  

 
Lastly, look back at our exchange. It's pretty obvious that you are the grumpy one. I don't have a thing to be grumpy about, can you say the same?

KarlyPhoenix See my TER Reviews 51 reads
posted
17 / 17

Hmmm... I'm wondering WHY you responded to me regarding how upset I was that you used the WORD "hooker" when what I was commenting on had nothing to do with the WORD you used.

And, to answer your question... : of course! Yes, I have things to be grumpy about, who doesn't? I believe anyone who says they have NOTHING to be grumpy about is an extremist LIAR, fo sho...just my opinion. :)  

And, also, in my humble opinion, "lol" is for girls...it just seems girlie to me, that's all. A little sympathetic and reciprocal unsolicited advice from a hooker. Again... :)

Love,
KP

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