providers that are currently available. instant connections if you will. I know we have chat but I notice that many do not utilize it. Providers can only post once every 7 days and I see hobbyist posting for instant meetings within a few hours but the posts go up with SUCH A LAG (5 to 7 hours) especially on NY board that it makes it difficult for even discussion forget about hooking up!

I was on travel a few weeks ago, and had planned to see several ladies - I researched in advance.  However, I got sick on the plane, and waited till I was better - which at that point, was last minute.  I would have liked to use a feature such as live chat/message board to find someone who was available.  As it was, I posted to CL and found a gem - a starving artist/semi-pro.  So, I am not complaining, but would have used TER board if it was available...