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this isnt football and we dont need to huddle up and discuss the play by play first.

no talking about any activity until she's got ahold of your wiener.

Ask to see her kitty and if you may touch it. If
she says ok and lets you ,your'e safe. Female cop can't let you or it's entrapment.I've never had a SP refuse. If she doesn't know you or you don't have references she will ask to see your
privates.

can't you just ask if they are law enforcement at the first meeting/discussion? wouldn't a cop have to answer truthfully?