I  wish all providers would routinely begin to offer the use of female condoms.  
Male condoms are like Kryptonite to many guys, especially us older fellows.
If your local pharmacy doesn't carry them, you can find them on the Internet.  
Come on, ladies. Give us guys a break. Hell, we're paying for them anyway.

Here's an idea,

How about you get a FC if she doesn't have one. Why insist she has a FC?

I suggested to my ATF if we could use a FC. I've been seeing her BBFSCIP for quite a while. She told me it was too much trouble and effort for her to use. She just wanted me to keep seeing her BBFSCIP.  I said no worries.

I'm a provider who loves using female condoms. They feel like nothing is there and the guy seems to stay harder longer. Definitely a win win

Read again.  He did not insist she has to provide FC, just wants her to offer the use of them.  
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I carry and offer FC2 because some ladies who are willing to use them do not keep them in stock.  
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Win-win.