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Controversy and fairness
America_Pie See my TER Reviews 984 reads
posted
1 / 15
Controversy and fairness

There has been a lot of controversy lately over reviews on both sides.  I am not interested in drama.  However, if we are to accept bad reviews it should be only fair that we are allowed to check the veracity, and tell our side of the story.  And if it is a review in retaliation for something, like a man not getting a girlfriend, or other unsavory situations the review should be taken down.  In any other business a business owner could defend ourselves.  When reviews are posted for someone to get revenge it is taking advantage of us, it is a type of slavery.  It is not fair.

Without outing myself I will say I had an emergency.  A client graciously allowed me to stay in his house for a week.  Actually, he anted me to stay in his house and he wanted a relationship. When I refused it was not pretty and he told me he would retaliate.  I have proof. I see most of my clients again.   I am not very high volume in the first place,  I tend to like longer dates rather than more dates.  

I am not asking TER to take down bad reviews.  I am asking TER to verify the details of when we met to make sure we actually did meet, and that the person is a legitimate client and not someone'e boyfriend or other person with a grudge. That is only fair.

NoYellowEnvelope 319 reads
posted
2 / 15
Why not submit your proof to TER?

With proof, eg PM or email, that the review was retaliatory, Admin should remove it.  

The tough cases for review verification are when it comes down to what the provider says, vs the reviewer... without any evidence that the session never occurred, or was significantly different than what was portrayed in the review (eg it was retaliatory).  From other discussions on this subject and from what I've heard from providers I know, if the client has evidence such as email or PM that the session was confirmed, then without other evidence TER usually leaves the review up.  

This is IMO the biggest issue with the current review system. If an inaccurate review like the one you described stays up after a challenge, there's a few options, such as blacklisting the reviewer and warning other providers on your local board and Provider board (might want to ask other providers to PM you for details vs posting them).  

-- Modified on 4/22/2016 6:53:03 PM

America_Pie See my TER Reviews 315 reads
posted
3 / 15
They won't look

They won't even let me know where we met, so I cannot do that.  I have accounted for every person that I saw as a client, so the person that wrote the review did not have a session as stated.  So, if he had to show proof where we met he could not.  Yet, they won't investigate this.

NoYellowEnvelope 389 reads
posted
4 / 15
The onus on proving there was a meeting is on the reviewer.

So, just report the review to Admin as bogus and clearly explain how you know it's bogus.  They will ask the reviewer to prove he actually saw you.  Since you say there's no way he can do that, the review should be taken down.  

If you've already done this and Admin refused to investigate, that's just plain wrong and not consistent with other cases like this that I've heard about.

GaGambler 309 reads
posted
5 / 15
The OP is most likely telling the truth.

Admin is not exactly consistent in these matters.

For some reason some providers can get any review not a 10-10 removed that are pretty obviously legit and other providers can't get even the most obvious fake reviews removed. I don't think we need new rules, I think we need more consistent enforcement of the rules we have.

NoYellowEnvelope 248 reads
posted
6 / 15
Who said she was lying? EOM


END OF MESSAGE

America_Pie See my TER Reviews 319 reads
posted
7 / 15
Exactly!

They won't even tell me when we allegedly met.  I have accounted for everyone, so I would like to know who the extra one is.

GaGambler 359 reads
posted
8 / 15
Admin is apparently refusing to even investigate her complaint

So the default assumption is that "they" think her claim is baseless, which is a tacit way of saying she is "lying". Obviously you said no such thing.

MILFCARESSA See my TER Reviews 395 reads
posted
9 / 15
Seems like we should be able to bounce out 2-3 annually if they are way out of our average and/or...

say something outlandish like she barebacked me, etc or some other act that we just never do.

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Somedudesjunk 256 reads
posted
10 / 15
No, too much positive review manipulation

Between offers of BBFS and extra time, wimpy White Knights and out right threats for less than stellar reviews impacting the scores, you don't get to toss out the bad ones as well.

When I look at reviews I reduce the score by 20%, add five years to the age and ten pounds to the weight. Have learned that the hard way.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 367 reads
posted
11 / 15
You just asked for that a couple weeks ago. Admin even replied to your post

which is extremely rare on this board, and you didn't reply back to admin.  
Anyway, your idea is a bad idea for many reasons, and you didn't get any positive responses last time.  

*Edited to fix link

-- Modified on 4/25/2016 5:16:55 PM
Related Link: Your 4/6 post

tommygunn 9 Reviews 258 reads
posted
12 / 15
I wouldn't worry too much about it....

Currently, you have 27 reviews with an 8.5 (something) overall score.  One bad review has less than a 4% weight on your average.  It also stands out like a phony.  I can read all your other reviews and the one bad one will not deter me from contacting you.  

In my professional life, I come across difficult customers from time to time,  but they do not influence me or bring me down.  I just figure a great customer is around the corner.

I know it sucks to get a bad review that you didn't deserve, but someone once said the cream always rises to the top.  That is sooo true.

America_Pie See my TER Reviews 240 reads
posted
13 / 15
Re: I wouldn't worry too much about it....

Thank you, Tommy.  When we are at home, it does not matter so much.  It just worries me when I travel to a new area! Plus, if someone did it to get even, I do not like to let that happen.  It is not so much the score or review.

SamanthaBright See my TER Reviews 274 reads
posted
14 / 15
Agree with verifying

Like Date-Check does, it asks me if I saw someone. I know it's not a review site but the verifying part could apply here to TER.  

Posted By: America_Pie
There has been a lot of controversy lately over reviews on both sides.  I am not interested in drama.  However, if we are to accept bad reviews it should be only fair that we are allowed to check the veracity, and tell our side of the story.  And if it is a review in retaliation for something, like a man not getting a girlfriend, or other unsavory situations the review should be taken down.  In any other business a business owner could defend ourselves.  When reviews are posted for someone to get revenge it is taking advantage of us, it is a type of slavery.  It is not fair.  
   
 Without outing myself I will say I had an emergency.  A client graciously allowed me to stay in his house for a week.  Actually, he anted me to stay in his house and he wanted a relationship. When I refused it was not pretty and he told me he would retaliate.  I have proof. I see most of my clients again.   I am not very high volume in the first place,  I tend to like longer dates rather than more dates.    
   
 I am not asking TER to take down bad reviews.  I am asking TER to verify the details of when we met to make sure we actually did meet, and that the person is a legitimate client and not someone'e boyfriend or other person with a grudge. That is only fair.

America_Pie See my TER Reviews 212 reads
posted
15 / 15
Re: Agree with verifying

Exactly, Samantha.

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