Yes! There should be a small section with each review that allows the provider to comment. To make corrections etc.. I've seen other review sites that have that option and seems to be very benificial. You are correct....it is about two people. It should not be used for bashing etc...and should be moderated to keep some of the providers from doing so. Not to give a big long saga, but like I said, a few corrections.
don't have the perfect 8" member that cums on command and that my tongue is not the perfect tool for satisfying a woman...that would ruin me!
LOL
So whats to say the provider is going to be totally honest if she's able to comment on a client? If you get a fair review or bad one, we're supposed to believe your rebuttle?? Please, dont even go there. If you are a provider, and on this site to be reviewed, then provide the best service you can. In reality 99% of your reviewes will be very positive. If by chance you do get some jerk who didn't need your profile thouroughly and gives you a bad review; We will know he's an asshole. You cant get 10's across the board. I can bet you'd be pissed if you got a 6 rating on appearance or lower from one guy, but 10 others gave you an 8 or above! Since the client is paying, maybe make a suggestion of the provider paying $25 to post a rebuttle! But i dont think you'd agree to that...
Julia, this is really a strange industry when you think about it. Here you have guys like me who may go through dozens of pictures, detailed written replays of the most intimate of experiences, and from those we chose the woman we would like to see.
The provider on the other hand knows the person coming is a guy, hopefully has been screened him, and that is pretty much it. Until you open the door you have no idea what is going to walk in. The guy has all kind of preconceived ideas while I must assume the woman has a certain level of anxiety.
I would guess that most of the guys you see are typical of the cross section of guys in the country in age, looks, body type, etc. So here we have guys who are average looking at best with some of the most attractive women in the country.
I can only imagine that at times it must be very difficult for a provider to have any type of chemistry with some of the guys. We see that in our every day lives when we go to a restaurant or a store. Some people you enjoy talking with and with some there is just no connection.
However, with that said, there is a lot that can be read into some of these less than stellar reviews that make the guys to end up looking like the cause of the lack of connection.
I read a review the other day on a provider with multiple pages of reviews. This hobbyist gave her a lower mark than normal because she did not do CIM or Greek. Yet, clearly in her multiple pages of reviews that was stated on many occasions that those options were not on the menu. The guy said he could not recommend nor would he repeat because of that. Well, it seems to me if dozens of other guys had written that those things were off the menu and if that was what this guy was specifically looking for, perhaps another provider who did offer those things would have been more appropriate. In this case, the guy came off looking very foolish to me.
I know there is a natural reaction to want to fight back when one has been personally attacked. I think though, that over time, these guys who write about false experiences or embellish or grade lower than normal are found out and their comments and reviews carry much less weight than everyone else. I think I am in the vast majority when I say I look at the total set of reviews, not just one or two very good ones or very bad ones.
Sometimes it is just better to not say anything and let the fool make an even larger fool of themselves. I feel any response from the provider, no matter how accurate, will come down to a "he said, she said" and degrade into name calling and accusations. In my mind, the more of that a provider gets involved with, the more it hurts her while having little to no effect on the guy.
I know that this is not the response you were looking for, but hopefully it may give you an insight that there are some checks and balances, even though those may be more subjective than we would like.
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Raven...I know your response was addressed to Julia but I would like to comment on it. You make some very good and logical points. You've swayed me on my opinion. You're right that sometimes it's better not to say anything. Let the other reviews speak for themselves. I had been thinking if in a review the client stated untrue and inaccurate details that we should be able to dispute them. However, as you said, the other reviews that are accurate will prevail. Hopefuly.
Meow, your note made me realize I was only looking at the broad picture, not some specifics or "embellishments" that the reviewer could report about the provider that were not correct.
I had one provider tell me about a guy who CIM even after she told him not to. He then wrote that in his review and from then on she had to try to explain that was not on the menu. It really did put her in a very bad position.
The old axiom "YMMV" can and I am sure is unfortunately also read by many guys to mean "You don't do that with any other guys but I want you to do that with me".
I would like to alter my initial post to say I agree that specific acts that were grossly misstated should in some way be allowed to be corrected on the review.
I just don't know how to do it in the best way.
Some guys really tell the truth, but some guys really stretch it, and I hink we should be able to explain our side of things instead of guys just belieiving what other guys have to say.
For example, a guy can write that we were not as fresh as their liking, or that we were overweight by 1/4 of a pound, etc.
I personally provide BBBJ, but if a guy comes to me not fresh, or hygene is not up to par, I will do a CBJ, and it results in a bad review.
Hope I am making sense.
Us ladies work hard to stay manicured, pedicured, clean, fresh smelling, etc, yet guys come to us a lot of the time right from work, and are not so fresh themselves, therefore we alter our services unless they hop in the tub and freshen up.
So if a guy lowers out scrore, as a result of us having to alter our normal services due to the example said above, I think it is only fair that we can tell our side of things.
(NOTE: what I said above is an example that
I really experienced, and I am sure others have too)
On a lighter note, 90% of clients are awesome, and become long standing friends. It would be great to respond and thank them for having a great time, and it would be good for other providers to see as a form of a reference when us girls are too busy to get back to other providers when providing refs.
just my 2 cents.. xo Jade
There are some things that we should be able to respond/comment about. I have thought about this.
Julia,
without reviews how will i know that i cant cum in your mouth and that you will not swallow my guey white cream?
i would hate to spend $300 on you and not get what i want to i see girls from reviews that i have read who will do what i want.
