We all know that this business is one of highly "personal" nature.  Getting together with someone new to enjoy the intimate pleasures of their company exposes some unspoken but true racial "stuff".  

We also know that a white garbage collector has an easier time getting good escort service than a 6 figure salaried AA professional like myself.  I don't think it's racism, simply personal preference by the providers.  I'm also not looking for an affirmative action program for my  dick.    But it would be nice to have area that show providers with racial preferences.  

Until this happens I find these online services to be mostly a waste of my time.  I'm only looking  to participate in a little adult fun without being refuse service before being seen.    

Btw... Online AA providers also screen by race.

Being of the Caucasion Persuasion I see many A A's I would love to visit, however, I have been rebuffed more times than not. Would be a good addition all around.

opportunities to offend and lends itself to mischaracterization –how do you know whether the provider just has a personal preference, or is a virulent racist?

       “Don’t ask, don’t tell” remains the best policy. You can always identify yourself as SWM or SBM in initial communication and, if the lady does not respond, you can just move along.

     No matter the reason, "blacks need not apply" is always going to offend some and anyone entering the commercial marketplace can deal with "personal preferences" of this nature in a more discrete fashion.

it would cause many more problems than it would solve, not the least of which would be that the original profile is created by her first reviewer would most likely not have any idea whether or not she was racist, especially if he were white.

I do agree that if a provider doesnot want to see "men of color" she should just be upfront about it rather than waste the time and feelings of others, but in these PC times, even the most racist among us is likely to admit it, especially on an ecommerce site.

It's also not uncommon for a person's personal dislikes to be construed as racism, I have been accused of racism in my life because I didn't care for one particular black person, when in fact I didn't dislike the person for their color, I just didn't like the person for him/herself.

Sorry, but race relations aren't going to be solved here, not until "everybody" is honest at least, which is of course a pipe dream.

I'm confused by all this concern about political correctness. Do you actually think some fat, horny, poor hygiene white guy cares if a provider is racist, lol.   I would suggest non of the clients care if providers are a racist. They are more interested in bbbj quality.

In my experience I think that there are some fairly twisted motivations for the racial "choices" of most providers .  Most of the non reviewed girls are posting pictures that are completely fake or years old.  They feel that black guys may be less forgiving and prone to violence when the discover that 5'5 115 is actually 5.1 150 with flab.   Also somewhere in those young brains they believe that they are less of a "hovider" if they can say with pride "I don't date black guys".   This is especially true for mixed providers or light skin black girls.  And all you fake blondes, get over it....

I started this post because I was amused with the racial silliness that takes place in this "business".  Im a newbie and i feel like im in the deep south in the 50s on here.  I don't expect anything to change, just having some fun with it all.  However I will admit that there have been times that I wanted to change my 6'2 200lb ebony frame into 5'5 200lb white sweaty frame for an hour.   Peace and may white prevail in this business......

Bad idea and usually if a lady doesn't want to see certain folks they state so in theirs ads or on their sites. Though you think it'd take out the surprise of those with racial preferences it could do more harm than good still. It's not just AA providers that screen by race, a lot of women of different varieties do.

Posted By: Anymeans

We all know that this business is one of highly "personal" nature.  Getting together with someone new to enjoy the intimate pleasures of their company exposes some unspoken but true racial "stuff".  

We also know that a white garbage collector has an easier time getting good escort service than a 6 figure salaried AA professional like myself.  I don't think it's racism, simply personal preference by the providers.  I'm also not looking for an affirmative action program for my  dick.    But it would be nice to have area that show providers with racial preferences.  

Until this happens I find these online services to be mostly a waste of my time.  I'm only looking  to participate in a little adult fun without being refuse service before being seen.    

Btw... Online AA providers also screen by race.

Point taken Ms Mocha.   I'm clearly a newbie and I'm learning the ways of online "providing".   In retrospect it all makes sense the way things work.  

Thanks all.....

Posted By: TrulyMsMocha

Bad idea and usually if a lady doesn't want to see certain folks they state so in theirs ads or on their sites. Though you think it'd take out the surprise of those with racial preferences it could do more harm than good still. It's not just AA providers that screen by race, a lot of women of different varieties do.

Posted By: Anymeans

We all know that this business is one of highly "personal" nature.  Getting together with someone new to enjoy the intimate pleasures of their company exposes some unspoken but true racial "stuff".  

We also know that a white garbage collector has an easier time getting good escort service than a 6 figure salaried AA professional like myself.  I don't think it's racism, simply personal preference by the providers.  I'm also not looking for an affirmative action program for my  dick.    But it would be nice to have area that show providers with racial preferences.  

Until this happens I find these online services to be mostly a waste of my time.  I'm only looking  to participate in a little adult fun without being refuse service before being seen.    

Btw... Online AA providers also screen by race.

I know of few people who understand their own personal prejudices (racial or otherwise) and especially any others.

If you're having difficulties it may be something else that you haven't considered - maybe attitude that they're picking up?

I don't know you from Adam, and you seem relatively intelligent (better grammar and fewer spelling errors than the average poster here), so I can only speculate as to the problem. Most of these ladies only discriminate for one color - green, or the lack thereof.

Not saying you're not having a hard time or anything else, but I think you'll have as much luck getting realistic height, weight, age and measurements posted as you do this idea. You'd think the ladies would be interested in keeping their profiles accurate (especially for services rendered), but they do not. It's all marketing and how much green can they get to walk through the door.

Now, before any ladies get in a huff that they enjoy their profession, etc. I am not saying you don't, but let's all be realistic. This is a business venture first.

Spoken like an experienced hobbyist.  Points taken Dog!