Now, I got your attention! There seems to be this great urban myth that unhindered french is an extremely dangerous practice.  But I talked to this doctor friend of mine, and he told me that medical community don't want to say this outright because of some kind of taboo, polite people don't want to talk about such as percentage of population who have practiced masturbation. But the truth is that unhindered french is as dangerous as handshake on hot humid day as long as there is no open bleeding wound between two parties on their specific contact area. So folks, indulge!  Now desiree of pdx, I know your views on this, please be civil with me, you are entitled to your views even if it is incorrect.

I too checked into it and was told by three MD's and an OBGYN that the practice is as safe as mouth to mouth kissing.  
Perhaps even safer!
There are more germs contained in a humans mouth then anywhere else. That fact came from a DDS.

~Mr. Green Eyes~

You guys are deluding yourselves. The risk to the male is relatively low- except if she has a herpetic sore or a syphilis sore- , but the woman is at high risk. The pre-ejaculate can pass on any number of diseases.

Well, we all live and learn, don't we?  But you got to understand life is full of tough choices, such as desire to smoke, desire to intoxicate oneself, desire to drive ferrari, desire to ride motorcycle, desire to ride motorcycle without helmet on windy, rainy day, desire to go swimming, desire to go yachting, desire to go hunting, and desire to fornicate with someone other than one's wife or girlfriend.  Maybe you should ask our former president Clinton why he did bbbj with Monica.  Did you notice? virtually nobody not republicans, christian fundamentalists, feminists, not even medical researchers ever said about unsafe sexual practice of our 42nd president.  It's a trade off, that's all.

Hey Guy From Omaha,
Okay, you may have gone and talked with a doctor about your fetish, he may have told you that it is "relatively" safe.  Now, please ask yourself a question, would you like to kiss me on my mouth if you KNEW that I  just sucked some man dry 45 minutes ago?  And if not 45 minutes ago, just knowing that I make a habit of randomly plopping uncovered bodily fluid spilling objects in my mouth?  Would you want to stick your object in that mouth?
Me personally, If I were a man (especialy married or otherwise attached) I would keep it all wrapped up.  GFO (guyfromomaha, abv.), I am not trying to tell you you are wrong, I am just expessing my alternate opinion.  I care about people, you included, so I feel that I should let you all know that it is not as safe as shaking hands, not by a stretch.
Although, its your penis, do with it what you like.

Oh, if it is sooo safe, why is unprotected sex in any form (vagianl, oral or anal) illegal in Nevada?

I am sure I lose many prospective "clients" with these anti BBBJ posts, but oh well.  


Have a nice day ladies and gents.  Be safe as you wanna be.

Des

BBBJ's are not safe. Maybe "safer" for men than women, but there is NO SUCH THING AS SAFE - only degrees of safety.

I am going to make it clear that the words to follow are MY OPINION.

Gentlemen, asking for a BBBJ shows a complete lack of respect for the provider. I know that most of you are completely unaware of the physical, emotional and locational (is this a real word?) risks quality providers take on a day to day basis. I do not, will not, have not done a BBBJ - if asked it will be the first and last time you will enter my space.

If a provider sees and average of 3 people a day, 5-6 days a week, and provides BBBJ's with half of her clients, at what point do you begin to think she is unsafe? What if something gets passed on to you because one of the providers you saw got something from one of her clients who got is from another provider...

Question? How many clients have told their providers whether or not they have herpes? Even if it is dormant at the time, it can still be passed on.

If you want to be able to play in the hobby for a long time, PLEEEEEEEEEEEASE play safely so we can all be here a while.

Regards,

Miranda Storm

Glad to see that I am not the only provider who has an opinion about this.  

Desiree