Recently a member of the Boston board community posted regarding his frustration with a local agency. According to the poster, he was refused services because he is black. Other threads relevant to this topic have appeared this week on the Florida, Boston, Atlanta and National boards.

This topic goes beyond the issue of racism. Some would say that providers should see everyone. We know that, realistically, this is not the case. Some ladies impose age restrictions or weight or other restrictions related to physical appearance as well as race restrictions. What is the answer?

A. See everybody or get out of the business.

B. The other restrictions are okay but restrictions based on race are not.

C. It’s her body; she can impose whatever restrictions that she feels necessary.

D. The answer is C but she must tell us about it upfront.

E. [Your solution]

This is a hot button topic without question. Take a look at the existing threads.

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=19377&boardID=9&page=6

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=77725&boardID=12&page=1

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=7407&boardID=16&page=1

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=15420&boardID=18&page=1

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=19878&boardID=9&page=1

I would like to invite everyone who has an opinion on this topic to a chat in the Boston chat room next Wednesday, February 18th @ 9:00 P.M. ET/ 6:00 P.M. PT. (If you’re located in another time zone and you’re confused, just enter the chat room the night before. At least you’ll be guaranteed a good seat.

thirsty

Find someone you can deal with and that can deal with you.  There is always someone out there who will deal with you whatever your situation.  Note everyone is going to like everyone for whatever reason.  I for one would not like to make it with a hermaphroditic midget but that does not mean I would not be civil to her/him if I met someone like that on the street.   Also is there some place some discussion area in this world where the pressing problems of the world do not have to invade.  Gimme a break, this discussion group in my opinion should be about the fantasy world we all want to escape to. There are only so many problems any one can deal with in the real world that is why I come to this fantasy world. Don't tread on me.    Wolfie

C.  Her body, her right to see whoever she wants.

Do you see all providers no matter what. Or do you get to decide on her from reviews and photos.
I agree, her body, her business, her right to refuse service to anyone she wishes.

We men are the ones doing the shopping, not the ladies. As long as you act like a man, you should not get turned down. It would be the same kind of bias if you were turned down a the local market. If the ladies do not like it, they are in the WRONG BIZ!!!!!!!!!!!!