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What is a guy to do?sad_smile
sportie 11 Reviews 10352 reads
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I recently tried to make an appointment with a young lady only to be turned down because I had only one reference and I am fairly new to the hobby.  How can one get in to see some of you ladies to establish references when one is new to the hobby?  Because of my living situation right now I can only make incall appointments not outcall.

Like I said what is a guy to do?

When I first entered TER, I worked my way up to who I had on my "A" list with ladies that were not as "nationally recognized" (and, therefore, accepted me more readily).

However, there are many "A" list ladies that would probably work with your scenario.  Just shop around.

Many ladies, such as myself, would also accept a discreet identity screening.  Without references (and even WITH), many ladies just want to know that you are who you say you are... and that your occupation is not a threat to them.

Good luck!
xoxo,
Sola

Yes, true!  Do not lower your standards, that's just plain unfair.  I went through this before, but since most of my ATF's don't give references, but you'll eventually get known.

in case anyone wondered, what I meant by the "B" team was not meant as "lowering standards" as much as understanding that "some" providers may not see you without detailed references, and that often times these are the quote/unquote "A list" national level providers.  The "B" list to me when I started out meant a "local" gal who wasn't a board poster and wasn't known outside of San Diego guys.  Having said that, she rocked my world, and for more than a year, she was my ATF.

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