I posted this on the Newbie board and thought I would post it also just to see the responses.

I have been a ter member for some time now and have been with providers over the years also but I have couple questions that need attention:  1) did ter recently erase many reviews or do that occasionally.  some providers never seem to be in here and some think they are in here but are not...I've tried several different ways to search.  2)I'm not sure that I like for my work to be called.  most of the ladies I've seen in the past are no longer in the Bizzz and some that I have seen over the past couple years don't seem to want to be a reference...so with that said what does a provider really think is the most important reference???  If it is a work reference what kind of questions would they ask your work place but yet keep it discreet???