I had an opportunity to do some business traveling recently, and of course decided to mix business and pleasure.  I perused this board along with a couple others and decided on a provider that had universally great reviews and was insanely good-looking (at least I thought so... without going into any detail, she had a certain ethnic look that really strokes my libido).  She looked even better in person... but the experience was a huge dissapointment.  Not that it was bad... but it fell far short of the expectations raised by her previous reviews, and I can't help wondering why.  I'm a reasonably good-looking guy, I was on my absolute best gentlemanly behaviour and arrived at the incall location fresh-out-of-the-shower squeaky-clean.  I didn't complain or say anything negative as the session progressed... I figured that her boundries are her boundries, and I just followed her lead. After the main event we chatted for a few minutes... she has a very charming, engaging personality and I had her laughing out loud more than a couple times.  When we both left, she was nice enough to lead me back to the freeway (since we were headed in the same general direction and I would have been hopelessly lost otherwise) and I subsequently sent a short email to the agency thanking her for the evening.  But I'm more than a bit upset that apparently I didn't merit the type of service she had become known for.

Yeah, I know I'm probably making a mountain out of a molehill, but I'm still upset and needed to vent more than anything else... I'd really like to see her again just to see if this was an aberation, but I'm not _that_ rich, and there are plenty of other good providers out there.  Again, she's as close to a 10 as I've ever seen (IMHO), we got along great on a personal level... the session was simply sub-par compared to her reviews. If any providers care to weigh in, I'd be interested in any comments you might have... TIA

No chemistry = YMMV...

A) It's always YMMV.  She could have been having a bad day, or maybe she had something on her mind that she couldn't put out of her mind.

B) What's to say her level of service wasn't on par as usual, but you just rate thing differently that the average joe?  Maybe the others in the reviews combined the whole package in the review, where you seem to just be rating the intimacy.

C) What's to say that her boundaries didn't influence you unconciously?  I've seen several reviews of people stating that the lack of a service hampered the session, and if you really desire that service but it isn't offered, even if you respect her boundaries, you're still likely to be bummed.  That feeling is going to influence the overall session.

If this is something that ever happend to me I would hope you would send me an e-mail expressing this to me. After all if she doesn't realize that it wasn't what you had expected how can she change it and make it better for the your next experience or someone elses. Bad day or not sometimes we need to be reminded, other than a review where we don't know who it is. I know if I were to receive a follow up thank you note  I wouldn't have guessed you had anything but a good time. Hope this is of some help.
~CarleeofArizona

I understand that YMMV and that people have bad days... again, I was upset and needed to vent.

Her boundries did influence me, and there wasn't anything unconcious about it... that was exactly the point of my earlier post.  Her reviews go into graphic detail about things that simply didn't happen... anyone's ego would likely be bruised in such a case.

Ok, so I'm whining... shame on me.  For some reason it seemed like a better alternative than posting a poor review.  I didn't want to name her or get into the grizzly details or our encounter versus my expectations...  she really seemed like a nice girl just trying to get by, and I didn't want to hurt her if she was in fact having a bad day.

So... you pay your money, you take your chances... I just felt slighted.

post a review.  An honest, factual review of your experience.  There were almost certainly others before you who saw the same lady and had experiences like yours.  They also probably did not want to write a poor or mediocre review...and this is why you had such high expectations.

I would see her again. maybe she was just having an off day, or her previous appt put her off a bit. It happens. A gift is a good idea too. There are quite a bit of variables that come into play you know. Give her another chance.