how would i go about getting a message to a lady at an agency if i thought they should get checked out for and STD they may have passed to me?  reason i ask is went and got checked and am now on antibiotics till 'it' clears up. i sure as h#ll ain't going to pay $$$ to go talk to her. any idea's???

and just tell her

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that got you into this predicament?  Uncovered FS?  BBBJ?

BBBJ was the culprit

also, for those that have sent me private mail here at TER, since i only have basic access i can not retrieve your message.  i don't know if it is against the policy, but you can mail me directly at [email protected].

Just E-mail her (and any other ladies you been with recently) and explain that you are on antibiotic without accusing her.  It could be she is not the source of your infection and she may like to know that she may have been infected by you.  It is unclear what STD you have but it is also not unusually to have a non sexual related urinary tract infection (E-coli) requiring antibiotics.  In any case you should not be resentful especially since you knowingly accepted the extra risk by doing BBBJ.

I was able to get ahold of the agency, which was an interesting conversation.  All i can hope is they pass along the message, which i believe they will.